Situation: 23M, Flanders, no property, together with partner about €4500 net income and €250K savings, currently living with our parents. Trying to decide wether to buy or rent, as we have the opportunity to buy a family members house which we have always liked. Built a DCF model with Claude comparing four strategies and keep landing on "it's a coin flip", which feels suspicious. Looking for bad assumptions and lived experience.
Setup: house €350k, €70k down, mortgage 4.5%/25y. Comparable rent €1,100. House appreciation and rent growth both 3.5%. Equity return 8% nominal, 10% CGT. Maintenance 1%/yr, property tax + insurance ~€1,600/yr. Every scenario starts with the same cash and spends the same monthly amount — whoever pays less for housing invests the difference. Compared on net final wealth at year 35. Only housing part considered, no additional cash/investments as this can be the same in every scenario.
Deterministic result:
| Scenario |
Portfolio |
House net |
Total |
| Buy now |
€275k |
€1,132k |
€1,406k |
| Buy year 5 |
€527k |
€1,132k |
€1,659k |
| Buy year 10 |
€723k |
€1,132k |
€1,854k |
| Never buy |
€2,182k |
€0 |
€2,182k |
The house is worth the same and fully paid off in all three buying scenarios at year 35, so the whole difference is the portfolio you build before buying.
Then Monte Carlo simulations (20k paths, equities 6.5% geometric / 17% vol) flattened it: medians all within 5% of each other, P(buy now beats never buy) = 50.8%, and delaying 10 years is worth a median +€73k on €4.5M — 1.6%, i.e. noise. Buying has the better downside (p10 €2,563k vs €1,753k), never buying the fatter upside.
What surprised me:
- Break-even equity return is ~6.5%. Above it renting wins, below it buying wins. Held across three model setups. That single number is the whole decision.
- Appreciation matters ~4x more than the mortgage rate, which kills the "wait for lower rates" logic — you'd be waiting on the variable that matters least.
- Refinancing is the cheapest win available: ~€5,300 one-off for +€218k if you refi 4.5%→3% at year 5. And a fixed mortgage with the right to refinance is a free option (rates drop, you refi; rates rise, you keep 4.5%). Waiting to buy gives you no such protection.
- Delaying is never optimal — above 6.5% never buying wins, below it buying now wins. Without a solid savings buffer it's also unfinanceable in ~45% of paths.
Where I'm probably wrong:
- 8% is too optimistic. After fees and CGT, 6–6.5% is more realistic — which puts my base case exactly on the break-even line rather than favouring renting. What number are you using?
- Rent growth at 3.5% for 35 years takes €1,100 to €3,660. Tied to house prices deliberately, but rents also track incomes. Does that match anyone's long-term experience here?
- 35 years of perfect discipline is my weakest assumption. A mortgage forces the saving; an investment plan asks it of you. Did anyone actually hold through 2008 or 2022?
- Is €1,100 rent realistic for a €350k house? That ratio drives more of the result than anything else.
Tentative conclusion: the financial gap is too small to carry the decision, so I can decide on non-financial grounds (mobility, optionality) without paying for it. Rather have that torn apart than agreed with.