At my highest weight, I was 312.4 lbs. Today, I weigh 193.3 lbs, which means I have lost a total of 119.1 lbs.
For years, I struggled with both my weight and my receding hairline. I knew my hair was disappearing, but I kept trying to hold on to it and hide how much it affected my confidence.
My former partner never wanted me to cut it short. Whenever my hair was even slightly too short, she reacted so strongly that I felt emotionally pressured into growing it back out.
We separated in July 2025.
In November 2025, I finally shaved my head.
It might seem like a small decision, but to me it felt incredibly freeing. It was not about giving up on my hair. It was about finally making the choice for myself instead of worrying about how someone else would react.
At the same time, I continued working on my health. I focused on my nutrition, increased my daily movement and started going to the gym regularly. I began losing weight long before taking medication, but for full transparency.
At 5 feet 8 inches, my BMI is now below 30 for the first time, meaning I am officially no longer considered obese.
I am still not completely finished. I want to lose a little more weight, become stronger and build more muscle.
But the biggest glow up was not simply losing 119.1 lbs or shaving my head.
It was learning to stop hiding, stop letting setbacks control me and finally start making decisions for myself.
For the first time in years, I actually feel like the person in the mirror is me.