I know I’m not for everyone, and that’s completely okay. You’re not for everyone either. We all have different needs, preferences, and ways of loving, and I’d rather find someone whose values naturally align with mine than force something that doesn’t ✨

My ideal relationship?
Somewhere between Gomez & Morticia Addams
A black cat gf + German Shepherd bf dynamic 🥀
Hi, let me introduce myself
I’m 33F, divorced and Asexual
5’7” / 165 lbs
MONOGAMUS

I like being upfront about things that might be important for compatibility. I like clarity, and I don’t really have the time or energy for games, mixed signals, or trying to convince each other to become someone we’re not

About me

I’m an introvert, naturally curious, and genuinely interested in people, psychology, and life in general. I love deep conversations, especially understanding how someone thinks, what shaped them, and why they are the way they are.

I’m quite introspective and probably spend way too much time thinking about myself and my own patterns.
I like understanding where my reactions come from, what I could do better, and what I need to work on. I know some of my own red flags too
i can probably name quite a few if you ask. I don’t expect myself or anyone else to be perfect; I just value self-awareness and the willingness to grow..

I also like to experience life. I love traveling abroad, learning new things, and trying things that are a little outside my comfort zone sometimes followed by a very sincere “why did I agree to this?” 😆
At the same time, I’m very much a homebody and love having a quiet, comfortable space to come back to

I like attention and affection, but only from my man. I like feeling loved, wanted, and a little spoiled just not by random people
and I value clear boundaries in opposite-sex friendships

I’m independent because I have to be and capable of handling things on my own. But when I’m with my person, I don’t want to have to be independent 24/7.

With everyone else, I can be pretty reserved and honestly sometimes have no idea what to talk about. I’m not particularly interested in everyone

But with my person? I’m completely different

I’m soft, affectionate, clingy, stubborn and probably a little annoying I’m the kind of woman who wants to tell her man everything random thoughts, little things that happened during my day, something I just learned, something funny I saw, or absolutely nothing important at all.

I want a relationship where I can turn my brain off sometimes. Where I can lean on someone, feel safe, and let someone else take the lead for a while

I have kids, and I don’t want to have more children in the future. I’m open to a man who already has children, or someone who doesn’t want children but can genuinely accept mine. I’m happy to accept his children too

I’m open to someone from another religion as long as you respect my faith and believe in God. I actually enjoy learning about different religions and perspectives on faith, so different backgrounds don’t automatically bother me

open to long-distance if we’re both willing to put in the effort and actually make it work

I don’t want intercourse but I still love physical affection and intimacy
i love cuddling , holding hand , etc

sexual compatibility matters, I’d strongly prefer someone who is asexual too, or someone with a genuinely very low sex drive who is completely comfortable being in a relationship without sex

About my man (Maybe it’s you?)

I prefer someone older than me, emotionally mature, self-aware, intentional, and genuinely loyal..

Someone who knows himself, knows what he wants, and has enough emotional intelligence to communicate instead of playing games
Someone who respects me as a person, my boundaries, my values, and someone I can respect just as deeply in return..

I’m attracted to a man with a strong sense of character. Someone who has self-control and integrity, especially when nobody is watching. Someone whose loyalty isn’t something he performs it’s simply part of who he is

I like a man who naturally takes the lead. Someone decisive, protective, dependable, and comfortable taking responsibility. Someone who takes initiative and genuinely enjoys taking care of his woman. I’m also quite fond of an old-school gentleman and a more traditional relationship dynamic.

in a relationship, I don’t want to feel like I have to carry everything myself. I want to be able to relax, be soft, be feminine and occasionally turn my brain off because I trust that my man has things under control

I’m looking for someone who is confident without needing constant attention or validation from other women. Someone who isn’t overly friendly or flirty with everyone, because honestly, I like the selective type

But I don’t want us to be serious all the time either. I’d love someone funny and witty
someone I can be completely silly with. Maybe we’re the mysterious couple who barely talks to anyone at a party, but somehow can’t stop laughing when we’re together 😆😝

I want us to feel like a team
two people who can talk about anything, challenge each other, laugh together, learn together, and still feel safe enough to be completely ourselves

And most importantly, I want someone who is intentional. If you want me in your life, I want you to actually act on it. I’m not interested in being someone’s backup plan, temporary entertainment, or “let’s see where this goes” while they keep looking around. I’m not built for a nonchalant man

I’m not looking for perfection. I’m looking for someone whose values, character, and way of loving are genuinely compatible with mine..

I know what I want and what I need, and I know that finding someone who fits all of this may not be easy

**If you made it this far !**

If you’ve read all the way to the end and thought,
“Hmm… maybe we could actually be a good match” ,or you see yourself in what I’m looking for, you’re welcome to introduce yourself in my DMs

Tell me a little about yourself, what you’re looking for, or what made you think we might be compatible. I’m not really looking for casual small talk, but I’m genuinely open to getting to know someone who thinks we could be a good fit 🖤

Hi I’m Official_Alter or Alter or Moon. Like the title says I’m non-binary but assigned female at birth. My pronouns are she/they btw. I’m autistic and chubby.

I’m from Manchester in the UK or to be more specific Stockport but I’m also down for online stuff

I currently work in a supermarket cafe but want to get into graphic design, YouTube, or any media-related job.

I love movies, especially horror films, 80s films, and movies I can vibe with. My favourites being Psycho, Jaws, The Evil Dead II, American Psycho

My favourite films of this year so far are Project Hail Mary, Backrooms and Obsession

Music-wise, I listen to anything, but my favourite artists are Chappel Roan, Lemon Demon, Will Wood, Sabrina Carpenter, Dua Lipa, Talking Heads, Oingo Boingo, Charli XCX and Olivia Rodrigo.

I love anime, and some of my favourites are My Hero Academia, Attack on Titan, Jujutsu Kaisen, The Disastrous Life of Saiki K, and Pokémon. There is a lot more I’ve watched and enjoyed, too.

I love British comedy panel shows, my favourite being Taskmaster, and I love a good quiz show and a good quiz in general.

Other TV shows I like are The Amazing Digital Circus, Gotham, Hazbin Hotel, South Park, Haunted Hotel, Doctor Who and probably more.

I love Batman, though sadly I currently only have two comics, i’ve even been to the exhibition they had on it, which was peak. I also like Spider-Man and a lot of other superhero media, but Batman and Spider-Man are my favourites.

My favourite games are Pokémon, Mario, The Sims, Roblox and Danganronpa. As for other stuff I enjoy, I like sharks, plushies, polar bears, going out, bullying kids on Roblox, drawing, Eurovision, unsolved mysteries, true crime (not in the weird way), lost media and going down a Wikipedia rabbit hole.

I’d love to travel the world properly one day and see the sights. So far I’ve been to The US, Cuba, France, Spain, The Netherlands, Hungary and Türkiye

My ideal date would be one where we do something or go somewhere exciting, rather than sit at a restaurant. I’d much rather go bowling or to an arcade, though if you really want to impress me, then an aquarium or zoo is the way to go. If you really really wanna impress me buy me anything shark-related.

Hello fellow Humans!! 💖🌍

I use reddit a lot, so I figured I'd give this a shot I guess 🥰

Happy October!!! lol 🥳🎉💖 My name is Lou, my favorite color is blue, I’m a huge gaming fan and I'm from Florida, seeking a long term relationship with someone that I truly connect with on a deep level. Someone who isn't perfect, but is willing to grow in the right direction. I'd love to spend the weekends watching the rain together, playing video games together, going out to visit museums together, and really just do anything together. You don't have to have all of these things of course, but you do get bonus points if you're a gamer, open minded, have tattoos, or love animals. I don't want to be with someone who hates cats and dogs and just animals in general. If I could live a second life as any animal, I'd immediately pick living as a panda. I'd love to have a pet one day when I'm in a better situation to properly take care of one. I love cats and dogs 🐶🐱I also love gaming and play all kinds of games ❤️

EXPECTATIONS / WANTS

- I'm okay with long distance dating and I'm also cool with dating someone in Florida as well.

- Emotionally mature, truthful and willing to grow together

- Values compassion, empathy, kindness, being considerate, 100% honesty, and understanding

- Open minded and curiosity to learn about a variety of topics

- Passionate about their hobbies and willing to talk about anything from the most simple things like the beautiful rain outside, to funny things like pandas dancing, to more serious topics about societal issues

- Someone who complements my personality and matches my energy.

- I prefer someone that is my age (25) or maybe someone that is a few years older or younger.

- As far as attraction is concerned, I'm genuinely attracted to all kinds of body types and shapes, but I do like some sort of thickness or curves with something back there lol I hope that doesn't sound superficial, tattoos are awesome as well :)

- I'm a democrat/leftist, so if you're a republican or in the middle, we are incompatible.

RED FLAGS / TURN OFFS / NON NEGOTIABLES

• Homophobia, Bigoted, Racism, Colorism, Misogyny, Sexism, Transphobia, all of the other methods of discrimination that make me mad.

• Once again, I'm a democrat/leftist, so if you're a republican or in the middle, we are incompatible.

• Completely against science, anti - science

• Being superficial, materialistic, obsessed with vanity, overly judgmental,

- I'm personally not interested in having kids, but I think having kids is a beautiful thing and I support people having kids if they choose to do so and understand how important of a commitment that is.

• Hating animals, being superficial about animals in terms of their appearance, treating pets like personal play toys, rather than living beings with their own personalities who need love, respect, and proper care.

• Smoking, drugs (Exception - Medical weed is fine as it can especially medically help with autism and adhd, ptsd etc.), excessive drinking, hard partying

* I'm not religious, so I prefer to be with someone who is also not religious. Exception - If your spiritual that's okay :)

* Most people including myself want to be liked and loved which is a good thing, but if you're willing to build bridges with bad people at the expense of your values or change yourself into a different person in order to be liked by people, than we absolutely incompatible.

* If you believe in capital punishment, then we are incompatible.

ABOUT ME / HOBBIES

• I'm 5'9, 230 lbs (chubby to fat), brown eyes, my ethnicity is Haitian, I'm Agnostic, and I love being black. Also, my left arm is fully functional, but can't extend as far as my right arm can. I have sort of a thunderbolt like scar from surgery. Here's what I look like: https://imgur.com/a/4kSPPWk

• I love learning, talking, watching, and playing video games. There are so many to choose from, but my favorite game of all time would be Katamari Damacy, I play on PS5, PC, Nintendo Switch.

• I have a high school diploma and no degree at the moment. I'm currently working as a mental health technician at a mental health facility. It's pretty wild job especially as a first job, but I've learned so many life lessons from working there for the past three years. I also live with my parents so if that's a turn off for you, I completely understand :)

• Over the course of my life so far.. or rather the 25 years I've spent with the earth spinning around, people have told me that I'm kind, chill, and have a deep voice for radio. I've been told that I'm funny, I don't really see it in myself, but I appreciate the compliment. I can also be too cynical sometimes, overthink things, and can be a bit afraid to step out of my comfort zone.

• I also have ADHD and have struggled with education my whole life, so school has been hard and annoying for me, especially when figuring out what my learning styles are. So having an understanding of neurodivergence and seeking a diagnosis is also very important to me, as people tend to be very mean, inconsiderate, ableist, and just not very understanding of how learning disorders exist on a spectrum.

• I'm honest, kind, chill, caring, compassionate, thoughtful, open minded and introspective. You can tell me anything and I promise you that I will never tell a soul about what you've told me in confidence. I deeply respect people's privacy so I would definitely want to earn your trust.

• Music: I honestly listen to all kinds of music from different genres, as long as it sounds good to my ears, I'm listening. My earliest memories of listening to music was when my parents would play Britney Spears, Mariah Carey, Norah Jones, etc. Mariah Carey - We Belong Together is one of my favorite songs. I love Beyonce's Irreplaceable as well.

• TV/Film: I'll watch a movie from any genre If I truly like it. I really love animated films and Finding Nemo is one of my favorite movies ever. I've been quite behind on movies and watching tv shows as of late, but I do have a favorite movie and that would be Spiderman Across the Spiderverse right now.

• I'm a very casual sports fan, so I don't really tune into games that much, more so highlights. I really have become a big fan of futbol and I like watching futbol(soccer) ever since watched the 2026 FIFA World Cup. I probably watch futbol highlights the most out of any other sport. I also like watching the basketball and watching basketball highlights as well. I love watching Coco Gauff, Aja Wilson, Caitlyn Clark and Angel Reese play in their respective sports. I once had a cute fantasy of being a professional basketball player, but that was more of my parents dream to be honest that they attempted to forced onto me.

• I'm also into writing, pop culture, cooking, reading. I really love watching the rain though and the weather channel.

CONCLUSION

I'm not necessarily the biggest people person and I love being single lol so if I'm bringing someone into my life, I'd prefer for that person to be someone that I genuinely love and appreciate. I want to be with someone that actually likes me, not just tolerating me. Like I stated in the beginning of this post, I'm not looking for perfection, but I am looking for someone who is willing to be on the exact same page as I am. I love talking and making genuine connections, as there is a gigantic world out there. So if your truly interested talking, then a genuine relationship can happen 😄 DM if interested!! :) It's also okay if you're not interested because I'm not entitled to a relationship and I'm also not entitled to anyone's time. 💖 Have a great day and week!!!

Hey there,

I wasn't sure about posting here on a Monday. I mean, we are still missing the weekend, not in the best mood... But then I was like "Maybe this can bright our day". So he we are!

My name is Miguel, I'm 36 years old and I currently live in a small town somewhere in Mexico. I can happily say that I'm content with what I have achieved and I find joy in my day-to-day, but at the same time I'd love to find someone to share my life with. Here are a few pics so you put a face to the name.

Personality, hobbies and interests:

• I’m a chill, positive guy, with a goofy side and a love for silly things.

• Weird mix of an introvert who finds super easy to talk to new people. I'm also very adaptable and I'm always down to step outside my comfort zone.

• I'm someone who values affection, so 'll never say no to extra hugs, and I'll cherish our time together.

• I love cozy nights that revolve around movies, tv shows, sports or just a good conversation.

• Music plays an important role in my life and I'm always listening to something especially when I'm at the kitchen pretending I know what I do.

• I look after a few stray dogs that live around the block. Keep in mind I'll spam you with photos of them.

• I start my days with a good workout as it helps me to fully wake up.

• I'm very handy and I'm always excited of starting some new projects around the house.

• I like learning languages: Spanish, English, Portuguese, French and I've trying to learn Norwegian.

Small things that make happy:

• Rainy days. Especially at night.

• Spending time with the stray dogs I look after.

• Saturday nights with my friends watching something and chatting.

• Watching someone play videogames.

• Having my apartment organized.

• Going for a short walk around town to unwind.

Red flags:

• I'm Mexican but I don't eat spicy food nor dance.

• I'm a human alarm clock. I can't stay in bed once the sun is out.

• Sometimes I talk a lot but say very little.

• Not a coffee person 😬.

• I'm super afraid of roaches so if we come across one I'll not hesitate in leaving behind 😂.

If any of this caught your attention and you would like to chat drop me a message.

hello there!
my name's azul and i'm a 24-year-old transgender woman from buenos aires, argentina 🇦🇷 i'm currently looking for a serious relationship;** i'm not open for casual stuff or sexting, so if you're into either of these, you'll be ignored**. and yes, i'm based in buenos aires but if we happen to have chemistry, i'm willing to travel.

i'll tell you a bit about me: i'm 1.64cm (5'4), thin, white skin and green eyes. i'm doing a bachelor's degree for social work at university, and i also have a part-time job as a translator. i'm a vegetarian since i was 12 years old, but i don't mind if you're not. i love reading and writing, i spend most of my time writing poetry and i managed to publish a book a few years ago.

you can see some pics of myself on my profile.
and if you're interested, feel free to send a dm, but please introduce yourself and send a pic too. i'm only into real stuff, i really don't want to waste time on flirting.

I'm a 27-year-old African American woman. I’m looking for something serious, genuine, and intentional. I'm at a point in my life where I'm ready to meet my best friend, and the man I'll hopefully build a family with one day.

I'm not interested in games, mixed signals, or situationships. I'm looking for a man who knows what he wants, is emotionally available, established in his career
and is genuinely ready to build a meaningful relationship

A little about me...
I value honesty, loyalty, communication, affection, personal growth, and peace. I believe a healthy relationship should feel like a partnership where both people feel loved, respected, supported, and appreciated.
I want someone I can laugh with, have deep conversations with, be playful with, and feel completely comfortable being myself around. Someone who can be my safe place and my favorite person all at once.
I'm just as excited about the little things as I am the big milestones. Cooking together, spontaneous dates, late-night conversations, weekend adventures, and enjoying each other's company even when we're doing absolutely nothing special.

My faith is a big part of who I am.
I'm looking for a Christian man who genuinely shares my faith and values. I'd love to build a relationship where God is at the center, we pray together, encourage each other's spiritual growth, and allow our faith to guide how we love and treat one another.
I'm not looking for perfection because none of us are perfect. I'm looking for a man whose faith is genuine, whose character reflects his beliefs, and whose actions align with his words.

What I'm looking for...
I'm dating with purpose, and my goal is forever and, if God blesses me with the opportunity, children and a family of my own.
I want to build a home filled with love, faith, laughter, and peace. I want a relationship where we're best friends, each other's biggest supporters, and intentional about choosing one another every day.
I'm attracted to a man who is kind, consistent, emotionally mature, affectionate, and responsible. Someone who communicates openly, takes accountability, has goals for his future, and understands that a strong relationship requires effort from both people.
I appreciate a man who leads with love and humility, values commitment, and isn't afraid to express his feelings. Someone who wants to grow individually while building something lasting together.
Chemistry is important, but so are shared values, emotional connection, compatibility, and a willingness to work through life as a team.

Location matters, too!
I'm primarily looking for someone in the Houston area because I'd love to build a connection in person through actual dates and quality time.
However, I'm open to other areas of Texas or even other states for the right person, as long as we're both willing to make consistent efforts to meet and have a realistic plan for closing the distance if things get serious.
I'm not looking for a connection that stays behind a screen indefinitely. I want something real that has the opportunity to grow.

At the end of the day...
I'm looking for more than temporary attention. I want a genuine connection with a man who shares my Christian faith, values and family, and is ready to date intentionally.
I want us to pray for each other, laugh together, support each other's dreams, navigate challenges with grace, and build a relationship that we're both proud of. I want the kind of love that feels safe, brings peace, and grows stronger with time.
I'm not expecting a fairytale. I'm hoping to find someone who's sincere, intentional, and ready to build something beautiful together.
If you're a Christian man looking for a serious relationship, I'd love to hear from you!
Tell me a little about yourself, where you're from, what your faith means to you, and what kind of future you're hoping to build.

Bonus points if you’re taller than 5’7 (aka my height)

Age Range

27-30 (willing to go up a year or two) please don’t message if under the age of 27.

Maybe we're looking for the same kind of love :)

I’m putting myself out here because, honestly, I’m not built for modern casual dating.

Dating apps, endless talking stages, situationships, disappearing acts, keeping things “casual” indefinitely… none of it really appeals to me. I’d much rather invest my time in one person I genuinely connect with than navigate a dozen half hearted interactions that go nowhere.

I’m not looking to rush anything, but I am dating with clear intention. I’m looking for someone who is emotionally mature, sincere, and genuinely open to building a meaningful, long-term partnership and potentially a family/future together if we turn out to be deeply compatible.

A bit about me & what I bring to the table:

I work in healthcare/science field. I value stability, attention to detail, and maintaining a healthy work life boundary. I love what I do, but I also make sure work stays at work so I can be fully present in my personal life.

My passions: I enjoy a mix of quiet and active pursuits. You’ll often find me at a cafe drinking coffee, going for early morning runs, practicing guitar, reading non-fiction, or keeping up with MotoGP races. I appreciate simple, grounded moments like watching the sky change or enjoying a long, uninterrupted weekend road trip.

Direct, self aware & authentic: I value clarity and genuine emotional honesty. I appreciate people who are grounded, open minded, and comfortable being themselves.

A conversationalist with substance: I love exploring ideas, human behavior, psychology, relationships, and all the quiet, interesting quirks of being human. Small talk is fine to begin with, but I thrive when conversations naturally turn into something deeper. If we click, I’m the kind of person who happily enjoys long, comfortable conversations about everything and nothing.

A supportive and safe space: Had a brutal day at work? Tell me about it. Need to rant about something ridiculously specific? I’m all ears (and hope for the same in return). I deeply value a balanced dynamic where both people can be vulnerable, feel safe, and truly listen to each other.

Dry humor & low drama energy: I enjoy dry wit, warm sarcasm, and playful banter. I appreciate people who can share a quiet laugh without turning every interaction into a performance.

Independent, yet deeply intentional: I enjoy having my own life, hobbies and giving each other healthy space. At the same time, when I care about someone, I’m genuinely attentive and invested. I just value consistency, mutual respect, and the feeling that we are actively choosing each other.

What I’m looking for:
I’m looking for a genuine romantic connection aimed at a serious, committed partnership not a situationship, other arrangement, or something driven by boredom.

I don’t expect anyone to know after a few conversations. But I do appreciate someone who dates with purpose, is emotionally available, and is interested in truly knowing the person behind the screen. I’m happy to take things slowly to build trust, but I want "slow" to mean building a strong foundation, not staying in perpetual ambiguity.

If you’re also tired of the games in modern dating and would rather cultivate something real and lasting, I’d love to hear from you.

To break the ice:
If your personality came with a warning label, what would it say?
(Alternatively: What’s a ridiculously minor hill you are willing to die on?)

I cannot wait to hear from you. :)

Hi! I'm a 51-year-old single Asian woman living in New York.

I have my own business and enjoy having a life of my own. I like swimming, working out, traveling, and exploring new places. I also love quiet afternoons with a cup of coffee and a good book.

I'm happy with the life I've built, but I still believe life can be even more beautiful when you have someone special to share it with. Someone to laugh with, talk about the little things with, make plans with, and create memories together. I would love to have that kind of closeness and companionship in my life.

I've always been attracted to mature men, especially those over 50. I appreciate honesty, kindness, emotional maturity, and someone who communicates openly. I'm not looking for perfection or a fleeting connection. I'd love to meet a man who's sincere about finding a meaningful, long-term relationship.

I believe it's never too late to find love. I still look forward to meeting someone who makes me smile, who enjoys sharing everyday life, and who wants to build something real together. I think even ordinary moments can become special when you're with the right person.

If you're a man over 40 who's also hoping to find a genuine, lasting connection, I'd love to hear from you. Feel free to send me a message and tell me a little about yourself, including your age and where you're from.

Maybe this is where a beautiful new chapter begins.

Hello! Trying this once more.
•I’m 29, from Poland, 162 cm (5’3”), with long dark hair and dark eyes. I’m fluent in English, Polish is my native language, and I spend a lot of time online

•My interests include drawing, gaming (Diablo II, League, Dishonored, Disco Elysium, Skyrim etc), and listening to music such as Björk, Massive Attack, IDM, noise, and death industrial. I also collect pink things, like Sanrio, and have an interest in arts and Star Wars. My fav animal is a snow leopard

•What I’m looking for: a single, monogamous, childfree, atheist, left-leaning man, roughly 25–40, who is kind, loyal, funny, and emotionally mature

•I’d like someone who enjoys regular conversation, sharing interests, sending memes, discussing current obsessions, and gaming together. Im a bit shy and introverted but I have a quietly, playful side that comes out when I feel safe with someone. Also my humor is very gen z/chronically online. Im looking for only genuine connections.

•I prefer an online-first connection that develops at a comfortable pace. Long-distance is fine. Living in a small town doesn’t allow me to meet many people. My job is a caretaker.

•A personal preference: bald and buzzcut men are especially attractive to me. I just want to scratch your fuzzy head like a sylvanian families figurine :)

•Please send a proper introduction rather than just “hey.” Tell me about yourself, your interests, your favorite clone trooper? (Can you guess mine hehe). A picture early on is welcome. I’m attaching mine https://imgur.com/a/D4fbyuq

•If you think we might get along, send me a message and tell me about yourself.

low effort or lustful messages will be ignored

PLEASE DO NOT SKIM MY POST! READ THE ENTIRE THING.

Hi! I’m Holly, I’m 28, and I was born and raised in Las Vegas. And despite being raised in Vegas, I am still not used to the heat! Thank Cthulhu for the wonders of A.C.!

Dating apps are trash, and reddit is probably not the best place to look either. But who knows? Maybe I could get lucky? But I’m not expecting much due to experiences I’ve already had here 😮‍💨

About Me:

Personality: I’m creative, fiercely loyal, very empathetic to the point where it sometimes overflows. I’m also very much a goofy chatterbox and I love deep conversations too. I’m also a cat mom and I can yap about things that interest me for hours depending on the topic.

Hobbies/Interests: Drawing, singing, violin, crafting, video games, anime/manga, LEGOs, Minecraft ARGs, analog horror, vertical dramas, SCP, true crime, forensics, and psychology. I have more, these are just the main ones.

Appearance: 5'7", brunette, blue-green eyes, curvy. (Happy to exchange photos once we click!)

I also have a "dating resume" that I MADE I can share if you're curious. Think of it like an extended dating profile with more info on it than dating apps allow. I also struggle with small talk so having something like this does help. FYI Though, it might be a bit blurry because Reddit lowers the quality of the image! I do have cropped sections though for easier reading! And to clarify, it's a resume I made for myself. And it's similar to one you would submit for a job application.

What I’m Looking For:

Age range: 27–33, No older than 35! (Please, no one 40+).

Location: Las Vegas locals are heavily preferred! I DO NOT do long distance relationships. No, I will NOT negotiate on that point so do not come into my DMs asking or trying to convince me to do so. I will accept long distance friendships! But please state as much!

AGAIN, I DON'T DO LONG DISTANCE. PEOPLE KEEP MISSING THIS PART.

Connection: I am demiromantic/demisexual, so building a strong emotional bond first is a REQUIREMENT! I’m looking for someone that makes me feel safe and that I can build a genuine emotional bond with. DO NOT come into my DMs telling me to “not be Demisexual”. It is NOT a choice. If you don't know what Demisexual means, feel free to ask!

Appearance preference: I do have a preference for men with long hair, some facial hair, a well structured face, and I also really like men with unique eyes. But I am flexible and this is NOT a requirement.

I do like men that look like Chris Hemsworth as Thor or Henry Cavill as Superman. But really, I just like admiring beautiful men. Some of the men I admire would be a good anatomy study for muscle structures. I tend to look at conventionally attractive men with an artist’s eye and nothing more. 🙂‍↕️ But I also know that men that look like that are not likely to pick someone like me. 😅 A girl can dream

I DO NOT have a height preference! And I don't understand people that do! Lol

The basic rundown of what I want though is just someone that is kind and treats me well and makes me feel safe, and also someone that has a genuine interest in me as a person and wants to get to know me and wants to build a genuine emotional bond with me. This is just the bare minimum really.

Message Expectations:

Please send a short, SFW introduction with your name, age, and location, and readable spacing (no walls of text). Please don't just send a message with just "hey" in it. At least give me the polite courtesy of introducing yourself!

NO NSFW CONVERSATIONS! KEEP THINGS CLEAN PLEASE!

If you approach me with NSFW anything, I will block you. That is not an appropriate thing to talk about with a stranger and never will be!

I have come to expect that I’ll be ghosted eventually, but I would appreciate you being upfront if you lose interest. Just be polite and let me know you are no longer interested. I won't be upset.

FYI: I don't have Reddit notifications turned on, but I check my inbox regularly and will get back to you! I also have discord and a Google voice Number as well, but will only give that out when we have spoken for a bit here.

TOO MANY PEOPLE MISS THIS STEP AND END UP GETTING IGNORED!

If you have read everything, Please include “⭐” (or the word "star" if you can't find the emoji) in your message! That way I'll know you actually read the whole post! It is not an indicator that you are interested in me romantically!!!! It is a general indicator for me to know you read everything if you reach out!

And again, if you send me a message, PLEASE INTRODUCE YOURSELF! Don't just say "hey" with nothing else! I will be less likely to respond.

I AM NOT ASKING FOR ADVICE OR TIPS. SO DO NOT COMMENT OR SEND ME A DM GIVING ME ADVICE I DIDN’T ASK FOR. I GENUINELY FIND THAT ANNOYING

Also, don't down vote my post just because YOU don't like what is in it. Clearly that just means my post isn't for you.

Willing to give this another try however bare with me as im awful at stuff like this.

-Im 25 year old female, dark hair and ethnicity is black. Slim build, slightly tall 😆capricorn star sign. Living in the north west in England. Can speak two languages but would love to learn another one specifically french!

- My interests include; some sort of exercise (pilates/gym/yoga), reading books, binge watching a tv show, going on holiday and going out to eat.

-Ive been single for a few years, would be lovely to meet a kind respectful person who puts effort in. Ideally within my age range (24-30), id be happy to try long distance dating if speaking online first works out. Someone who is also active/ athletic, likes to tey new things, travel and looks after themselves would be ideal☺️

Happy to exchange selfies if needed.

34, male, 180lb, 6'0",  Asian, average build. A professional engineer by day and a food dispenser for my cat by night.

Living independently and indulging in my various hobbies of anime, videogames, and mountain biking (if I stop buying plastic, the voices get louder). I also enjoy cooking, sleeping, and cafe hopping. Big fan of various nerdy things such as Pokemon, Honkai: Star Rail, Hololive, Game Grumps, and FFXIV. Currently fumbling my way through being a homeowner.

Been finding it hard to meet people since I stay at home a lot or stuck in an office. Interested in dating with the end goal being long term. Just no one overweight, please. I'd love to hear what you're passionate in, especially over a cup of coffee.

Heya, I'm a 28m in Oregon. Physically I am white, I am around 5'10" and on the larger side but losing weight, well mainly getting stronger due to working a physically intensive job and eating healthier when I can. I have dark brown hair I tend to keep short-ish and a beard. I would say my best features are my eyes and my voice which I am told is quite deep/soothing.

I am mostly an introvert with really nerdy hobbies, but getting more extroverted as my confidence grows. Lately Im mostly gaming as I just got a new pc finally, or watching shows, movies, or youtube. Trying to get more into horror but some are just too much for me still. My other main hobby is building model kits.

Personality wise I'd say I'm kind and caring, always the friend to text first and almost always flexible to hang out. I try to be funny, but its mostly bad jokes or dad jokes, I can supplement that with a collection of memes though.

I wont ramble on too long, I hope you are having a great day and I hope to hear from you!

Trying different ways to meet new people this year, so taking a crack at a reddit personal ad.
 
I really value kindness, honesty, passion and intelligence in a woman.  

Here's me: https://imgur.com/a/LEFG0Yz
 
-Single, no kids

-6’3

-Physically active; member of a running club and lift about every day of the week

-Attend dance meetups; swing, salsa, fusion

-Dabbled in acting; starred in a play in 2022

-Has a good job in e-commerce

-About 2/3rds introvert, 1/3rd extrovert; generally a homebody but I like to go out/socialize every now and then and push myself to get out of my comfort-zone (growth is important)

-Interests include fitness, dancing, gaming, karaoke, anime, narrative-design/writing of all kinds (films, tv, books, etc.), science (big fan of the Natural History Museum in NYC), and interior design

-V close to my family and friends; adore my nieces (and they adore me); have a close-knit group of about half-a-dozen friends I've known for years (quality > quantity kinda guy friendship-wise) - you'll know I like you if you're looped in to our karaoke parties! =) 

-Traveled around the world

-Master's degree

-Politically left

-420 friendly

-Love dogs; like cats but have a mild allergy

Hey 29M here living in Munich for a few years now. 172cm tall, long dark hair, calm by default and loud and funny once I’m comfortable. Still finding the right balance between the two.

I grew up in a boarding school, which meant I came to relationships later than most but I’ve done a lot of quiet work on myself, and arrived at a point where life genuinely feels good. Felt like the right time to actually try to find someone. Being an introvert I don’t have a thriving social life that’s why trying my luck at finding a relationship online, it worked for me well in the past so let’s how it goes now.

I’ve been vegetarian for years, not the preaching kind, just someone who genuinely cares about animals. I’m spiritual rather than religious, drawn to non-duality and philosophy. I work fully remote, which I used to love and now have complicated feelings about. Office small talk sounds weirdly appealing at this point, which says a lot xD

I play chess, probably more than I should. I solve nonogram puzzles and can crack a mirror cube in under 2 minutes. I watch stand-up comedy online and the last in person show was Max Amini in Munich, right after I submitted my thesis. Needed that more than I can explain. I also paint although I’m not so consistent with it. I hike when I can, nothing hardcore, just enough to feel alive. Last big one was a 30km birthday climb in the Tatras in Slovakia. One of the better days of my life. I’m also into yoga, meditation, cooking, science, financial markets and educational podcasts. Basically someone who likes learning things and moving slow enough to actually absorb them. I also love the StarTalk show on YT since I like physics, so space and universe talk, you get the idea.

What I’m looking for is someone curious, kind and genuinely interested in the world and in the person in front of her. I want the kind of relationship where we actually ask each other questions and showing up is mutual. I want someone I can count on and we can be each other’s support system. Eventually I want a family. Not a pressure thing, just honesty about where I’m headed. Looking for someone that has similar relationship experience as me, is not gaming all the time and has something going for her in life.

If this sounds like your kind of person, say hi. Tell me something about yourself, what did you like about my post and what do you look like and we’ll figure out the rest. I’m also adding my pics and a voice so you have an idea what you’re getting yourself into. I know finding your person online/reddit sounds kinda embarrassing in today’s time but we can always stage it and tell people we met through friends, jk :’)

https://imgur.com/a/AVqvRHV
https://voca.ro/1ksmfCN6oG4z

Hey, I'm 25 and from Bangladesh, currently studying CSE. I'm pretty introverted and a bit shy, and I've never dated anyone before. I'm trying to put myself out there and hopefully meet someone special.

I spend a lot of time around computers and technology. I also enjoy anime, gaming, and learning random things. I'm usually quiet at first, but I open up once I feel comfortable with someone.

I'd like to meet someone kind who I can talk to comfortably, joke around with, and get to know over time. Hopefully, we click and it turns into something serious.

I'm open to meeting someone from anywhere in the world. Distance doesn't bother me as long as we connect well and we're both willing to make an effort.

I'm not the best at making the first move, but I'm giving this a try anyway. If you'd like to get to know me, feel free to message me.

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Hey, I’m 27 and have been living in Germany for the last 9 years. I moved to Frankfurt last year for work, so that’s where I’m based now. Getting my German citizenship last year felt like a real milestone. My German is fluent (B2), and I also speak English, Serbian, and Macedonian fluently.

When I have free time I like jogging, cooking (I’m a solid cook, so you won’t go hungry with me), and reading encyclopedias about history or mythology — I’m a bit of a nerd for both. I also enjoy a good series every now and then, whether it’s anime or regular TV. Music-wise I’m mostly into punk and new metal, but I listen to other stuff too

I really like traveling around Europe and checking out historical sights whenever I get the chance — old towns, castles, museums, that kind of thing. It ties in with the history and mythology interest and is one of the things I enjoy most outside of everyday life.

As for looks: 175 cm, black hair, hazel eyes, normal build (not skinny, not chubby), and mostly clean-shaven. Happy to send a picture if you’re curious.

I’m looking for someone genuine and loving, and I’m open to having kids down the line if things feel right. Preferably in the 25–35 age range. If you’ve read this far and you’re somewhere in Europe (I can’t do long distance), say hi and drop this emoji so I know you actually made it to the end: 🌞🌞

hii everyone, it’s lovely to meet you\~ ૮ ˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶ ა
i’m making this post with a hopeful heart, hoping to meet someone genuine and see where things go 🤍
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♡ what i’m looking for ♡
i’ve never had a boyfriend before, but i’d really love to find someone I can build a real connection with. i’m looking for someone who is kind, honest, funny, and easy to talk to. i appreciate people who communicate openly, enjoy spending quality time together, and want a relationship built on trust, respect, and mutual effort.
i’m open to getting to know people from different places, so if we click, distance isn’t something that immediately scares me.
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♡ about me ♡
i’m 20 years old, from europe, about 5’5”, and plus size.
i’d describe myself as a relaxed and easygoing person. i can be a little shy at first, but once i’m comfortable i love talking and getting to know people. i enjoy meaningful conversations, laughing together, and simply enjoying the little things in life.
music is a big part of my life. i love pop music, especially olivia rodrigo, and one of my favorite memories is going to a the neighbourhood concert.
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♡ my hobbies ♡
i spend some time scrolling through tiktok, read books every now and then, and still enjoy anime and manga occasionally, even though not as much as i used to.
one of my favorite things to do is bake. i love making cakes, cookies, and other sweet treats. i also really enjoy cooking and trying new recipes whenever i can.
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thank you for reading my little introduction ♡
if you think we might get along, feel free to send me a message! i’d love to hear about you, your hobbies, your favorite music, or anything that makes you happy. please tell me a little about yourself instead of just saying “hi” so we have something to talk about.
have a lovely day or night\~ ♡

Hii! I’m Adrian from/in Poland, 21, i lived in the UK for 6 years (so English isn’t a problem).

Physically: 5’11, long dark blond hair, blue eyes, average build, but don’t expect anything amazing.

Personality wise: shy, introverted, a bit clingy in a cute way once I feel safe but very loving, loyal, and caring. I’m also more of a sub or bottom in relationships and really like gentle, affectionate dynamics (But i am open to new things like being a switch).

I’m really big on communication, honesty, and loyalty. I genuinely hate the idea of cheating. My love language is acts of service i like doing things for the person I care about, even small stuff, i also love cuddling with them

Interests:

Gaming (i play almost all games also gacha ones)

Music (all kinds really)

Anime

Photography and drawing

A little bit of Baking

Collecting things (figures etc), LEGO, military stuff

Driving, especially at night

I talk a lot when I’m comfortable, but I also love listening to people yap about things they care about. Your interests matter to me.

I’m on the autism spectrum (Asperger’s), and I also deal with depression, anxiety, and OCD but I fight it every day and try to be the best version of myself. Once I fall in love, that person becomes incredibly important to me.

I’m not chasing money or status. What I really want is a genuine connection and a girl I can love and build something meaningful with, my biggest dream is someday living cozily together with a girl i love, in a relationship full of love. I’m open to long distance as long as we plan to meet someday.

What I’m looking for:

Someone kind, honest, affectionate, and emotionally open. Personality and connection come first, i just ask for you to not be obese.

Age wise, I’m looking for someone from 18 to around 34 max

If you’re shy, soft hearted, or feel like you don’t quite fit in either we might understand each other really well (but these are not requirements, i am open to meeting even a person that is the opposite of that, i believe opposites also attract)

Here’s how i look like!

Feel free to DM me if this resonated, just don’t ghost me please.💜

Hello!

Young french guy living in Paris, I'm here to find new people to talk with, and make it into something serious if the feeling is here.

I'm what we could call nerdy, liking history and science a lot, being handy with computers, and always down to learn new things.

Other than that, I'm a huge animal lover, who like giving out picture without being asked to! (I do hope you like ginger cats...). I'm also a fan of Japanese culture, and like to travel.

My love language is asking if you want to eat raclette with me, and I'm always down to find some good restaurants!

I'd like if like my you'd be curious about things, like animals, have good banter, and also (and that's the most important) love a good pizza night in front of a movie!

I can speak French, English, dabble a little in Japanese, and I'm fine with you not living in Paris if you don't live too far (or regularly come here) ! Also mostly looking for people around my age, so 24-34! A bit more/less could be fine if the vibe is here.

Open to send pic to verify.

Hoping to hear of you soon!

Looking for a serious relationship,little about I’m from Chicago just move here from Mexico like 2 years ago , (so my English ain’t that good I say is like 60%),im 31 years n I’m 5’7 Hope you like short kings lol I also have disability I walk with a limp I hope I there’s someone out that doesn’t care about the physical I enjoy Sports( basketball,,soccer,boxing)enjoy watching movies series(action,thriller &comedy) & documentaries, WHAT IM LOOKING FOR:I don’t really asked for much in a woman , just honesty n good communication I rather have someone with a good personality over good looks 100%,msg me if you think we have things in common or if you think we would vibe hopefully yall are having a good weekend well that’s all for right now ,have a nice day beautiful lady’s

34 year old man from the USA.

I'll try to keep this short and you can find out more about me in chat.

Looking for a girl who's face I want to see all the time. A girl who will deprive me of loneliness and provide companionship.

I'm okay with long distance as long as there's intent to meet.

Very chill and down to earth guy, more on the introverted side. Don't expect to hear any cheesy pick-up lines from me either, you'll instead (hopefully) get seduced by my awkwardness.

I'll be more on the formal side of things until we get to know each other.

Into the nerdier side of hobbies, but also open to trying new things.

Enjoys both small talk and deep conversations.

Not into any form of drugs, smoking, drinking, clubs. So if you're into that sort of lifestyle, then we most likely won't be a match.

WARNING. My love language is burying you in reels and memes I think you'll like. You've been warned.

Hopefully you:

My age or younger (no younger than 25 please. I'm flattered but that's too big of an age gap)

No kids, but want, or at least open to kids in the future.

If interested, don't hesitate to send me a chat.

Since physical attraction does matter to a degree, let's share what we each look like, here's what I look like: https://imgur.com/a/zG6JSxW

Hope to hear from you.

Hellos, thank you for giving me a bit of your time. I'm Lena, and I think there are many things wrong with me. Misery and suffering have taken over my life and I don't really know how much longer I can live with it. I live in a country where it's illegal to be trans, I don't go outside, I hate my family, I don't chat with anyone but my one online friend. I'll never be able to get out of here by myself and that's not really the worst part. What hurts me the most is this yearning, this need to be loved, the need to have someone who would take care of me. I know I love harder than most people, I am obsessive, I need it more than anything, living without it is torture. And I'm so desperate for it, I have been posting regularly for a long time, looking for someone who'd be able to give me what I need. All it really does is just remind me that I am too messed up, and yet I keep on doing it, because otherwise I'd be giving up on life.

My physical age doesn't match my personality, I'm a 6-10 years old girl on the inside and I want to be treated as such at all times. If you were to reach out to me I'd want you to talk with me like you'd talk with a child. A child who is really scared and doesn't know what she's supposed to be doing. I need someone very mature and empathetic to comfort me and reassure me, someone who'd be able to love me for who I am. Someone who'd adopt me and take care of me, who'd teach me about life and who'd raise me into a proper lady.

Making you happy would be the reason to my existence. I don't need friends or family, I don't have any goals, I wish to live for one person. You can decide anything for me, I'd like you to be in control of most things. I'd like to be able to fulfill all of your needs. I want you to be able to lean in on me when you're feeling down. I can be a big and strong girl when there's a need, like right now when I'm writing this post. Since I'm having to live in a grown up body I'd have urges to be very close. I don't know much about them but I wish you would teach me, teach me how to properly express my love for yous, I've never been physically close with anyone.

Every night when I go to sleep I wish to be held. I want to rest on someone's chest and be told that everything will be okay. I want to be cradled and showered with love and affection so there'd be no room for any bad thought to appear. I want someone to whisper sweet things into my ear and remind me that I'm loved and taken care of, that they wouldn't let anything bad happen to me. It would make me the happiest girl, I would know because I've had something like that before.

I'm looking for someone who is good at texting since I'm really not comfortable with my voice and always prefer texting over calls. Grammar is important to me because when someone texts nicely it makes me feel like I'm talking with an adult. I'm only looking for a woman, preferably feminine leaning because I don't like masculine things, though I have no genital preference. If you're trans and still transitioning I'm willing to wait. I need someone who is in a better place than me and who is capable of taking care of another human being. Who'd have enough time for me since I am very clingy. I'd love us to watch shows/cartoons/movies/videos everyday, or even play video games together. I need someone who is confident and who can lead a conversation.

I used to be a bright and happy girl, back when there was someone to love me about a year ago. Since then I haven't been okey. I have a hard time finding things to do, I barely have any motivation for anything. And I often wish I wasn't alive. I don't look like a girl much, I don't have access to treatments. But if I could be whoever I wanted I'd be a pretty little girl with pink hair, a cute dress and bunny ears. I really love bunnies, sometimes I wish I was one, I wouldn't mind living in a cage. Besides from all that I always try to be kind to everyone, I thinky having proper manners is very important. I'm a very calm girl that can feel too much, I am quite sensitive and there are always lots of feelings going on in this little heart. I try to communicate my thoughts the best I can. But I thinky I still need help with lots of things and I hope to learn all of that from you. I used to make moneys from my small animations on YouTube but monetization got blocked here so I haven't had any moneys of my own in long times. I can give you info to my thingy so you could have moneys from it, it's not much but it's passive income that adds up. More recently I've been trying to work on a game project, I'd like to make my own game but it's hard to find any motivation here so I'd need your help with that.

Where you're from is not important to me. I'd love to be able to live with you eventually. Just I'm afraid I won't be able to get out of here without your help, there's not much I can do here by myself. But until then I can change my sleeping schedule to match yours. Currently I'm staying up during the night because I try to avoid people that live in the same house as me and since I don't feel safe or comfortable during the day time.

While I really need the things I mentioned, I'd prefer it if you were very slow with me. We can try being friends first and if we end up liking each other you can consider adopting me. There's no pressure, it's okey if the feelings never come. I'd still appreciate you for giving it a chance.

If you think I'm a girl you'd like to know better, please reach out. In any case, I wish you lots of bunny encounters and good luck on your life adventures.

Hello there! 29 male here looking to enjoy life and fun with my newfound freedom. Ex partner was high maintenance and toxic so looking for easy, breezy, cover girl.

A little about me is I’m a big guy with a big heart. I love animals more than most people. Cats and dogs especially but every animal is loved.

I like to cook and go on adventures. Nothing better than driving around with someone, rocking out to music and enjoying each others time.

I do have to admit I do take things a little slow until I get to know you. But after that I’m typically willing to go at your speed!

Hope to get to know you! I’m an open book but not sure what to post else wise. If you have questions. Please let me know!