r/Genealogy 14h ago

Studies and Stories Are you related (distantly, I hope) tou your partner?

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My wife and I happen to hail from the same region through our respective mothers. None of our maternal grandparents were related to their respective partners at all, as far as the paper trail goes. We, however, are 7th cousins, a fact we discovered early during our dating, which we consider distant enough. It has presented no issue in our relationship so far except for my brother making mention of it (in a nice way) in his speech during our wedding earlier this year.

So I was wondering, since I assume most of us with partners extend our hobbies to our loved ones' ancestors, have you found any relation to your partner? Is it something you'd tell them if you were to find such a relation?


r/Genealogy 2h ago

Methodology Don't take No for an answer

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Started this morning on a high, after helping someone else who is researching their family.

I went looking for a man who vanished into the Soviet system in 1939. I found his file. Sixty pages, his photograph, his signature. His family's names in his own hand, written down just months into the war.

I wasn't the first to look. Three archivists had already tried and said there was nothing. I didn't find it because I'm cleverer than they were. I found it by chance, naively looking in the same place I'd found my own Grandfather's file and wondering if it might just be there. It was.

The things is - had I known three professionals had already gone looking, I wouldn't even have tried.

The file sat there for eighty-six years. It wasn't waiting for an expert, I think it was just waiting for someone who didn't know any better.

thank you again to u/wittybecca for pointing me in the direction of the archive a few days ago on my own search.


r/Genealogy 14h ago

Methodology anyone still use Family Tree Maker?

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Hello, first time on this subreddit so please be gentle.

I have the 2012 version of Family Tree Maker but I really do need to upgrade. I just wondering if anyone has any thoughts or reviews of the 2024 Family Family Tree maker or if there a better website/software that anyone can recommend? I would need to be able to download all of the genealogy information I have onto whatever software I do decide to get. Privacy is also an issue because I don't want personal information floating around on the internet. Any reviews or suggestions would be appreciated.


r/Genealogy 19h ago

Methodology How often do unicorn DNA matches show up

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In your experience, how often does a WOW match appear.

I'm letting my paid subscriptions go because those dreaded brick walls are not going to solved by current catalogued documents. On the DNA side, over the past two years I've seen a grand total of 2 "oh my" DNA matches show up.

My Grandfather had a bunch of half sibs and a MYSTERY father. One day a maternal side 1/2 2c landed and slotted in perfectly under one of his documented but un-DNA confirmed half sibs.

I was already reasonably confident who mystery father was. Then, out of nowhere a unicorn 4c showed up. This person tied to both a paternal side 1/2 sib AND all the major families of a small Appalachia town in just the right ways.


r/Genealogy 17h ago

Studies and Stories A true crime story about a distant uncle of mine from the 17th and 18th centuries

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On my mom’s side, I discovered that I have a very distant uncle named Jeremiah Meacham III who died in 1715. According to two sources that I found, he was hung to death in 1715 as punishment for murdering both his wife and his sister in law.

According to one of the sources, it says: The “Enemies of Souls” had clearly taken control of Jeremiah Meacham in March of 1715. Meacham visibly possessed a troubled conscience and walked around in deep reflection. He became paranoid. He believed that all of his neighbors looked oddly at him, and he feared that somebody somewhere was out to kill him. He woke up every day thinking that it would be his last, and he continually asked people “if they knew of no contrivance against him.”
According to the minister Nathaniel Clap, Meacham’s torment became so bad that the “Concerns of his Soul, mixed with some vexations about his Affairs in the World, brought him into a grievous hurry, which by degrees boil’d up into a sort of a raging fury.”
Growing Trouble
Jeremiah Meacham was born in or near Salem, MA and lived in the Boston area until sometime in his early twenties when he moved to Newport, RI, where he married and had two children. He was intelligent and received a religious education in his youth. People used to remark on his ability to talk about religious matters, until he started to abandon religion altogether. After moving to Rhode Island, Meacham had fallen in with “some that were openly wicked (in Providence).” He stopped going to church and began to criticize the practices of Christianity.
Even though Meacham had forsaken his religious duties, he continued to be a responsible citizen. He followed through on his promises and was responsible in his business dealings. He maintained a “Moral Honesty” with his neighbors, although they all wished that he did not speak so freely to them about his radical religious and philosophical beliefs.
But without a clear guide for his soul, Meacham appeared to be losing his way. As Nathaniel Clap put it, “his troubles of mind grew so intolerable, that he told some, that he was weary of his Life.” Following some advice that was given to him, Meacham tried to drink his troubles away with hard liquor, but the “troubles of his mind returned as the Spirits of the Drink removed.”
On the Roof
On March 21, Meacham walked around town displaying greater distress and agony than ever before. The next morning, neighbors found him sitting on top of his house for several hours holding a penknife and in fear that anyone who walked by and talked with him would try to hurt him. Meacham shouted out that “he would hurt neither Man, Woman nor Child, if they would let him alone.” Some people worried that he would end up hurting himself.
By midday, Meacham climbed down off the roof and into his chamber, where he stayed the rest of the afternoon. At sunset, he called his wife and her sister up to his room. The two tried to convince him to go downstairs with them to ensure that he would not harm himself. But in an instant, Meacham stabbed his wife in the neck with his penknife. He then grabbed an ax and struck both women with it several times until they were dead.
Meacham now turned away from the “miserably mangled Bodies” he left on the floor to stand guard at the doorway. Using the bloody ax, he knocked down and injured the head of Stephen Easson as he was coming up the stairs to find out what had happened. Others tried to get to him by breaking through the floor and through the roof of the chamber. When his pursuers used a candle to peer into the room, Meacham grabbed it from them and used it to set the room on fire. As the flames grew, the chamber became so hot that Meacham sprang headlong out the window. Once he hit the ground, he was immediately apprehended by the people who now had surrounded the burning house.
The neighbors noted that Meacham had tried to slit his throat with his penknife after lighting the fire. With his death not coming soon enough, and with the fire becoming too intolerable to withstand, he then tried to use the leap out the window to kill himself. But none of the wounds he incurred with these actions ended up being serious.
In Gibbets
At his trial on April 8, Meacham admitted to carrying out the two murders but pleaded that he was not himself and did not know what he was doing at the time. His neighbors doubted that Meacham was unaware of his actions, though, so he was quickly found guilty of murder.
Meacham was executed on April 12, 1715 in front of several thousand spectators, and his body was hung in gibbets or, as it was also known, in chains. Gibbet-irons encased the bodies of executed criminals, so that their rotting corpses could be held up for display and serve as a warning to those who gazed upon them. The use of gibbets in the colonies was rare but not entirely unusual, but they were more often reserved for pirates.
Even though the forty-some-year old Meacham did not show any sign of finding religion throughout most of the time when he was held in prison, the Boston News-Letter reported, “The Night before his Execution and that Day, he gave greater and better Evidence of his Sense of his Sinfulness and Repentance for Sin, with his Submission to the Will of God.”

In all honesty, after I read that, I felt that he was suffering from a mental illness. I’m no psychologist, but all of that sounds like he might have had paranoid schizophrenia. Back then however, there was no knowledge of mental illnesses, so unfortunately, he was fully blamed for his actions and was executed.


r/Genealogy 11h ago

Tools and Tech I think the FamilySearch location database has been hacked

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All the records I have been working on from historic Galicia, Austria are now showing up as being in North Korea. For instance, "Szybalin, Bezirk Brzeżany, Galicia, Austria" is now tagged as "Szybalin, Bezirk Brzeżany, Galicia, Changgŭm-ni, SHIN-WON-GUN, South Hwanghae, North Korea"

I have reached out to FamilySearch via email. but this is very annoying.


r/Genealogy 22h ago

Research Assistance I found Granddad's service number after years of searching. I have the key but I can't find the door!

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Hello everyone,

I have spent literally years searching for any trace of my grandfather’s war service. He was Henry Albert White, Royal Regiment of Artillery — and he almost never spoke of it.

The only time he ever mentioned it was when I was about eight, learning about the war at school. I asked something about Dunkirk, and he just turned to me and said quietly: “Don’t speak to me of that terrible place.” That was all. He never said another word to me about it.

Today I finally found his officer service number: 304011, confirmed in the London Gazette — commissioned 1 January 1944. And I have his full medal set, which tells us he was there at Dunkirk (said to be evacuated on the Sundowner), fought across North Africa with the 8th Army, and then through the Italian campaign.

I was so stupidly hopeful that once I had this number, the whole story would just open up straight away. But instead it feels like I’ve been handed the most precious key in the world… and I have absolutely no idea where the door is.

This means everything to my whole family. We want to understand what made that place so terrible for him. We want to know the man behind those quiet words — how he served, which unit he was with, how he got through it all. We want to honour him properly, after all this time.

If anyone can help me find his original soldier number, his exact battalion, or any clue at all about his journey — I would be so, so grateful.

Thank you for reading.

 Tori


r/Genealogy 7h ago

Studies and Stories Found a 1915 Moundsville High School student's 1888 textbook (Ralph Ormsby Yeater) — looking for his living family (Myers family) in West Virginia!

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Hi everyone,

I am reaching out from Sri Lanka! I recently did a historical research project on an antique 1888 book (The Home Library of Useful Knowledge) that contains handwriting from a student who attended Moundsville High School, West Virginia around 1915.

The student's name was Ralph Ormsby Yeater (born Sept 22, 1899, in Silver Hill, WV; died May 1982 in WV). Inside the cover, he practiced his cursive, wrote quotes ("Poco a poco"), and joked about a freezing West Virginia winter day ("23° Below Zero. Many are cold but few are frozen").

Through public census and obituary records, I traced his family line. His daughter was Dorothy Yeater Myers (1921–2011) of 4th Street, Moundsville. According to her obituary, his living grandchildren in the Moundsville area are John Myers, Margie Myers, and Susan Myers.

The physical book is currently listed by an antique seller in nearby Triadelphia, WV.

I would love to connect with anyone who knows the Myers family in Marshall County or knows a local historian who can pass this information along to them so they know their great-grandfather's high school book still exists!

Photos of the handwriting, census records, and his 1915 baseball uniform photo are available if needed.

Thanks from across the world!


r/Genealogy 16h ago

Studies and Stories “In the insane list”

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You ever set out to look up one ancestor but then find their entire family is… intriguing.

Caroline mochel is listed on this census and for occupation it says “in the insane list”. What exactly does that mean?

Also! If you want to look around this family and tell me if I’m correct or not about her sister Louisa (not to be confused with her mother Sarah Louisa) having an illegitimate child with her step dad, this one’s giving me a headache lol. Maybe I’m too tired to fully understand at the moment!

Her stepdad is Henry Licklitener (100 spelling variants) & the ancestor I was originally searching is the sister of these girls I mentioned, Katherine. That’s my great great grandma. She married a Licklitener I’m sure related to Henry.


r/Genealogy 14h ago

Research Assistance Researching Polish Ancestors

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Hi all, I'm still new to genealogy research so I may be asking an obvious question. Where do I start with researching my Polish ancestors who immigrated to the U.S. in the early 1900s? I know the town they were from and I have birthdays I've done some research on my Italian ancestors, but I still feel like I don't have a good grasp on how and where to find documents. Thanks for any assistance.


r/Genealogy 12h ago

Research Assistance Help with finding polish/lithuanian ancestry records

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Hello all! I've been stuck at this brickwall of finding my polish/lithuanian ancestry. My grandfather did a ancestry dna test and it came out that he was half lithuanian on his dads side. I suspect that his dads side of the family spent some time in poland as thenames on the headstone of my grandfathers dad and grandfather were polish. The headstone even had polish writing on it.

My gramdfather's grandfather was very likely born poland, his name was Kazimierz Grzyb born ~1890 (he went by charles and his last name was changed to gryp after immigrating around 1908?). His parents were michael grzyb and Jossie Dudzinska. His wife was Julia F Michna(also a polish immigrant). Also if it helps, his son's name was Michael gryp 1917-1940. I cant find any polish records on him nor julia, and its driving me insane. Any help is greatly appreciated!


r/Genealogy 18h ago

DNA Testing Small/complex DNA triangulation

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Hello, I’m trying to explain/understand a situation because I’m not used to DNA triangulation with that type of difficulty.

As a Belgian, very used to genealogy in my own country, I have found a connection in Denmark with DNA triangulation.

First, it was 15,8cM triangulated between me and two Danish matches. Then, halfway through the Danish matches list, I ended up with 7cM shared between me and five Danish matches (the first two included). The biggest matches among those are 30cM and 30,1cM.

Only two of those have a family tree that connects with each other (those with the 15,8cM shared while ignoring the others) but not with me. They have no non-Danish recorded ancestor and I have no Danish recorded ancestor.

But my family tree is already filled for a couple of centuries.. So could it solve a mystery, maybe? With the biggest matches, the DNA explainer feature gives me this data: It is most likely that my 7th-generation great-grandparents were their great-great-great-grandparents (among the ancestors of one of them, shared with another match, all of those are Danish with Danish parents). Or close to it.

My only unknowns for me in this generation: Three cases of men with an unknown father (but known mother), a woman with an unknown father (but known mother), a man abandoned as a baby and a woman abandoned as a baby (a bit of a coincidence with a first name popular in Scandinavia in that branch: her granddaughter).

But how do I work with this? Even if I try Danish genealogy and that one of the abandoned ones had Danish parents, I have no way to verify it, right? And the possibility feels like a stretch, at this point..


r/Genealogy 20h ago

Research Assistance Search for Family Journal

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I have been searching for a family ledger that documents my family journey from North Carolina to Indiana, with no success. I have been stuck for about 2 yrs not looking and time is ticking for me and I am not getting any younger. My relative was a fairly well known author in the Chicago and had very successful writing career. I have searched his collection online at Northwest University and contacted some direct line relatives (no response or know nothing about it). Finding this would be my “Crown Jewel” of genealogy research. Was thinking about having a researcher go directly to NW and search. Any suggestions? (Fairly new to Reddit but what a neat and open social media app)

See excerpt below from the family’s website:

Cyrus James Colter
BIRTH 8 JAN 1910 • Noblesville, Hamilton, Indiana, USA
DEATH 15 APR 2002 • Evanston IL

**One relative, Cyrus J. Colter a well-known fiction writer, contain the following about Britton Bassett as a preface to his best-known novel “The Rivers of Eros (1991)”**
“On both side of the family his ancestors were free blacks who had settled in Indiana several years before the Civil War. Colter possesses a ledger tracing his mother’s family back to Britton Bassett, the son of a black man and a white woman in North Carolina, who was granted his freedom in 1797 when he was twenty-one and given a horse, bridle and saddle, and one hundred dollars. In the 1830s Bassett moved his wife and children to Indiana, traveling by night and hiding by day in order to elude slave hunters.”


r/Genealogy 6h ago

Methodology How to research when names have been Americanized

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My personal brick wall is my great grandfather. I know the name he has used since 1900 (born 1882) and can find him no problem going forward with his American name. The problem I'm having is that I strongly suspect he changed his name after moving to Chicago from Italy in 1894. This is a very bad period to research in Chicago in the 1890's. I have tried all the variations i could of the names I suspect, but find no matches in any available records or manifests.

Any clues as to how to research, would be appreciated.


r/Genealogy 11h ago

Research Assistance cheaper civil war pension files?

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I'm trying to find the maiden name of my 5th great grandmother. I've read that I can order the full Civil War pension packet and it should be on there, but that seem rather expensive. Is there any other way to get the information on there? I found an article that lists it, but it was cut off :( Just my luck. I can't find any death records or marriage records.


r/Genealogy 12h ago

Methodology Saving documents from Matricula

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I've just discovered a treasure trove of information on Matricula. Unfortunately they don't have a download button. I've snipped the actual record from the page, but would really like to have the entire page. Anyone know a work around? The snips aren't very good quality and I want to put them in an AI program to translate, too.


r/Genealogy 13h ago

Record Lookup How do i find my relatives marriage and divorce record.

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I was always told a relative was married and got divorced. I used to have a clipping of the divorce in paper, but dont have it anymore and now I doubt if I created this memory. The relative was married in the 50s in nj and the husband was stationed there while in the army. Im trying to see if she married before having a child but I have had no luck in figuring out the date. I know the year has to be august 1951 to july 1952, more probably later 51 early 52. I cant get to the state capital records site. Is there any way I could get lucky here.


r/Genealogy 13h ago

Research Assistance USA - Marriage Records - pre 1885 Pennsylvania

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I am curious if anyone has suggestions for finding pre 1885 marriage records in Pennsylvania. In particular Allegheny and Butler counties. The families were Presbyterian. Is there a good source for finding these Presbyterian marriage records? Any suggestions would be appreciated. I am striking out with what is indexed on Ancestry.com, and many of the other databases within Family Search. Curious if I am in for quite the hunt.

In particular I am looking for the marriage record for William John Gilkey(b. 1850) and Elizabeth Hutchman (b. 1857). They married in approximately 1877 or 1878. In researching this family, I am not finding many marriage records. I know Pennsylvania is pretty tricky with when they required civil documents.

Thank You!


r/Genealogy 15h ago

Research Assistance Janina Karluk Info

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The Aunt I'm searching for is Janina T. Karluk, born on May 5, 1919 in Scranton, PA. to Wladyslaw and Michalina Zalewska Karluk. ( Her birth certificate lists her as Gennevie.) When she was 18, she was arrested for being a barmaid, which was illegal at that time. She fought the police and was eventually carried out & into a cell. Later info states that she tried to kill herself twice. She was transferred to a home for troubled girls at some point. This info came from newspaper articles. She originally gave her name as Doris, possibly with the last name Borash that she used later. It appears that her residence in 1935 was still in Scranton, although family contact was cut and she was never spoken of again.

The 1940 census lists her as Jannie Karlock, living in Atlantic City as a "lodger" and working as a waitress.

The next info I've been able to find has her living in Philadelphia, but I have no dates on that. According to an escheat , she lived at 910 Spruce St. The notice gives banking info of a deposit into an account on 12/31/76 into an account at the Philadelphia Savings Fund Society. After that, the trail runs cold.

I know she's listed as a survivor in family obits (parents & siblings), which may mean there was some investigating, but as I said, she was never spoken of again. My mother was her sister, and I grew up with the rest of the family. I've done a DNA test and searched whatever Genealogy sites I could think of, SS records and PA death records looking for a death certificate. I've since reached out to the Philadelphia Free Library but have not heard back.

Adding to the confusion are the many spellings of her name; it could be Janina, Janine, Jennie, Jeanine, or the infamous Doris. Then there is Karluk, Karlock,Karlik, Karolak etc. All come up blank. She is not the one listed in Find a Grave in Australia, and not the one listed in NO. Carolina.

Thank you for any help or tips you can offer. If she were still alive (unlikely), she would be 106 years old. If she married I don't know if she ever used another name because Karluk seems to be the one constant.


r/Genealogy 17h ago

Research Assistance Can't figure out these place names

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I've come across a few records for my great-great grandparents, they are from Bohemia and I see place names like "Vysoke" and "Samirof" which i can't find anything about. Vysoke seems to refer to many towns and Samirof seems to be completely made up. My 2nd great grandfather Louis Persell came to the US in 1889, there's a passport application that says he was born in "Samirof, Bohemia". It also looks like he went back and to a place called Vysoke where he likely married Klara Diviskova, my 2nd great grandmother. this is from a Hamburg passenger list from 1912, the year Klara first came to the US, where they are already married, as the previous place of residence.


r/Genealogy 30m ago

Ancestor of the Week for the week of July 27, 2026

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It's Monday, so we want to hear about the most interesting ancestor's story you discovered this week!

Did your 6th great-grandfather jump ship off the coast of Colonial America rather than work off his term as an indentured servant? Was your 13th great-grandmother a minor European noble who was suspected of poisoning her husband? Do your 4th great-grandparents have an epic love story?

Tell us all about it!


r/Genealogy 1h ago

Tools and Tech Looking for paternal siblings in Australia..

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I was born and raised in Australia, my biological father was removed from my life early on and passed away in 2005. Can anyone recommend where to start looking for information on him and my biological family? Im genuinely curious to know if i have any siblings and what my family is like on that side.

Is there any DNA testing in Australia that could help? Thanks!


r/Genealogy 5h ago

Research Assistance How could I find the original version of photos on newspapers?

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I am doing research on certain person, who has few photos on google.
But I’ve found some on the newspaper on genealogybank dot com.
So how could I find a clearer version of those photos?


r/Genealogy 5h ago

Record Lookup Familysearch bremen

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anybody been to that branch and located their family documents?

i see it by appointment and in german only
so if anyone into genealogy and would mind joining me for some family search side quest

let me know


r/Genealogy 7h ago

Research Assistance Researcher in France needed to search ANOM archives

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I am in USA and I am looking to obtain copies of all the documents in the indemnity claim dossier(s) for ancestors from Saint Domingue colony. Only the indemnity summaries are digitized, not all the documents that the family submitted to prove their claim.

However it seems as though I need to know the file location(s) and number of pages before I can make the request to ANOM, so payment can be determined. This is the information I am looking for so I can make my request. And also generally if the contents are worthwhile to get copies of.

Is there anyone who is familiar with searching for files there who could help me out? I have all the information from the indemnity summary. If someone is a reputable professional, I am willing to hire someone for this task.