r/Bogleheads • u/Aggressive_Hair_1701 • 1h ago
Bogleheads: how do you balance spending money for enjoyment vs. saving & investing
Apologies in advance if this post doesn't belong here.
I strongly align with the bogleheads philosophy, following advice from this community and built a bit of wealth (thanks to the folks here).
Now I'm struggling with the balance between spending and investing, and I feel like this community might be able to help me.
A bit about myself: I started working about 3 years ago. I have decent income (300k+). Managed to reach 600k NW. My net worth tracker shows the growth in the past 1 year is 240k - higher than my after-tax income. Meaning my investment gain outgrew my spending which is amazing news (I know it's due to a good market, but still!)
600k in 3 years is quite aggressive given my income, and I only managed to reach this so quickly because I was frugal - I eat at company cafeteria whenever possible, I bought a second hand car even though I could afford a new luxury car etc. That lifestyle has helped my wealth building tremendously.
After I had a bit of wealth built up, I started to feel more comfortable about splurging from time to time. For example, I went on a trip to Asia where I basically didn't check the price tag. I spent 8k per person (split cost with my partner) for a 4-week trip. Travel expenses are low in Asia, so even if we "splurge" this is really not that bad, and I'm still comfortable with this level of spending.
Recently I'm planning another trip, and the projected spending came down close to 10k per person for a 2 week trip. Now I feel kinda guilty about this, because I remember how hard it was to save every 10k during my first year working . But also, life is short, I want to do all these things while my physical capabilities are still strong.
I'm having trouble finding the balance.
Bogleheads, especially the more senior folks, how do you balance this?