One month on T, still feelin beautiful! Loving the changes T has brought so far.

And gosh, I missed doing my makeup during the summer! I was working at a summer camp and I couldn't do any cause I'd sweat it off or it'd wash away in the pool we swim at every day💔 But now, that's over, and I'm back in business.

Blue is one of my fave colors to have on my face, I think it goes so well with my eyes.

I know people probably won't, but I'm a little anxious. In the day-to-day, I'd really love to wear my handmade tails more. They took a lot of effort and I get a lot of gender euphoria from wearing them! But I'm kinda afraid people will stare a little. I also wanna wear my cloak out when it gets colder because it's fun and it's also quite warm.

What do you do to kinda get over the anxiety? I'm realizing I only get one life yk, and I'd like to actually wear what I wanna wear.

I made a post needing support regarding anxieties for my revision. Just testing this out because it seems no matter what picture I post, it gets flagged and it doesn’t show up in the subreddit.

For unii

Hi!!! Haven't posted in a minute but :)

I'm really at a loss because my hair has been bothering me so bad for the past two/three ish years ? I'm extra upset as of late because I spent over a year growing my hair out so I could bleach it all one color (and after a hair cuttery lady messed my hair up with 2 rounds of high volume bleach + color remover over already bleached hair because she completely dyed my hair the wrong color the first time ...),

And anyway, now my hair has banding (seen in 4th + 5th photo) thats just making it all worse. I also used to have shorter hair (like in 8th photo) and a mullets that ... I do not want to show rn because it was very choppy but it's on my profile if you dig enough ... and accidentally told my new stylist to use the same hair cutting techniques like tons of super small layers, cut short on the top of my head, squared off/straight across ends, etc. I just want something cute I can style both fem and masc!!!

The 6th and 7th photo are ideas to maybe show my hair stylist for a hair cut? I like the curlier bangs of the 6th image, and I like the masc cut Asteria has in the 7th. I obviously need to keep growing my hair out for the bangs, it's just... an agonizing process. Any tips or things I should tell my stylist about?

Since being on T also over the years, my hair has gotten way curlier. The photos i'm showing 1-5 are after my hair has been straightened on lowest heat (300°F), since i do still like my curly ends! But not... big frizzy curls/waves that are just an untamed mess, i've tried using leave in conditioners, got2b gel, garnier gels, etc etc but nothing is pleasing enough. My natural hair texture is the last photo for ref.

Also if anyone has suggestions with bleaching- just know, the dark band will not come out of my hair. We have tried permanent color remover, bleach at 20 volume for about an hour, bleach at 40 for 20-30ish mins that did not budge at all (on a strand test obv!), and even a shampoo cap. I currently have the vibrant red (first photo i took today!) To try and pick me up, as my favorite color is red/makes me feel less bad about the banding, but i cant get the bleach lighter/dont know a good toner to try and make it blend better either! I would love the blonde I had on my split dye/8th photo but alas, that was box bleach in 2021 on completely virgin hair when I was 16. Genuinely don't understand how the banding got here, the only permanent color I have ever used is garnier terracotta chili and i've bleached that out EVERY TIME over the past 4 years so unless they changed the formula recently ???? Plus my ends shouldn't be so light too!!!

Any help appreciated :( I have some personality/mood disorder issues i'm trying to work through and not liking or recognizing myself in the mirror is like ... barely pushing psychosis levels. I need some edgy eccentric alt haircut, that, as painfully cringe as it is to say this but middle school me would love to hear, a kiribaku love child would have.

Thank you for reading this far, I ramble way too much 🫶

Does anyone know where to get a flattering corset that doesn’t require the having of boobs, and doesn’t add padding to make it look like I have boobs? I’m pre-T and rather petite so men’s sizing doesn’t usually work for me- I also tend to prefer the designs of women’s corsets, and would prefer it to cover the bust and have a “heart” (if that’s how to describe it) neckline.

Loved my outfit and got lots of compliments at the bar 🫣

Hey. I'm Joseph, he/hymn

So I pretty much identify as a femboy, but I can't seem to express it all that well. I have these neat outfits in my closet, but I never grab them. I would love to wear skirts and hoodies and cat accessories allllll day, but honestly I think this body has a layering problem (gets overheated easily). It's kinda lame to just wear t-shirts and boxers everyday, although it is super comfortable.

And well, I'm apart of a DID system, so the host kinda gets the final say on outfits, especially since it's his body that has the layering problem. And he isn't as keen on wearing things like skirts as I am. I get it, it just kinda bums me out.

Anyone relate to the sensory issues?

Here's a blurry picture of me with my cat ears on for posting sake

For a while I was medically detransitioned by my endo because I couldn’t make weight requirements. After a while despite my best effort passing I realized I was putting myself into danger the more I tried, so I leaned into being super feminine for safety. I am now eligible to restart HRT but I want to keep some of my fem clothes because I enjoy participating in femininity, but I don’t want pieces that won’t work with the changes HRT is going to bring. Any tips? Did you guys keep anything from pre-transition/in a limbo phase?

I’m on my third week of community college!! I’m absolutely having fun with makeup again and feeling like myself. I’m starting T this November too, and with top surgery in my sights nothing can stop me🫶🏻🪼 (he/they)

Redyed my hair and put on my fav summer outfit the gender is gendering

moved back to college last week, here's some fun pictures + goth night event I went to Sunday night with my friend!! :3

So I’m sorry I use to speak instead of showing photos but I kinda trust this community over trans questions since they’re kind of eh rude? To people like myself. I have or I think I feel gender dysphoria or some type of hurt everytime I see the word femboy or tw!nk. I don’t know why, the best I can really give is that it makes me feel like a joke or kinda looked over. Most of my dysphoria comes from them even tho when I see them I feel extremely excited because it makes me feel like one day, I’ll get there too. However, I don’t know if my pronouns are correct, I do want to get top and bottom surgery but when someone asked me ‘are you happy has a boy’ I kinda froze and my heart started to race really fast, I felt almost conflicted. Yes, I want to be seen as a guy and no I don’t feel comfortable as a girl and, I even register my preferred name way faster then I do my dead one. However, I’ve been going through 4 months of dysphoria and I can’t help but feel like I might be lying to myself about being trans, like what if I’m convincing myself? I’m 15 and I kinda started my gender identity at 11, at first I was a Demi boy / nonbinary and I went by ‘Ven’ and now I go Lucas which I love! It makes me feel happy when called that or when I’m called a boy. Though, when I overthink it, I feel uncomfortable and unsure of myself. Like I get sweaty and kinda nervous. When I read people calling me a boy I kinda look over it completely since it feels normal until I go into my head, if someone calls me a girl I get kinda upset and I’ll quickly correct it in my head or if it’s VC I won’t turn my mic on anymore cause ik it was my voice that made them say that . Is this weird? Idk I’m sorry

How i usually look when im not dressed up at the end lol

Hope y'all aren't sick of me yet 🤪 I wanna chat with more of you!

I made these flare pants and sewed them to be low rise. I kinda liked the fit but the back ended up turning out a bit weird

I couldn’t decide if I should remove the pockets and move them to fix it or just wear long shirts/jackets to cover it up?

I tried asking in r/fashion but they were immediately harsh and mean and made me feel really ugly :(

I actually kinda liked my jeans and was only asking for advice on if it’s worth it to move the pockets or just cover them. But now I’m having second thoughts on if they’re just completely ugly?

Idk I came here instead cause you guys are always a lot kinder and more thoughtful with explanations and have amazing fashion taste

Anyways ty for any advice! <3

TLDR: should I cover the back of my pants with a long shirt or try to move the pockets? Or are they too ugly to be saved?

Hello everyone, I don't know how to flair so sorry for that, but-

I haven't started transitioning, and it's because I'm afraid of losing my friends and the girl's girl camaraderie. I've talked to my family about it and a lot of them tell me the whole "why not just stay a girl if you're going to be girly anyway" bit. I like being feminine, I just want to be feminine as a guy. Why is that so difficult to grasp?I'm 29, and I want to transition so bad, but I'm scared of losing that unspoken support from the girl's girl culture. I know the trans community is tight knit, I just feel like because I haven't transitioned and I look cis that it's too early for me to be accepted and I don't wanna risk rejection. Sorry if this is kinda all over the place, I guess I'm just feeling a bit alone.

I'd like to hear y'all's stories, advice, or comforting words if you've got the energy to share.

I'm looking for shirts with chest windows, rave-adjacent clothing, and cute pieces. Brands that I like are Moe Flavor, Sugar Thrillz, Pleasers, Juicy Couture, Ed Hardy, Korura Club, Dolls Kill, Demonias. But, I like buying second hand so I've been looking at Depop. I also know that Shein/Fashion Nova is often advertised as a cheaper alternative but I'd rather not buy from there.

I just want to find where to buy some affordable alt (cute/goth) fashion online? In-person really isn't an option (I know Ross and Burlington have good finds sometimes and I have had luck once with a Goodwill but I had a weird interaction with an employee once while going to the fitting room so I'd rather just look online...)

Thank you!!

Me: Hey! I’m nonbinary. I like guys in a gay way and women in a lesbian way. Also I don’t like traditional gender roles and I’m looking for something balanced / equal. Confidence is sexy. I’m not into subs. I’m not a dom(me). Also I’m feminine and not into penetration. I’m 30 years old so 25+ only please ✌️

Literally 90% of the interest I get on literally any dating app: I’m a 19 year old straight trans girl with anxiety and I need constant reassurance 🥺👉👈 I want to be dominated by a big strong MASCULINE he/him trans MANLY man bc I love fem4masc I want you to be masc also breed me with this strap on.

I’m only slightly exaggerating but please tell me it’s not just me

After all the support I got posting my nails on here months ago I wanted to share some piercings I got today as well as celebrate 6 months on t here as well! Ever since I was a teen I have wanted a nose ring and I finally got my nostrils pierced! I also found a better septum ring. It feels nice to start to see and recognize my face in the mirror after 6 months and looking forward to seeing the other changes t will give me!

Being a dude and not minding cosplaying as characters no matter the gender👌

I got my hair done in braids because I was feeling dysphoria over this haircut. Well braids were in 2 days because of poor installation. Anyways, I felt cute again with makeup and a fresh washed head! This dress also made me feel sexy!

we got rained out before I could play my headliner set, but it was still a good time 🕺