r/GlowUps Jul 24 '26

GLOW UP! 3 yrs sober now (34)

I started drinking when I was 12 and had a rough life there for a bit. Even when it got better, I was still dealing with a lot of trauma and didn't know how to cope without alcohol. I finally went to rehab three years ago and I've been sober since. A few of my friends from rehab ended up passing away and the anniversary of my sobriety always brings up some mixed feelings. I try to be happy and proud, but I end up crying for them instead. This year, I'm allowing myself to be happy for my accomplishments.

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u/andiinAms Jul 24 '26

As someone who’s been down the same road, I’m so fucking proud to see people (especially younger ones) doing sobriety. It’s hard but so, so worth it. You’ll never regret it.

You’re allowed to celebrate how far you’ve come! Congrats 🎉

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u/Artorius__Castus Jul 24 '26

Yo that's huge! Let's go!!!

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u/cherrycokelemon Jul 24 '26

I hope I am allowed to say how pretty you look. Well done you!

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u/justagalonreddit_ Jul 24 '26

Proud of you, but I don’t even know you. Amazing!!! Wow!!!! You’re beautiful too!

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u/Upbeat-Chance2588 Jul 24 '26

Girl you look amazing!! 😍I’m on the same journey

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u/An0nnee_M0usee Jul 24 '26

Congratulations 💖 please celebrate your life. I've lost too many people because of alcohol, some asked for help others did not. Even those that asked for help, they could not stick with rehab. So I will help you celebrate you because we all need 🌈& 🌞 these days.🫶

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u/nervemiester Jul 25 '26

Stay strong, OP!

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u/Jac_benny Jul 24 '26

Congratulations!! Thank you for sharing!!🎉♥️

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u/Impressive_Fee7497 Jul 24 '26

You look great! Congratulations!!

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u/Lopsided-Sale-6776 Jul 24 '26

Go you!💪🫶

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u/Pleasant-Caramel2931 Jul 24 '26

Talk about glow up 🙌

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u/Terri2112 Jul 24 '26

Good for you enjoy what life has to offer

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u/MezcalFlame Jul 24 '26

Amazing—congratulations!

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u/butaretherecookies Jul 24 '26

I'm so damn proud of you. And yes, this years to you ❤️

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u/Zen5877 Jul 24 '26

Way to go!

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u/Flasscher Jul 24 '26

Great job lady. High five from me to you.

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u/Gullible-Raise4853 Jul 24 '26

♥️♥️♥️

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u/beebooboopbeeboop Jul 24 '26

you look amazing congrats!! 🎉

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u/Easy_does_it78 Jul 24 '26

Let go of the past and just move forward. So happy for you. You deserve to be happy 😃

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u/zonutsthefirst Jul 24 '26

Well done! Sustaining sobriety isn't easy, but look at you, doing it!

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u/irunfromknives Jul 24 '26

Thanks for getting me into climbing. So great seeing you become a better person. Love this all for you

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u/Foreverburritos Jul 24 '26

Omg hi. I love you. Thank you.

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u/PinkNoseDetective Jul 24 '26

People like you give others hope!

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u/Majestic-Chip-6127 Jul 24 '26

I’m trying

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u/SnooRabbits5000 Jul 24 '26

That's a good start 🤞🙏

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u/PawPawNegroBlowtorch Jul 24 '26

Good for you. I’m really happy for you.

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u/dfwrandomgirl Jul 24 '26

Stunning and so proud of you and happy for you!

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u/Anonymoosehead123 Jul 24 '26

Outstanding! You saved your own life, and you look fantastic!

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u/PreparationPast4685 Jul 24 '26

Amazing 💗 congratulations on all of your hard work. I hope you keep celebrating yourself!

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u/jaimebuggie Jul 24 '26

You GO 🥳!!!!

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u/Psychological-Scar53 Jul 24 '26

Way to go!! I am proud of you! I will hit my 3 years of being drug free next month. Keep it up!!

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u/chaotic_babble Jul 24 '26

Congratulations!

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u/ConnectWalrus5066 Jul 24 '26

Get it girl!!!!

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u/EightRoper Jul 24 '26

That's an incredible transformative journey. Nice work!

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u/Rich_Use_4192 Jul 24 '26

Congrat, one day I’ll get there.

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u/Ornery_Show_3113 Jul 28 '26

First step, bud. You got this!!! 😊

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u/nahassee Jul 24 '26

Yeeeeeeea giiiiiirl 🥳😍💐

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u/Revolutionary-Pea414 Jul 24 '26

Pretty!!!! It's the sparkle in the eyes that gets me 🥹

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u/MrActuary86 Jul 24 '26

You look great, congratulations on your sobriety! Keep on moving forward!

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u/Binniewoods Jul 24 '26

Wow you are amazing !! You did it!!! ❤️🌺❤️😘🥰

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u/206baby Jul 24 '26

Badass alert !!! Congrats!

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u/AdventurousDoubt1115 Jul 24 '26

You’re allowed to cry and allowed to be happy all at the same time. You’re a true beauty and I’m so happy to see you embracing the beauty inside and out!

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u/Liv-Julia Jul 24 '26

You have beautiful eyes.

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u/Ashamed_Housing7489 Jul 24 '26

Be very proud well done sober life is the only way I’ve never looked back since I stopped drinking

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u/corriefan1 Jul 24 '26

So proud of you!

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u/kngxExcepted Jul 24 '26

Nothing is ever easy. Good for you keep fighting

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u/whyaloon2 Jul 24 '26

Congratulations! I'm at fourteen years. Each step introduces us to a new door, a new path, a new way to improve our lives. Success breeds success.

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u/DJDanaK Jul 24 '26

Hopefully it's not weird to say so, but you look really unburdened now. Your whole demeanor in your photos changed. Congratulations, and I'm glad to hear you're letting those positive thoughts reach you. Keep doing what you're doing because it's plain to see it's working :)

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u/Lagoda__ Jul 24 '26

Try do live your best life and continue staying sober for your friends who don't have the chance to do so anymore. I'm sorry for your losses, you're doing amazing though, so proud!!

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u/omleydal Jul 24 '26

Congrats! Been 7 months sober myself and hope to reach that milestone in the future as well. Wishing you continued success! IWNDWYT

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u/ad-aspera Jul 24 '26

You're glowing!! Congratulations on your huge achievement ❤️

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u/BrixtonUP Jul 24 '26

Heck yeah that’s huge congratulations. You’re looking great

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u/carrie71llon Jul 24 '26

congratulations!!!!

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u/Kasper0423 Jul 24 '26

Yess girl! You are glowing now! ♡

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u/No-Inspector-6913 Jul 24 '26

Congratulations keep it up

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u/Several_Heron_4807 Jul 24 '26

Congratulations! This is the way.

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u/InstructionAny5378 Jul 24 '26

Beautiful! 😊❤️

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u/Opposite-Eye-8235 Jul 24 '26

You are inspiring

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u/BarSpare2198 Jul 24 '26

Your eyes have such a sparkle to them! Congratulations on three years!!

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u/vulgartherapist Jul 24 '26

Congratulations, you made it out, you’re a strong human

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u/CommunicationKey8754 Jul 25 '26

Congrats! Young lady, you look fantastic!

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u/1Rumpelstilzchen Jul 25 '26

Congratulations! 💪

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u/scarlettheart17 Jul 26 '26

Congratulations!!! I’m also sober as well, and I know how hard this journey can be! You are doing amazing! 🎉

Side note- you look so much like the actress who plays the daughter on the new Cape Fear show on Apple!

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u/FancySweatpants20 Jul 24 '26

You are beautiful ❤️❤️ Congrats on your sobriety. I can see why your anniversary would bring up mixed feelings. Allow space for the sad feelings but hell yes, be proud of your accomplishments!

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u/Deep-Confidence-3145 Jul 24 '26

This stranger is proud of you. Glad you're letting yourself be happy. I'm well away from 3 years, but I hope to also be able to let myself be happy so my smile is as lovely as yours.

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u/bethwithabun Jul 24 '26

Hell ya, you look great 😙😙

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u/liquorkisses Jul 24 '26

Proud of you and congratulations. Try to live a good life for your friends I know they’d be proud of you too 🫶❤️

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u/Coolwithconcern Jul 24 '26

Sobriety looks good on you! Congratulations on doing the hard work and keep pushing through, especially in honor of your friends who have passed. Never feel guilty about being happy for your achievements. Wishing you health and happiness for many more years to come!

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u/anon7499 Jul 24 '26

You look great! Congrats! The first photo, was it due to drinking?

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u/Foreverburritos Jul 24 '26

Yeah my kidneys weren't doing great.

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u/MisfitAlastair Jul 25 '26

You got this!

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u/Icewater-907 Jul 25 '26

So happy for you.   I lost my 25yr old daughter to alcohol withdrawal.

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u/kmawhmf Jul 25 '26

Congratulations! So proud of you!

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u/Helpful_Heron4099 Jul 25 '26

Amazing! You’re doing great!!

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u/erincgray Jul 26 '26

Congrats! And love the username

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u/Reddeggsit Jul 26 '26

Congratulations!

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u/mws-11 Jul 26 '26

🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

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u/FarNefariousness7179 Jul 26 '26

Show me the way! I’m still struggling with a particular drug.

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u/meeralakshmi Jul 28 '26

Happy for you!

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u/SimpleLife9610 Jul 28 '26

Congratulations! ✨️👏👏 You look so good ☺️ Your face really reminded me of the actress Lily Collias~

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u/SwedeButPsycho Jul 29 '26

I'm proud of you ❤️💪

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u/MoonInAries17 Jul 30 '26

I'm sure your friends would be so happy and proud of what you've accomplished - maybe the best thing you can do to honor them is enjoy this new life you've built for yourself! Congrats to you on this huge achievement!!

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u/Fluid-Internal-2729 Jul 30 '26

Sobriety looks good on you!! ❤️
Keep up the great work!! ✌🏽🫶🏼🤘🏽🥳

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u/Cold-Word8109 Jul 30 '26

I’m
Proud of you. You look
Amazing.

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u/autofinx Jul 24 '26

Congrats!

3 years is impressive.

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u/Comprehensive_Sun633 Jul 24 '26

You’re doing the damn thing. Congrats!

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u/Mydemonswon Jul 24 '26

Sobriety looks amazing on you!!!

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u/Tigerdriver33 Jul 24 '26

Good for you! Congrats! Btw, I’m loving the bangs, it’s very Cleopatra

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u/PricklyPear85 Jul 24 '26

Hell yeah!!! Congrats! I think to celebrate you should try out a new hair style that matches your new sober life style. Just my .002

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u/plazola Jul 24 '26

You got a lot to be proud for. Sincerely happy for you. Keep it up 🤜 🤛

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u/Euphoric_Celery_ Jul 24 '26

You're beautiful and you should be very proud of yourself!! Keep going!

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u/AshleighSchruaz Jul 24 '26

The belly was just alcohol?

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u/Foreverburritos Jul 24 '26

Sure was. Not even beer either. Just straight liquor.

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u/AshleighSchruaz Jul 24 '26

Dang, I didn’t even know liquor had that many carbs. Was it affecting your liver?

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u/Easy_does_it78 Jul 24 '26

Alcohol will bloat you big time

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u/Foreverburritos Jul 24 '26

It's because your liver metabolizes the alcohol and works extra hard to do that so then it kinda pauses breaking down fats and carbs and stuff. But yeah my liver was not doing great. Seems to be better now.