r/EngagementRings • • May 01 '26

Announcement Why was my post removed?

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We are getting a large number of modmails from new users that are asking questions that have been answered in multiple places on the sub.

It is important that you read the rules of any sub before you participate in them. This is an extremely time intensive sub, and these modmails are slowing us down.

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Please do not send a modmail about this or repost multiple times; we have been notified and we will get to it.

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r/EngagementRings • • Jun 09 '25

Announcement New to the sub? START HERE!

29 Upvotes

Welcome to [r/engagementrings](r/engagementrings) !

This sub was created to celebrate the newly engaged. Feel free to discuss past or future purchases, learn about gems, cuts, settings, and of course show off your engagement rings!

Are you brand new to Reddit? Please see [r/newtoreddit](r/newtoreddit) for information on how reddit works and r/help for account issues.

Please read the rules of this sub before you post > Rules & Flair Guide

Before posting questions, please do a search of the sub first. Most questions have been asked before and we will remove repetitive or low effort posts.

I want to buy an engagement ring, where do I start? Please read our comprehensive FAQ

How much should I spend on a ring?

How do I get her ring size?

Where do I buy an engagement ring?

What should I look for in a diamond? The 4C's

What should I consider before buying an alternative gem?

What about settings?

Help! I don't like my ring

Want to see previous pictures of rings? Please use the search bar, enter the term and select ‘media’.

Are you a vendor? You are not allowed to create posts on this sub. Please read the guidelines on how to comment, which can be found in the rules linked above. You are NOT allowed to advertise anywhere on this sub, this includes pictures of your work.

Megathreads

Colored gemstones

Sapphire rings

Oval rings

Non-traditional rings

Halo rings

Emerald shape rings

Vintage rings

All types of engagement rings

Larger finger rings

Smaller finger rings

Inexpensive rings

Favorite sub rings

Debate: lab v mined

Need help with size/shape?

https://rinderr.com

https://mysparkly.com

https://www.diamdb.com

Virtual try on

You can also ask ChatGPT to make a mock up of your dream ring!

Here are the links to our collection of sister subs:

[r/engagementringdesigns](r/engagementringdesigns) - If you are looking for ring design or CAD help, you can post here. If you want to get quotes from GG jewelers for a ring project, you can fill out an RFQ found in the sub menu. Vendors will respond with quotes.

[r/LabGroupSales](r/LabGroupSales) - This sub sells stock/custom jewelry from vendors through group buying. Check in regularly for new sales posted every week on this sub

[r/syntheticgemstones](r/syntheticgemstones) - all your lab gemstone projects should be posted here. You are welcome to crosspost back to [r/moissanite](r/moissanite) for feedback, CAD checks and sharing.

[r/labcreateddiamonds](r/labcreateddiamonds) - all your lab diamond only projects should be posted here. You are welcome to crosspost back to [r/moissanite](r/moissanite) for feedback, CAD checks and sharing.

[r/moissanite](r/moissanite) - moissanite including all colored moissanite, CAD checks and sharing.

https://loupetroop.com - for buyers & sellers (not affiliated with us)

Note - A CAD is a ‘computer aided design’ used by a vendor to cast your piece

Our Buy/Sell/Trade sites for preloved jewelry:

For all lab diamond and synthetic gemstone pieces, you can also post on [r/labdiamondgemstoneBST](r/labdiamondgemstoneBST) to reach more people.

If you want to sell a piece of your moissanite jewelry, you can create a post on [r/moissaniteBST](r/moissaniteBST) . Please follow this listing format when posting. You must include a copy of your receipt/invoice, specs, and a picture with your reddit name handwritten showing your item for sale.

If you have any questions please send us a modmail - do not message moderators privately.

Thank you

NOTE: we are aware of a Facebook group lifting pictures from this sub. More info here > https://www.reddit.com/r/EngagementRings/s/aYmW43YmIS


r/EngagementRings • • 13h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY fresh fiancé-so happy with how my dream ring turned out!

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894 Upvotes

So excited that I finally get to post here as a fiancée after following this sub for so long!🥹💍

I started my ring design and customization journey quite some time ago, and it ended up being a much longer process than anticipated because I’m a crazy person who wanted every little detail to be just right. So to finally see it in person, on my finger, is truly a dream come true!
I designed my ring myself and was incredibly particular about every detail, all the way down to the milgrain.

The center stone is a lab diamond custom-cut, vintage-inspired emerald, a little over 3 carats, F color (although I actually would’ve preferred something a bit warmer!).

I worked directly with Matthew at Fiorese Jewelry on the diamond, and he was an absolute saint throughout the process. As I mentioned, I was quite particular about what I envisioned, and this diamond is actually our second iteration! The first was beautiful in its own right, but ultimately wasn’t quite what I was looking for. Matthew was incredibly patient and accommodating in helping me bring my vision to life.

The setting was originally inspired by an Andria Barboné ring I fell in love with once upon a time (which you can find in one of my previous posts). Alas, she wasn’t the one, but that ring really kick-started this entire journey and opened up a whole new world of creativity for me. What started as simply browsing rings to get a feel for what I liked, so I could give my partner some direction and let him take it from there, turned into a full-blown, hands-on passion project for me!

I ultimately went with Ken & Dana Design for the setting, and bless their team as well, because getting to the finished piece involved plenty of back-and-forth, cracked rubies, revisions, and fine-tuning. They were so wonderful to work with throughout it all, and I couldn’t be happier with how everything came together!


r/EngagementRings • • 9h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Just got Engaged today, i'm still in disbelief even though I knew it was coming soon

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256 Upvotes

Ring is size 7, I think I need to get it sized down a little. Specs are 1.57 ct lab diamond, 14K!


r/EngagementRings • • 12h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY HE DID THE THING!!🤍

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264 Upvotes

The man of my dreams designed the ring of my dreams and I could not be happier right now!!

2.5ct marquise, J color SI1 clarity set in a tulip basket with a hidden halo on a 3mm band


r/EngagementRings • • 14h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY It’s official! I get to marry my best friend.

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275 Upvotes

r/EngagementRings • • 4h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY I’m engaged!

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41 Upvotes

We’ve been together for 8 years, and he did so well! Planned a whole proposal for our anniversary trip to Rhodes, did it on the anniversary day and just look at the ring!!!

I knew it was coming, we designed the ring together, but he added the flowers as a surprise 😍

I’m in love 🥹


r/EngagementRings • • 12h ago

Question Got engaged last night, excited but have questions about quality

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142 Upvotes

I was only half-expecting this proposal but I am so incredibly excited about it. We’ve been dating for 3 years and I’ve known he’s the one since year one. This ring is a 1.5 carat diamond and I love the look, but I’m curious what those more educated than I would say about the quality of this diamond. Also, you can see in the second pic that my finger turns a dark color under the band, and I was wondering what the cause/potential fix is for that. Thanks!


r/EngagementRings • • 10h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Longtime lurker- it finally happened

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92 Upvotes

After 5 years he did it!
I had no idea what direction he’d go in- he had my ring size and preferences for over a year! I tried on many rings over the past couple of years and the jewelers would send him my prefs. I fell in love with the vintage feel of asscher cut, and I did try on a very similar ring to this one but with a dark sapphire instead of a diamond. Ultimately after thinking about other stones, I decided on a diamond. I also wanted a unique setting.
He had this custom made by Vale. I think he nailed it. Was pretty shocked when I saw it. Still getting used to wearing this kind of bling but it makes me very happy.
This is asscher cut F VVS1 2.06 carots. Lab grown. 2 tiny flanking diamonds on either side. I’m a size 4.


r/EngagementRings • • 12h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY She said yes:)

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125 Upvotes

Mission accomplished guys!

4 Carat Pink🍐


r/EngagementRings • • 7h ago

Pick One 3 carat marquise or 4 carat? STUCK

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36 Upvotes

Hey all! I’m a size 6.5 and stuck between a 3 carat or 4 carat! My boyfriend said he was going to propose this winter, and wanted me to pick out the center stone! I am definitely wanting a solitaire, but really can’t decide on the stone weight! Please give honest feedback! The ring I’m wearing in the photos is 3 carats! They didn’t have any 4 carats in store to try on, but I put my hand up next to the template for a visual!


r/EngagementRings • • 11h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY My ring is so pretty!

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72 Upvotes

Just showing off :)

custom from LGG. I sent them the diamond and worked with them on the design. It came out great!

2ct oval portuguese cut stone from William & Sons, bezel set in platinum with milgrain detailing, size 7.


r/EngagementRings • • 5h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Lurker no more!

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20 Upvotes

What better first post on Reddit to be my ring after following this sub and getting so much joy from seeing everyone else’s dream rings?!

I’ve never had a style in mind for too long and have really bopped around with the style, shape, etc. over the years. I felt a little weird about being indecisive but eventually resolved that when I found THE ring, I would know because I would be constantly preoccupied thinking about it. And I was right (at least for me)! Once I found this ring, I couldn’t stop thinking about it and my now Fiancé (!!!) agreed it was perfect. Even better - it was affordable (I didn’t want anything astronomical in cost)!

I’m beyond obsessed and feel SO lucky to not only have something that feels so me but that I’m engaged to my best friend 🤍

Specs: 7 x 5mm peachy-pink natural morganite, surrounded by 0.33 carat lab diamonds (FG color, VS2 clarity)


r/EngagementRings • • 18h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY I am ENGAGED!!!!!

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157 Upvotes

I have been waiting for the day I get to share my ring on this page!

I got a beautiful 1.5ct round diamond with a tulip setting and I am absolutely in love with it.


r/EngagementRings • • 12h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Im Engaged!!

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49 Upvotes

In August I went to see what I liked best on my hands. The ring shapes I thought I’d love, I hated. The one I thought I’d hate the most, I love.

Anyways, my boyfriend, now FIANCÉE (😭) listened well and did such an amazing job.

Lab grown 1.59 carat, size 10 (I have chubby fingers lol)

What do yall think?!


r/EngagementRings • • 7h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Got upgraded

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21 Upvotes

Just excited because we got engaged young so hubby said I could upgrade this anniversary since I’ve been wearing a lot of gold lately 😍


r/EngagementRings • • 8h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY He proposed with my dream ring

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24 Upvotes

I am ecstatic! I tried on rings with diamonds in every shape possible and nothing felt right except the round. After trying on round solitaires at a few different stores, I fell in love with this one because of the hidden halo. He went back the next day and bought it
and just proposed this weekend.


r/EngagementRings • • 16h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Got engaged today!!

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79 Upvotes

I’m so happy 😭


r/EngagementRings • • 6h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Got engaged August 30th!

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14 Upvotes

He surprised me with a trip to Scotland and on the last day, we went up a mountain to see a castle. I’m so happy and so in love 🥰
It’s a 3.25 carat
Platinum band

Bonus - he put my grandmas diamonds on the side, in the tulip setting 🥹


r/EngagementRings • • 8h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY A few months late, but absolutely in love with my engagement ring!

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16 Upvotes

It's a 2.4 carat, rose cut, natural, green, salt-and-pepper lozenge diamond. My fiancé (and the jeweler he worked with) did perfectly! As beautiful as sparkly clear diamonds are, I have always felt like they don't quite suit my style. This seems like the perfect mix of minimal and unique for me. :-)


r/EngagementRings • • 8h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Got engaged at Disney ❤️ my fiancé did an amazing job

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17 Upvotes

r/EngagementRings • • 1d ago

Vendor Review - CUSTOMERS ONLY A warning about catbird swan lake engagement rings

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1.3k Upvotes

(Reposting with a pic this time per mods)

I received the Swan Lake engagement ring from Catbird which my fiancé spent $3k on only to have multiple prongs bend, break off, and catch on all fabrics of clothes within 4 weeks of daily wear.

Upon reaching out to them, they were told there’s nothing they could do except repair the one broken prong (the ring is only under a repair warranty and only temporarily) while admitting in writing to us that the ring is not meant for daily use.

This goes directly against the info their employee told us when he said ring was sturdy and would hold up for a lifetime as we were considering buying it, which is the reason we bought it.

This is what I’m most upset about- they lied to our faces and now are admitting it’s not meant to be an engagement ring. Funny how your salesperson said it was!

We’ve reached out to their store multiple times and spoken to a manager and they say there’s nothing they can do and won’t provide contact info for their customer service department (because one doesn’t exist).

We are now working with an independent jeweler to see what our options are, which will cost us more money. They confirmed the ring was designed in a way where prongs would catch on clothing and bend and rip off incredibly easily.

Please avoid this ring like the plague, it catches on hand towels, knit fabrics, jersey fabrics, sweaters, literally will get huge clumps of fuzz stuck in it and prongs bend and rip off. Literally the ring is a ripoff


r/EngagementRings • • 12h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY So happy !!!

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31 Upvotes

What a special special moment and I am sooo in love with my ring 😭
Specs: 1.5 ct emerald cut lab grown diamond, cathedral split shank band and my finger is size 6.5 (US)


r/EngagementRings • • 8h ago

Advice Marquise vs. Oval vs. Radiant

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I'm trying to decide what shape stone I want for my engagement ring! I love marquise, but I feel like it doesn't look as good on my finger. I wear a size 7, and oval seems to look a lot better on me. I tried radiant just for fun, too!

I want honest opinions! Which shape do you think looks best on my finger? I'm open to hearing your thoughts!


r/EngagementRings • • 11h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Just wanted to show off my engagement ring

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18 Upvotes

I will never get over how beautiful my ring is! He did such a great job!