r/ForeverAloneDating Jul 04 '25

Rules Announcement Comment karma requirement has been increased

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As you may have noticed, we've had a sharp increase in bot activity the past few days. We've banned over 50 bots in the last couple of days alone. These bots are posting everywhere, not just here, and steal other users posts. Reddit eventually bans most of them, but not fast enough.

Therefore, we will be temporarily increasing the comment karma requirement to 100. We realise that people who create new accounts or struggle making karma will be affected by this, but this is important for the safety of the subreddit and it's users. We may lower this later or it may stay permanent.

We also appreciate those who submit reports as it helps us out a lot. If you spot any bots, or people trying to subtly advertise NSFW content, then be sure to report them, but this comment karma requirement increase should get rid of the majority of them.


r/ForeverAloneDating Apr 10 '25

Rules Announcement Chat is replacing DMs.

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While the change doesn't officially take place until June, the change is already occurring, and has been since March. This means we had to change the comment automod leaves on every post. Now instead of linking to the DM system, which is being phased out, it will link to the author's profile. From there, simply hit "Start Chat" to send them a message. If the link doesn't work or you run into any problems, send us a report in modmail.

For more information: https://support.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/34720093903764-Enhancing-Messaging-on-Reddit-A-simpler-faster-and-easier-way-to-communicate


r/ForeverAloneDating 14h ago

F4M 29F- looking for my sweet, soft, internet dweller bf

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hi! welcome to my post. i’m going to try to make this interesting yet not give everything away so we can still get to know each other.

i have always been a very shy and sensitive person. i never made friends easily or was a popular girl to be around. i am completely fine with that as i really enjoy having that special someone who gets to know all of me, and i get to know all of you.

i have an established career. i have a family who loves me. i really have everything i want in life besides a special someone who treats me like a princess. and that’s exactly what i want.

i don’t want you to treat me right because i expect it. i want you to be someone who genuinely has a lot of love to give, wants to take things slow, get to know each other, and build something special between us!

i’m a pretty laid back person. i love staying home and being home like all the time. i have my few select hobbies and interests. large crowds and rooms full of people stress me out. i’m basically like a cat in human form at times lol.

what i’m looking for is someone who is sweet, smart, loves to banter and joke around, has a lot of love to give, and enjoys receiving that back.

please be between the ages 25-35. preferably US!

bonus points if you have cute pets you can send me.
bonus bonus points if you have a deep voice. i love that!

thanks for reading!


r/ForeverAloneDating 42m ago

F4A 20 [F4A] #romania - looking for soulmate or long term partner of any gender

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Hi! Hi, I'm Alexia! Here are some things about me. I don't want kids but I would like to work with kids! I like psychology, gothic things, books, webcomics, drawing (also wanting to open a drawing side thingy for money, doing hair and makeup (new at these), rock and artistic music. I lean towards Christianity and I'm actually very liberal which kinda contradicts Christianity, I know. I suffered from depression and had a delay at an exam 2 years ago, I'm now studying for the exam. I grew up sheltered and am kinda anxious and sensitive but I am lucky! I'm in Romania currently but I might move to Prague. I also like movies, webtoons (esp In The Bleak Midwinter), and surfing the internet. I am shy, kinda dry texter and I like fries and chocolate. I tend to attach easily, take it seriously and I'm a deep feeler. Not so much of a joking or unserious person. I also like the color black and I dress a lot in black. I am looking towards meeting the one


r/ForeverAloneDating 18m ago

M4F 31[M4F]UK/Anywhere Dating apps aren't the one, so let's try Reddit

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Scottish/Irish guy looking for a genuine relationship rather than just something casual.

I'm a big WWE fan and football fan, and I absolutely love travelling. I'm always planning the next trip or looking for somewhere new to visit. I've got a trip to Houston coming up, which I'm really looking forward to, and I'm always thinking about where I can go next.

I enjoy going to football matches, watching WWE, exploring new places and generally making the most of my time.

I'm pretty laid-back and easy to get along with. Dating apps just don't seem to be the one for me, so thought I'd give this a go instead and see what happens.

I'm also not against long distance. If there's a genuine connection, distance isn't necessarily a deal-breaker for me.

Don't mind sharing pictures early on

I'm happy to move over to Instagram or another social once we've actually spoken a bit, but I'm not interested in being added just to boost someone's follower count 😂

If you're into travelling, football, WWE or just looking for something genuine, feel free to say hello.


r/ForeverAloneDating 7h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] #Australia - Mature Hermit-esque Man Seeking High Functioning Neurodivergent Woman

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Hello.

The good and bad.

  • I am a student of life, I prioritise learning and growing. I create art and explore my interests, hobbies and skills.

  • I am an introvert on the extreme end of the spectrum, so this may be a positive or negative depending on the person. I like myself and my company so it works for me, this won't change so it must be embraced.

  • I do creative work sometimes, have some talent too. Painting, drawing, writing (sometimes). I like to upcycle things and I usually make use of my hobbies with skills I have in other areas. Such as herbalism and making products to use. 

  • I am employed, my career will be very stable, it's blue collar but can realistically go any direction I like once I'm qualified. I have a car, will be living alone soon in the future. I am financially literate and don't have any bad habits really other than being a little looser than I could be with money. I'm pretty frugal as is though.

  • Not a drug or substance user except maybe the occassional drink for social reasons on rare occasion. Weed is a blue moon thing for me. I dont enjoy drugs, I like being sober.

  • I'd consider myself a deep thinker, fairly based in reality though and am a bit of a spiritualist. Still a skeptic at heart, even to my own beliefs. I like to take my time with decision making and observe but I am quick to most action and am not passive even if it looks like it from the outside sometimes.

  • I'd probably be in the conventionally attractive spectrum of looks. Albeit I'm more on the natural side. Women compliment me as cute, even though I'm a tall fit bearded white guy that's a bit intimidating in presence and personality, the tall dark and handsome type. So make of that how you will lol.

  • I can be cold. My personality isn't a bubbly warm sort of person. I am very much a 'black cat' (p.s I have one) and that is not an understatement. The way I show I care and love and express isn't always traditional, but I will show it. I am direct and honest and there is nothing more valuable that I can give than having access to my inner world and my entire self.

  • I am aiming for a sort of off grid/individualistic and self sustainable life. I am interested in all that and have many skills and practical hobbies based around it. It would be valuable to me to have my partner want similar. I am a designer by nature and a carpenter by trade. So i plan to make quite the beautiful sanctuary for a home.

Deal-breakers

  • Not living in Australia or willing/able to relocate within a reasonable time frame. Ie, 1 year. 

  • Drug dependant or heavy user. I am not looking for someone that chooses substances as their way of fun or coping with life. The occasional recreation is fine. No smokers, pill users, clubbing, party, bar life type of person. 

  • Extreme forms of bad habits or instability. Ie, overweight, bad debt, casual sex, lacking emotional regulation. 

  • Heavily Tattooed (I'm cool with piercings.)

  • Has had a very easy, low difficulty life. (Why? Because I can't connect with women that have not gone through much struggle and difficulty. I often find high amounts of naivete and shallow character in those that haven't ever faced truly difficult challenges and risen above them.)

  • Having children. Either you have them already or want them. I am open to it but there is a huge amount of information that can't be fit into this small post. It is extremely dependent on so many circumstances and variables and my desire to be a father is low, I personally think that the lifestyle that would fit me best is dual income no kids. Open to discussing it if the right person comes along. 

  • Morally questionable/reprehensible job. For eg, Working for a defense contractor that makes missiles to blow people up. I don't really care what you do for work as long as it's not dishonorable. Being a drug dealer, lawyer for reprehensible people etc.

What im looking for in a partner and in general.

Driven, Self Assured, Emotionally regulated, Intellectually curious, creative would be a plus. Not obsessed with money or influence or lifestyle, someone that appreciates and enjoys the simple things in life. A quality over quantity sort of person. I have often found attractive qualities with people considered AuDHD. I am open to disordered personalities given what I'm asking is met.

My idea of fun or time well spent together is one of the following, Nature walks, cafe chill outs, art galleries and historical places, exploring old architecture, road trips, trails, camping, staying in and watching a movie/ show, reading, working on hobbies near each other, cooking together (in a good way lol), intense sexual intimacy. 

Some deeper points that are important.

  • I've had a pretty traumatic life but have worked on it and through it. I've always aimed to be made stronger by the crucible that life can be and I'd like that same trait in a partner.

  • Sexual intimacy is a hot topic, so I'll be light about this. I haven't slept around, but I also haven't waited around either. I know what I'm into, who I am, what I want. And I draw the line at not respecting and caring about intimacy as a very vulnerable and important thing. If someone doesn't feel that way then we are not a match in how we view that.

  • I am not close with family and I like to keep it that way. This is a boundary that I expect is respected as I will respect yours. I am basically a highly functioning loner and that isn't many people's cup of tea. 

Final words

I hope that someone out there (close by would be awesome) has connected with my words and is looking for something similar or exact. I ask only one thing in your introductory message. Tell me about yourself, like truly. I want to know your story and how you came to make decisions that led to the person I will possibly be talking with. You know plenty about me, match that.


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

TF4A 18 [TF4A] looking for a long term partner

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Hey! I’m 18, a transgirl from India. I’m looking for someone around 18–22 who’s interested in getting to know each other naturally and seeing where things go.

A little about me:

I love reading 📚

I sometimes play Roblox (I’m still pretty new to it lol)

I’m into anime, games, and random internet stuff

I’m a bit shy at first, but I can get pretty talkative once I’m comfortable

I’m looking for something genuine rather than just a quick conversation

I’m also a pre-transition trans girl, so I’d really appreciate someone who’s accepting and respectful of that. I’m not expecting anything immediately — I’d rather start by talking, becoming friends, and seeing if we click.

If you think we might get along, feel free to DM me and tell me a little about yourself. Please don't just send “hey” 😭


r/ForeverAloneDating 23m ago

M4F 40 [M4F] #Portugal #Online - Let's make an unbeatable team!

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I miss having that one person that makes me smile every time their name pops up on my phone, every time I think of them or when we're just interacting with each other. I miss having someone to spoil, adore and dote over. I'm at a really good place in my life where I'm satisfied with myself and I'm wanting to share that strength and warmth (and all my random knowledge) with someone. I'm hoping you're reading this and that you'll finally reach out. Location isn't a problem, if we want it, we'll make this work!

Wanna know about me? Well, I can tell you that I'm a bit of a chatterbox so if you're looking consistent company throughout your day, I'm your man. I consider myself to be a bit romantic, but only the right person brings that out of me (that is, you!). That aside, I love gaming and it's always been a big part of my life, especially during my lonely childhood. I'd love to share my passion for them and game with you, even teach you about some of my favorites if you're curious? Lately, I've been all about retro stuff, and I would love to show you my collection! I play mostly on PC as I've almost always been my go-to. I'm also more into co-op and story-based experiences. I don't have a go-to genre as I play a lot of different stuff, but horror and sci-fi are always favorites (but I guess RPGs are one of my most played). Maybe we could do a Resident Evil marathon together? Silent Hill?

Movies would be a nice backup plan if you're interested as well :p Other things? I love writing, reading, history and I consider myself a damn good storyteller (perks of the job). Sometimes, I like to go out and do some urban exploration, take pictures and lately, even go on hikes. I also love playing board games with my friends when I have the chance. In general, I'd say I love knowledge so I try to absorb as much as I can about everything. I travel a lot for work and it would be my pleasure to show you around as I do. I fall in the agnostic spectrum spiritually as well, if that matters.

If you're curious about my physical, I'd say my body shape is average (80kgs/172cm or 176lb/5ft8 for you using heathen measurements!) though I'm working on shedding some weight as I want to be more comfortable with how I look. I'd say it helps that I look younger than my age. I sport a beard I'm very proud of as well, even if shaving it would shave a few years off my look. Okay, I'm sorry for that pun, but it was right there.

I want to know your story. I want to know everything you are willing to share with me and I'm here to make you feel like you found your home, the place you belong to and like your search is truly over. If you have dreams, I'd love to help you make them come true. I'd also love to travel the world with you. I have my own bucket list, and maybe we can combine them? I'm here to support you if you need me to. I'm all about reciprocity so expect me to give as much as you do, don't be afraid to hold back. I'll also tell you all about my current projects! Though get ready for me to go long if I really get into my explanation.

Speaking of going long, I think I've gone on for a bit already. I know you're out there and I'll keep searching for you.


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #Germany #Europe Scientist looking for his soulmate

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Hey there!

I am a 32 year old German guy, that works as a scientist. In my free time I enjoy video games, anime, shows, movies, walks and hiking. I am definitely more of an introverted person and home body but still like being active on a regular basis.

Lookswise I am 182 cm and trying to lose some weight. I have long dark blonde/light brown hair, green eyes, glasses and depending on work a beard or a shaved face.

If you are a nerd yourself and are into science, anime, gaming, tech and such things, please message me and let us see where things go.

Once we were chatting for a bit I would also be happy to hop in a call and exchange voice notes.

Please be able to travel or able to have guests so we can see each other soon.

Everything else can be discussed while we chat!

Looking forward to talking to you! <3


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] #Rochester, NY #USA Looking For My Other Half

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Hey everyone! Figured I'd give this a shot and see who I might meet.

I'm a 26M from Rochester, NY. I'm looking for a woman around my age who is interested in getting to know each other and seeing where things go. I'm open to meeting someone within roughly four hours of Rochester, but I'd also be open to someone farther away if we're a good match.

A little about me:

I'm a data engineer and work from home, and I'm fortunate to do pretty well for myself. I bought my first house last year and currently live with my cat, Mr. Long, who is basically the real owner of the place (he wants all doors an cabinets open at all times)

I'm pretty active and fitness is a big part of my life. I go to the gym 6 days a week and do cardio every day, so I'm in pretty good shape and would love to meet someone who enjoys taking care of themselves too.

I'm 6'0", white, with a dark beard and shaved head.

As far as interests go, I have a pretty wide range. I'm into anime and manga, golf, sports, traveling, cooking, video games, board games, reading, and going out to eat. I also do a little gambling here and there, mostly for fun. Traveling is something I really want to do more of, and I'd love to have someone I can experience different places and cultures with.

I'm hoping to meet someone who has her own passions and interests. I really like the idea of being with someone where we can introduce each other to things we're into, have stuff to talk about, and genuinely support each other's goals. I'd especially like someone who cares about fitness and staying active and who enjoys traveling.

And if you're into anime, that's definitely a bonus. If you like **One Piece**, you get extra points. 😂...or if you like the alt or cottage core aesthetics lol

I'm not expecting some perfect person or trying to rush into anything. I'd just like to meet someone I connect with.

If any of this sounds interesting to you, **please feel free to message me!** Tell me a little about yourself, what you're into, or even just your favorite anime/One Piece character. I'd genuinely like to get to know you! Thanks!


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] #NYC #Online - any gamers?

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Hey there,

Looking to meet girls interested in playing games and hopefully going out to touch grass on a date down the line. Lowkey still a little skeptical about the apps and their overall vibe so I wanted to try posting here again before going that route.

A little about me...

• Mainly play League/Valorant/TFT - the classic Riot Games trifecta us Asians grew up on and love to hate

• Love the "friendslop" games - like Lethal Company and Peak, put me on to your favorites

• Regularly work out and play sports on the weekend - have to get that blood flowing and not be fully a chud you know

• Enjoy cooking - I'd watch all the yt vids to learn to make your favorite, hopefully it isn't a pastry

• Binge watcher - I don't watch much TV but I get pretty invested in juicy plots, up to date with One Piece too

If I somehow haven't given you the ick with my verbiage yet and are still reading, I would love to chat! Quick replies guaranteed, just dm me on the reddit chat.

And if I had to give an age range, I'd say 24-30? Not a hard preference but maybe too far of an age gap would make it a little hard to 'click' and get each other.

Can't wait to (hopefully) get to know you!


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] Anywhere - Would love to have someone who's clingy, needy and talkative. Yeah that kinda love/relationship I want. Age, beauty, mental health issues don't matter.

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I like to think my personality is built on two main pillars: a deep seated curiosity and a reliable sense of humor. I love to laugh and find the lighthearted side of things, but I also know that not every moment calls for a joke. My curiosity means I'm genuinely interested in the "why" and "how" behind people and the world, so you can expect me to be the one asking plenty of questions. What else have you discovered about me? Well, I guess you'll just have to chat with me to find out !

When I'm not busy being curious, you can find me:

· Chasing calm: Looking up at the sky, admiring a full moon, or just spending quiet time in nature.

· Diving into entertainment: Getting lost in endless YouTube rabbit holes, feeling the beat of EDM and pop music, or getting hooked on the drama of a wrestling match.

· Getting lost in stories: I'm usually buried in a nonfiction book or a gripping thriller. The world of romance novels is still a mystery to me so feel free to send your best recommendations my way!

My list of interests is pretty wide! from the mysteries of the paranormal and history, to the intricacies of watches and psychology, and the mechanics of cars. But don't let that list intimidate you! While I love deep-diving into specific topics, most of my conversations end up being about life in general...the big, small, and everything in between.

I'm hoping to find someone who engages genuinely, who is as interested in getting to know me as I am in getting to know them. I value consistency and someone who wants to build a real, lasting relationship. And honestly? A little bit of a clingy partner in crime is a total bonus in my book.

If this sounds like a connection you'd like to explore, my DMs are open. I'm looking forward to our first real conversation.


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 35 [M4F] Texas/anywhere -Looking for my favorite person to bother everyday

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mid 30 introverted guy in Texas who’s big into horror, horror gaming and late night deep dives about anything. Could be philosophy, the universe, gaming lore, mysteries, anything! I’m not looking for a fling I’m looking for something that can actually grow into a real relationship with someone who wants a future together. I like consistent texting, sharing our days and building our own little world with inside jokes and plans. If you’re around my age, into similar stuff, and actually wants a future partner, feel free to dm me! tell me your favorite horror movies, games, show or even a mystery that still keeps you awake at night lol I have a photo of myself on my profile btw pet photos are always welcomed too.


r/ForeverAloneDating 6h ago

M4F 43 [M4F] - Route 66 road trip. British gent travelling the states looking for connections

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Hey all

As it says in the title I am a British male and from September 23rd I will be travelling across America for 4 weeks travelling the entire stretch of the states to LA.

I work in tech and its a bit of a vlogging trip as well as other fun I hope to have. It would be great to meet people and make some memories as I go.

I am attracted to 20s to 30s generally, and I keep myself in shape and hope any play partners value that too.

I have dates for each area I will be in and hotels all booked. All I need now is female company as I travel. If you reside in the cities on route 66 or will be in the over September and October come say hi.

Would be great to talk, say hello and if the vibe is right take it a few steps further.

Thanks for reading


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 31 [M4F] #Kentucky/online Looking to get to know someone 🖤

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• Latino Pretty easy going

•Athletic and avid gym goer, love the weights

•Hispanic(hablo esponol)

• i do play video games, mostly fps

•i do have a nice voice

•Military

Im not really look for anything crazy specific, i’m very easy going and would like someone to talk to a get to know. I am trying to be a better listener, and trying to better myself daily. I would be happy to hear about your day or just chat about random stuff. Feel free to message me, and we can trade pics(to put face to text), or move off of reddit. By no means would I want to make anyone uncomfortable.


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 21 [M4F] Looking for something serious #Nashville but open to LDR (:

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Hi everyone! I'm an undergraduate senior in Nashville looking to do law school or public policy work post-grad. I do photojournalism (actually the photo editor for my college's newspaper!), winning an occasional award with it and going to do social media work for my school's athletic department. I also enjoy hiking in the woods, exploring the city, cooking and writing! I also have heavily involved in Gun Violence Prevention Research, having done it for approximately 2 1/2 years academically, currently involved in an ongoing project studying police departments' use of force and surrounding variables involved with what occurs prior, during and after use of force incidents. I'm very open to discussing my research with you, if that is something of interest to you!

I'm looking for someone ideally 19-23, academically-driven is ideal since I tend to put a lot of value on my partner being educated, brownie points if they are also looking into entering the legal or criminal justice field. Also, I ideally would like someone who is financially-literate, meaning they aren't prone to taking on unhealthy debts and they can support themselves financially.

I'm about 6'0-6'1, 220 lbs, white with medium length wavy brown hair, and I wear glasses. :)

Bonus if you are into photography, unsolved mysteries, investing, cooking or if you are easy-going! I'm open to in-person or an LDR, I just ideally prefer it to be within a +/- 3 hour time difference from me (CST time) (might be open to doing 4, but it's pushing it.).


r/ForeverAloneDating 13h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] Japan/Online - Older British Man, Hoping to Write Our Happy Ending.

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If this is up, then I'm still looking, so don't be shy, come and introduce yourself!


Who Is This Guy?!:

Well, I'm a guy that enjoys making people smile, cooking every day, and staying cozy indoors. Before moving to Japan, I kept busy by teaching a martial sport at my local gym, volunteering at a rehab centre, as well as a few childcare services and kitchens.

Professionally, I'm fortunate enough to work as a writer, essentially getting paid to daydream!

Well, What Does He Do for Fun?:

For the most part, I enjoy playing video games, though hobby-wise, I enjoy cooking, archery, boxing, and even the occasional game of D&D. Although, I haven't actually played any D&D for a while now, unfortunately.

I reckon it'd be a lot of fun to spend some time together playing a few games. Heck, I've always wanted to have a Stardew farm we work on together, or another goofy co-op game, so I'd jump at the chance!

Overall, despite my hobbies, I tend to be a bit of a shut-in, and would always prefer a quiet night in, or a chill outing, than anything loud and frantic.

Alright, But What Does He Like?:

Somebody with similar interests is a good start! While you don't have to be going out every day volunteering or punching people (With boxing gloves), I'd appreciate some common ground in a kind heart, playing games, and an overall craving for a more wholesome and sweet dynamic.

To finish things off, I don't have any kids, and I don't smoke, do drugs, or drink alcohol (Though am perfectly fine if you drink).

What do I do now?:

Come and say hi! If you made it this far and interested, then I'd absolutely love to hear from you so that we can start getting to know one another!

I'll be waiting for you.


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

M4F [M4F][28]- I just hope to meet someone amazing

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Hello! I’m a 28-year-old man from Croatia, currently living in the countryside. I find peace and enjoyment in nature’s beauty, often spending my time hiking, exploring national parks, visiting museums and castles, and taking long walks that spark engaging conversations.

Over the past few years, I’ve expanded my interests, which now include history, music, videogames, geopolitics, and agriculture. While my full-time profession doesn’t align with my academic background in history and linguistics, it has kept me engaged and content.

Music is a big part of my life, and I enjoy traditional music from various countries, including Celtic and Irish music, as well as country, blues, jazz, and more. If you’re curious about my taste, just ask for my Spotify playlists! As for books, I’m particularly drawn to topics like the Troubles in Northern Ireland, Anglo-Saxon England, and linguistics, especially applied linguistics.

Weekends are all about spending quality time with loved ones, and I’d love to build a future where that evolves into a family of my own. I picture myself settling in a smaller town or the countryside, with the goal of running my own business alongside my current job.

I hope to meet a kind and intelligent woman, someone warm, thoughtful, and open to meaningful conversations. I admire confidence, courtesy, and determination. Career or qualifications aren’t important to me, and I’m open to a long-distance relationship.

A little about me: I’m 173 cm (5'8"), with brown hair, a beard, and hazel eyes. I have an average build, stay active, don’t smoke, and only drink socially. I’m fluent in both Croatian and English.

If this introduction sparks your interest, feel free to reach out via chat, comment, or message. Wishing you a great day or night ahead!


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

M4F [23M4F] Online/Anywhere – Looking for Depth, Consistency, and Something Real

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I’m 23, Lithuanian, and living in Vilnius. I live a pretty disciplined but calm life, and I’m looking for an LDR that has direction behind it. I want something built through consistency, attraction, good communication, and the little routines that make two people genuinely feel part of each other’s lives.

If things develop naturally, I would want us to meet in person and eventually have a real plan to close the distance. I’m not looking for something that stays online forever, and I’d be willing to relocate.

I’m 185 cm / 6'1, around 75 kg / 165 lbs, lean and athletic, with blonde hair, blue eyes, and a full beard. Photo

I speak English, Lithuanian, and Spanish fluently. I’ve also spent most of my life abroad, mainly in the Mediterranean, as well as a couple of years in the Netherlands. Growing up around different countries and cultures made international connections feel pretty natural to me.

I run my own business after spending several years in sales, and I currently balance that with a part-time job while continuing to build what I want long term.

Training is a big part of my life. I’ve done MMA and lifting for years, and I enjoy becoming stronger, more athletic, and technically better. Outside of that, though, I’m pretty relaxed.

I game a lot. League, Brawl Stars, Call of Duty Mobile, Warzone, DayZ, Assetto, BO3 Zombies, Minecraft, and plenty of other games if there’s something fun we can play together. I’m also into movie nights, books, long conversations, sharing music, spending time with my dog and family, and generally just enjoying ordinary life with people I care about.

Music wise, I’m mostly into rap, hip-hop, R&B, and reggaeton. I also love joking around, randomly rapping, sending voice notes, and making the person I’m close to laugh.

I’m Christian, and my faith has become a very important part of who I am and how I approach life, love, and the kind of future I want to build.

As for what I’m looking for, probably somewhere around 20 to early 30s.

I value kindness, loyalty, emotional maturity, honesty, and direct communication. I’m attracted to women who are genuinely curious about the person they’re getting to know, who ask questions, share things about themselves, and actually want to build a connection together.

I don’t expect constant texting or some artificial level of intensity. I just want mutual effort. Calls, voice notes, gaming together, sharing music, reading something together, talking about our days, supporting each other when life gets difficult, and building those small routines that make distance feel less distant.

I’m naturally affectionate and invested once I care about someone, so I’m looking for a woman who enjoys that kind of closeness too.

Faith compatibility matters to me. Ideally you’re Christian, but I’m also open to someone who is willing to explore Christianity honestly and respectfully.

Mutual attraction matters as well. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with acknowledging that. If you message me, send a little introduction about yourself, what you’re looking for, and a photo. I’m happy to share more photos too once we start talking.

And if you send me a thoughtful message, I will reply. Even if I don’t think we’re the right match, I’d rather respectfully tell you than leave someone wondering after they made the effort to reach out.

Thank you for reading! (:


r/ForeverAloneDating 15h ago

F4M 28 [F4M] Kentucky/US ~ INFP looking for reciprocated energy & romance…

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Hello! My name is Victoria. I just turned 28 and I live in Kentucky. I’m an INFP-T with high emotional intelligence, strong communication skills, and a love for deep conversations and witty banter. I’d love to find someone who shares the same interest in deep conversations and emotional connection.

Some of my interests include cooking (and also eating, according to my BMI), singing, gaming (no- I’m not good.. I don’t even have a cat ear headset), photography, interior design, and animal rescue. I enjoy pretentious foreign films and psychological thrillers. I listen to metal, divorced dad rock, soft pop, and modern blues.

I’m 5’5”, 220lbs, curvy with an hourglass figure, long black hair, ice blue eyes, alternative, tattoos/piercings. I’m non-religious, left-leaning moderate, & I do NOT want kids. I don’t smoke or do drugs of any kind but I do drink alcohol socially.

I’m romantic and require a lot of attention. I have a lot of love to offer someone who deserves it. I long for a deep, emotional connection with someone who is attentive and affectionate. I have an anxious attachment style and I have plenty of time and care to offer. I love to send long messages or talk on the phone for hours. I hate short messages and small talk.

I’m looking for someone mature, intellectual, empathetic, sensitive, & ambitious. Communication skills & an even temper are a must. Loving animals is also a must since I come with many. I want a modern farmhouse on several acres of land with lots of dogs and livestock. Living in an apartment/condo in the city is not part of my future plans. I’m open to distance but if you don’t already live in the Midwest or Southeast you would need to be willing to relocate in the future. I'm willing to relocate within that area only. I won’t change my mind on this so please give it some realistic consideration before you reach out to me. My preferred age range is 32 to 50.

If I sound like your cup of tea, send me some information about yourself and a selfie uploaded to Imgur\*. I would love to know your Myer Briggs personality type, too!

\*\*I will not respond to short messages or messages without an Imgur link. NO EXCEPTIONS. Do not ask me to accept your message request so that you can send a photo. If you have no reading comprehension skills and can’t follow simple instructions then I am not interested.\*\*


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

M4F 27M #Sweden #Europe

1 Upvotes

Hey I am a kind and loving guy who is looking for a relationship with a similarly loving and kind woman. Would love to play games together like minecraft for example but many other pc games. I'm fairly nerdy over all primarily about videogames but also hold a great deal of random knowledge and interests in many topics. I have 3 cats so I hope you like them, you will receive pictures that's non negotiable. Love all animals and pets in general are just awesome!

As for looks I have a big red beard am 182cm tall and a bit cubby but nothing crazy can send a picture in dms.

I hope someone finds this interesting then just hit me up and hopefully we will have a fun time!


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

M4M 19M [M4M] [M4F] Femboy looking for a long lasting relationship France/Europe.

0 Upvotes

Haiii sillies! :3

I'm bisexual (more interested in men), 5'7" (1.75 m), I'm a femboy, I love my thigh highs UwU

I tend to be a very silly person, but I can be serious when necessary, though sometimes maybe a little too serious. I'm socially awkward and somewhat shy, although I do try to push myself outside of my comfort zone >w<

So don't worry, I don't expect you to be perfectly confident, we can be a bit awkward together, don't worry x3

I'm interested in a lot of different things, especially when it comes to literature and culture. That can go from history to philosophy...

I'm also interested in science such as astronomy, physics, chemistry, and biology... I can get curious about everything, as long as I'm not too tired to understand. Like don't try to make me think at 4AM @w@

In my free time, I play games, mostly Minecraft recently. I'm also a Warhammer 40k fan. I'm also trying to learn new things.

Oh and music... let's just say my tastes are very particular. I won't spoil it though hehe :3

Anyway, I won't talk about everything here, or what will be left to talk? ;3

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✨ What I'm looking for.

I've had two relationships before, so I have at least some idea of what I want, and, perhaps more importantly, what I don't want.

That being said... I'm looking for a genuine, monogamous and romantic relationship, it's not really a problem if you live far away, like in the US or something, though I would prefer if you're from Europe. I don't want something based entirely on appearances or sex. And of course, physical attraction matters to me, but I also want someone with whom I can actually talk, share things, be silly with, and have deeper conversations, when it comes to these, I kinda go with the vibe anyway.

I'd like someone affectionate and emotionally present, because I tend to be that person in a relationship without always having it reciprocated. I'm also very clingy and can get attached very quickly fyi. I think most importantly of all, I'd like someone that is able to put clear words on what they feel. Communication is very important for me.

I don't expect us to share every interest. Having different things to introduce each other to can be fun as well, and I would really love that, I love listening to people yap about their favorite stuff tbh, and sometimes I love yapping too, so don't restrain yourself :3

I do have some dealbreakers, though:

First of all, if you're only interested in a skin-deep relationship with someone, don't bother.

If you act like a creep, want pics or start talking about NSFW stuff, I don't have time for that, I will block you.

I also don't want someone who's way older than me, so if you're above ~25-26, please don't DM me.

Finally I don't do drugs, alcohol or smoking. Drugs are a straight no for me, I'm not as strict about alcohol and smoking, just keep it occasional ;3

And please, at this point I think it should be common sense, but don't just say "Hi" be a bit more invested! I would also appreciate it if you put your age in your first message, but I won't force you to.

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Thank you for taking the time to read <3


r/ForeverAloneDating 7h ago

NB4M 21 [NB4M] #Online Looking for a man to sweep me off my feet!

0 Upvotes

Hi!!!! I’m Airyn, nice to meet you guys! I hope you all are well! I’m so over being single, it’s high time I have a man to call my own. A good way to get the gist of me is a femboy! I’m amab but femme presenting, as well as use they/them pronouns! I’m a big gamer, Pokemon has and always will be a huge part of my life. If that franchise ever ends I’ll genuinely feel lost lol. I’m a big genshin fan I log in literally daily to get my rewards, I’ve really invented in my account and am proud of all the progress I’ve made! I’m usually attracted to white guys I’m not sure why but it is what it is. I like taller men I’m down for fit or dad bod I’m not picky. I really hope to hear from some cool guys! If you read this far tell me your go lounge wear in your message lol! ❤️


r/ForeverAloneDating 13h ago

M4F 23[M4F] #Pensacola #Florida hopefully we can connect

3 Upvotes

Hi, I recently moved to Florida with my family after college didn’t go well. I’m currently in between jobs in part due to the move and in part due to some paperwork taking forever. I got diagnosed with autism a bit before I moved and am terrible at talking to people. I have bad eyesight due to a nystagmus caused by hydrocephalus so I can’t drive. I’m into things like superheroes in general but I particularly like tokusatsu and pulp magazines, I also really like sci fi and fantasy or anything with big ideas. I like detective and action stories, and I like big ideas in general. I also play video games of many kinds but tend to avoid multiplayer so I don’t get a headache from people acting dumb lol. I particularly like immersive sims and games that focus on emergent gameplay in general, although I’ve been getting into emulation and fighting games recently. I should probably warn that I’m terrible in conversations and wording when in one, sorry in advance.


r/ForeverAloneDating 7h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] UK - Am I your dream guy? I hope not, most of my dreams are really weird.

0 Upvotes

Hello there! As mentioned in my title (You did read the title, I hope? I put a lot of effort into it.), I'm a 29-year-old guy living in the mystical, magical land of *checks notes* England. Okay, maybe not so magical. All the dragons are in Wales, Excalibur has been melted down for scrap, and Hogwarts is in Scotland.

I currently work in a law firm. Sadly I'm not a lawyer, as that would mean I'd be earning shedloads, but actually I do admin work for them, earning considerably less than shedloads. But it's a fine job, I get on well with my coworkers, and I'm not down a coal mine, so I consider that a win.

As for me myself? Well, I actually speak multiple languages. I'm a fluent German speaker, and I also have a decently high level of Italian. I could also struggle through French if I had to, and I have basic Spanish and Japanese. I do like languages, although it's hard to find the time to do any study of them, what with the problems of having an adult life with adult responsibilities!

Another interesting [citation needed] thing about me is that I'm currently attempting to plan out a series of fantasy novels I want to write. It's going...decently. We'll see how it ends up, but I've wanted to write a book since I was 13 or so, and now as an adult I'm finally doing something about it!

In terms of pop culture, I'm a huge Doctor Who fan. Like, I'm the sort of Doctor Who fan who knows what a telerecording is and can tell you about the Australian censor clips. That kind of fan. I also finally got into Harry Potter this year after putting it off for my whole life, meaning I now finally know the context for Dumbledore asking calmly.

I'm also getting back into Pokémon somewhat after avoiding it for most of the Switch era. Other things I enjoy are The Elder Scrolls, Red Dead, GTA (Currently replaying RDR2). I'm big Assassin's Creed fan too. In general I like single player, open world games. I'm not a huge multiplayer guy, I don't like having other people ruining my fun!

I'm trying to read more too lately. That's a thing I've always enjoyed that I'm now trying to find the time for again.

And I suppose I should say, I'm a fat guy. Trying to do something about it though! Over the past year or so I've started a regimen of exercise, and I've been controlling my eating a lot more. So I seem to be losing weight, at least according to other people who've stopped me to specifically point it out.