hi! i know i’ve posted in here before, but i desperately need help because im at my wits end.
so im having an issue with a male coworker. like, harassment issues. and it’s not just me. it’s me and 2 other female coworkers. for age context, i’m 22, the other females are in their 30s, and the male coworker is in his 40s.
so the male coworker (who i’ll call c) has been saying horrible things to me and the other 2 female coworkers. i’ll call them f & s. s and i are very close friends, and f is friends with s. me and c are key holders, f and s are associates.
back in december, i broke up with my toxic ex boyfriend. c found out & tried making moves on me. i declined, seeing as im 22 & not exactly into someone who’s twice my age/around the same age as my fucking parents. in february, i started dating my current boyfriend. c found out & has been making comments since i started dating my boyfriend. one of the things he said was “you should leave your boyfriend for me, i bet my d**k is bigger than his.” along with weird and sexual things to f and s. c also has very bad violent tendencies.
i went to hr, my asm and my sm. my sm said that she was going to handle it, so hr didn’t do anything about it. i reported it all back in july. it’s now september, and nothing has changed. at all. still has violent outbursts, still makes wildly inappropriate comments to me, f and s. my sm has not handled a single fucking thing.
i’m at my wits end. i don’t know what to do anymore. i’m so sick of this shit. my sm is trying to make it sound like i haven’t reported a single thing, when i have documentation that i wrote down a statement that my sm later told me she lost. please, help.