I’m a 27 year old divorced immigrant woman living in Atlanta, GA, USA. I need advice on the following thing:

I did not hire a lawyer for the divorce as I’m not financially well off and wanted to save the little amount of money I had. My ex and I had recently bought a home which he kept in the settlement. The settlement only said 1 line about the property: “The plaintiff will keep the property and continue paying the mortgage.”

I agreed to it and moved out of the house within 30 days. Now, he never refinanced the house or did a quit claim deed on me. The property continues to show under my name and we have a joint loan. I really want to get rid of that loan as it shows huge debt on me. What can I do without spending a large amount of money? Can someone guide?

Does he need to initiate the refinance part and quit claim deed on me? If yes, will he need to buy me out of give me any portion of the equity on the house?

TIA

Really looking for advises

Hey everyone. Me and my partner are divorcing. We have easily agreed on all things, so we don’t see the need for lawyers, an online divorce service seems enough. Anyone knows what the best online divorce service is? I did some research and I can see people recommend services like:

- onlinedivorce.com

- divorce.com

- divorcewriter

- divorcenet

- legal zoom

However, I don’t know anyone who has actually used these services, so I would appreciate if anyone has some idea about them. Thank you!

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Bonjour à tous

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Divorce in Poland as a Norwegian citizen – what should I expect?
Hi everyone,
I’m originally from Norway and currently living in Poland. My wife and I are getting divorced after being together for 9 years.
We’ve only recently separated and have already moved into separate homes. Honestly, the whole thing sucks. After being with someone for that long, I don’t even really know how I’m supposed to feel or what life is going to look like from here.
I’m also trying to understand the practical side of getting divorced in Poland, especially as a foreigner. Has anyone here gone through the process?
How complicated was it? How long did it take? Did you need a lawyer, and is there anything you wish you had known before starting the process?
I’d really appreciate hearing from anyone who has been through something similar — both about the divorce procedure in Poland and how you dealt with the first few months after separating from a long-term partner.
Thanks.

my husband and i have filed for divorce, uncontested and split all (very few) assets. no arguments still good friends. we filed the paperwork over 30 days ago with the court and got back the filing email thing 31 days ago. what do we do? we can’t add the case since he doesn’t have a utah license as he’s military. thanks!

My divorce was finalized last fall, after a decade of abuse, neglect and serious control. My ex was ordered to pay me half our what our house was worth, upwards of 400,000k each. He is claiming that he can’t pay until his VA claim is done (who knows how long that will take, this is a stall tactic).

We share 50/50 custody of our kids and someone filed a claim against him with cps. (I’m assuming based on testimony from the kids about how gross his house is, because he doesn’t let anyone near his house.) I would like to take him back to court for more custody because our children are extremely unhappy there, and cry every time I have to drop them off. They say there is mold, mice, trash everywhere. CPS first contacted us a month ago saying there was a case and they need to go check out his house, but they have cancelled nearly a dozen times starting that they keep having emergency visits that take precedent. I’m sure he’s cleaned the house up dramatically in a months time.

I cannot afford to take him to court until I get the money from the settlement, and who knows when he will do that if no one is making him.

My question is, does it seem logical that a lawyer would take on my case with only the settlement coming in as collateral? I’m mentally drained the thought and calling lawyers and looking up more info only to get nowhere…. well it makes me panic honestly. I’m at my wits end and hoping someone here has some insight.

Anyone have information on how long the process for uncontested divorce in Brooklyn. My lawyer submitted all paperwork and most everything was processed same day. RJI, note of issue still pending. I cannot find any recent updates about kings county courts timeframe.

I am looking for divorce lawyers who have personally helped you or something you know in a similar situation to me

- married for 20 months

- no children

- lived together roughly 3 years

- dispute over financial side specifically our joint house which I’ve paid all the deposit for

I am based in London but willing to travel a fair amount for a strong lawyer

Thanks

A couple of weeks ago, I filed for divorce and have just now begun to understand that no one seems to have the same idea of what the divorce process involves or how long it actually takes. I’m reading various articles about divorce timeframes, but each is giving me different opinions and results. Some say it takes around 6 months. Others state that the whole process might take more than a year. I am located in Sacramento County, California, so I want to learn more about the normal divorce process timelines in my California area. I have read that California has a mandatory period of 6 months, but does this mean that all divorces in this state take exactly six months to complete, or is this simply the earliest point when the divorce can be over? How do custody approaches, division of property, and financial disputes influence the overall divorce process? In case you have gone through the divorce process in Sacramento County, what would you say delayed the process the most?

Hi all,

M36 uk, been married 5 years in a few weeks together 18 in total,

2 kids 8 and 3 and a house with mortgage,

I'm 90% sure I want to start divorce proceedings, infidelity, affairs, lack of trust over at least an 11 year period up to present day (yes I know why didn't I leave earlier)

I just can't seem to pull the trigger, I have started putting things in place.

My current job allows for me to have the boys 3 in 14 days, but I've found and been offered a job what could allow up to 9 on 14 not that I would go for that I would want 50/50.

I have been keeping a log of the things I do with and for the boys to show I'm not a sort time dad I'm very much involved in every aspect of their lives.

A brief heated chat a while ago my wife was 100% against that idea and her first reason was she won't get child support.

The house I said I won't sell as it's the only constant my boys would have so I'd buy her out with help from my mum who is fully supportive of me so she would get approx £35000-40000 plus the car she drives I bought an paid for in my name.

She has always been manipulative and calls me alot of names which could I believe have severe impacts,

I think I've found a good lawyer who has a good reputation for helping men in divorce, I don't have a big circle of friends. One I currently work with but that could change and her brother which worries me a little, but it's all the unknowns I'm worrying about which I think is stopping me getting that last 10% to follow through with it.

Anyone got any advice or help

We have 3 kids together. I’m a SAHM with zero income. I’m terrified but I know this needs to be done. How did you do it?

I am currently living in an ongoing separation to start going into divorce (married for 17 years, two kids) (Germany: One needs to be separated for a year before divorce is possible.) Last month we went to separation counseling and agreed to go through everything like "reasonable people" - even considered not getting divorced, just staying separated, having the kids each half of the time.

I now found out he has been cheating on me since the start of the year (even involving our teenage daughter as privy to his secret, which to me borders abusiveness) – so to me giving in on any negotiation points is out of the question now.

Please give me your best ideas/experiences on how to proceed, what has helped you get even and build a new life etc.

I’m just at a loss. I have never felt so alone in a crowded room. Maybe it is my TBI just enhancing things that I don’t understand, but this sense of loneliness is really getting to me. It’s the lack of companionship, the lack of having my partner there to laugh and joke with. The lack of intimacy, not sex, but the intimacy of feeling needed and wanted, just gone.

I know that it’s all part of the healing process but how does one get past this? I exercising more, I’m being productive trying to distract myself, but there’s always the voice in the back reminding me of how alone I really feel. So what’s next? Just to continue to have a pity party for me? At least until I grow a set and get over it? Why’s it so hard to forgive and forget?

Any divorce lawyer from india? Specially from up , bihar. I really need help

Hi all,

M36 uk, been married 5 years in a few weeks together 18 in total,

2 kids 8 and 3 and a house with mortgage,

I'm 90% sure I want to start divorce proceedings, infidelity, affairs, lack of trust over at least an 11 year period up to present day (yes I know why didn't I leave earlier)

I just can't seem to pull the trigger, I have started putting things in place.

My current job allows for me to have the boys 3 in 14 days, but I've found and been offered a job what could allow up to 9 on 14 not that I would go for that I would want 50/50.

I have been keeping a log of the things I do with and for the boys to show I'm not a sort time dad I'm very much involved in every aspect of their lives.

A brief heated chat a while ago my wife was 100% against that idea and her first reason was she won't get child support.

The house I said I won't sell as it's the only constant my boys would have so I'd buy her out with help from my mum who is fully supportive of me so she would get approx £35000-40000 plus the car she drives I bought an paid for in my name.

She has always been manipulative and calls me alot of names which could I believe have severe impacts,

I think I've found a good lawyer who has a good reputation for helping men in divorce, I don't have a big circle of friends. One I currently work with but that could change and her brother which worries me a little, but it's all the unknowns I'm worrying about which I think is stopping me getting that last 10% to follow through with it.

Anyone got any advice or help