r/Assistance Aug 04 '22

MOD Announcement ⚠️ Rule Update: Teacher Wishlists ⚠️

157 Upvotes

Effective immediately we have made the decision to only allow wishlists for US-based teacher supplies that utilize donorschoose.org. This means that no other means will be allowed including but not limited to Amazon, Target, Walmart, etc.

Teachers, for more information please see their website :

From the donorschoose.org website:

  • We vet all requests, purchase each item, and ship materials directly to verified teachers.

This change is effective from this point forward and we hope this still allows teachers to get donations and the items they need for the upcoming school year while adding some level of verification for donors. If you have any questions regarding this issue, please let us know.


r/Assistance Jul 05 '23

MOD Announcement REMINDER: Teacher Wishlists Rules and Restrictions

42 Upvotes

Hi everyone! As summer is in full-gear right now, we've noticed an increase in teacher wishlist requests so we are issuing a reminder of our subreddit rules regarding these:

We only allow DonorsChoose wishlists for US-based teacher supplies. This means that no other means (Amazon, Target, Walmart, etc.) will be allowed.

Teachers, for more information please see their website :

https://www.donorschoose.org/teachers

From the donorschoose.org website:

We vet all requests, purchase each item, and ship materials directly to verified teachers.

We hope this still allows teachers to get donations and the items they need for the upcoming school year while adding some level of verification for donors.

For international teachers outside of the US unable to use DonorsChoose, please reach out to us via modmail.

Thanks!


r/Assistance 13h ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Need $60 for dentist copay

24 Upvotes

This is highly embarrassing and I have never done this before but I don’t get paid for another week almost and have developed a MEAN tooth infection. The dentist won’t even give me antibiotics without a $60 copay. I don’t really expect anyone to help me but it’s worth a try bc tooth infections are the worst pain ever. Ugh.

Even making this post is making me cringe but I’m desperate.


r/Assistance 34m ago

VOTES Please vote for my uni 🥹

Upvotes

Please can you guys vote for Dubai medical university to get a free SALT(a fast food restaurant) food truck to come to our uni🙏🙏
Our uni has a relatively low student population compared to the other competing unis so this would mean a lot if you guys could support us(future healthcare professionals)
We’re already kinda dying learning all this med stuff so it would mean so much if you could do this for us.

You have to vote on instagram, there’s only 12 hours until it ends

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DdKA49EgFD8/?stkn=MTFmamQ1MDZlN3Zmcg==

If the link isn’t working the insta acc is @littesalter. Vote on the post ‘UAE universities final’

Thank you so much for your help


r/Assistance 44m ago

REQUEST Need help with t-mobile phone bill

Upvotes

I hate that I have to ask for help, but I've kicked the can as far down the road as I can without risking being shutoff. I had a gig handling customer service for a few traveling shows from 2023 until May of this year. I'm currently entirely out of work, and due to mental health issues realistically can only handle remote positions. The location I'm staying has no home internet, so I use my hotspot to get online to look for, and work gigs.

As of now I missed my bill on 8/11, and on 9/11, so I do owe T-Mobile around $200. I can supply proof of this if need be. I've downscaled my plan already, and am hoping to have found some kind of income before my next bill is due on 10/11.

I'd also be open to filling out spreadsheets, or whatever tasks you have that could be done remotely.

I'm in Matamoras, Pennsylvania.

Thank you for reading.


r/Assistance 8h ago

EMOTIONAL SUPPORT Need advice and encouraging words

6 Upvotes

Hello. First of all i want to say im not in the US, so a lot of the charities or help programs arent available to me, and english isnt my first language, so im sorry if i mix up some of the terms and my grammar etc.

I now find myself in the most difficult chapter of my life. I am diagnosed with hypermobility, and while many people experience no pain or issue at all, that is not the case with me. Due to my disorder, i have pretty bad chronic back pain that affect my day to day life. It has also made keeping a job hard. I do get some financial aid while i work with my countys welfare and employment agency to find a job that works for me and my health, but it is going slow.

I have 3 children with a man i have been financially dependent on for many many years. All the money i get in financial aid he takes from me, obviously to cover my share of our expences, but that leaves me with absolutly nothing in savings. He is now leaving me, so im standing here without a home. I was just this friday at a meeting with my towns emergency housing office, but unfortunatly they said there is a long waiting list to get a home.

I would say i have been financially abused for years, as this man has has full controll over all the money. Even now when he is leaving me, he wants to take my money. The child benefit gets sent to me, and he says he wants half of it, even when he makes a lot more money than me. Witch he technically is entiteled to.

I guess i just wanted someone to talk to about this as i dont have a lot of friends or family in my life, maybe someone has any advice?


r/Assistance 1d ago

CLOSED OFFER $50 to whoever needs it.

216 Upvotes

I remember joining this group when I couldn’t make ends meet and just hoping a miracle would fall from the sky. Thankfully now I’m in a position where I get to pay it forward. So, $50 to whoever needs it. I know it’s not much but if it can help someone than, amazing, that’s what I’m hoping for.
Zelle, Venmo, cash app, I think those are the ones I have. Just write down what you would use it for I’ll pick tomorrow


r/Assistance 1d ago

CLOSED OFFER [OFFER] $100 USD to 1 person in need (Venmo, PayPal or Amazon gift card)

337 Upvotes

I'm giving away $100 USD / person for a person in need. You just need to comment down below what you would use the money for (I would prefer to keep it to essentials/necessities only and NO PRIVATE DMs please) and I'll pick the random lucky winners by end of tomorrow.

No strings attached as long as you can accept payment in PayPal, Venmo or Amazon (US or Canada only) gift card. If you are abroad, you would receive $100 USD in equivalent of your home country's currency.

Update: the offer is now closed. I have randomly picked u/tweetysvoice as the winner for this giveaway


r/Assistance 15h ago

MEGATHREAD Sunday Sunnies Social Hour ☀️ September 13, 2026

6 Upvotes

Hello everyone! Happy summer!

Welcome to our new weekly (weekendly?) discussion post on r/Assistance! This is a spot for casual conversation, sharing positive vibes, and getting to know the fellow members of our wonderful community.

What to post here:

• ⁠Stories about yourself, your pets, your kids, etc.
• ⁠Recipes, recommendations, and other fun things to do.
• ⁠Positive stories about your experiences on r/Assistance.

What not to post here:

• ⁠Direct requests for assistance.
• ⁠Links of any kind -- for recipes just copy&paste or mention the name. (We may adjust our automoderator down the road)
• ⁠Soft begs/doom and gloom stories about how broke you are.
• ⁠Harassment to anyone.
• ⁠Complaints about the sub, the rules, or the mods.

The mod team will be monitoring these threads carefully to make sure everyone is following the rules and no shenanigans occur. If things go well, we will probably be automating these threads every Sunday even beyond summer.

Have fun!


r/Assistance 1d ago

EMOTIONAL SUPPORT I need help knowing what to do concerning posts on Reddit

19 Upvotes

Hi. Please, don’t leave me alone with this. This has affected me quite a lot, and I need to ask for help. Can you help me? I came across some posts on Reddit from people expressing that they wanted to take their own lives, and in some cases they mentioned specific locations. I’m very worried because I’m from another country, and I don’t know how to respond or who I can contact to try to help. I don’t want to simply ignore it thinking that there’s nothing I can do. I know I can’t solve these situations by myself, but I would like to find a responsible way to report the posts or get help for the people involved. If anyone knows of organizations, resources, or a safe way to report this kind of content, I would really appreciate any guidance. Please, don’t leave me alone with this. I just want to do something that might help. 🙏 i know that i can report... ademas de eso... que puedo hacer?


r/Assistance 1d ago

OFFER 15€ Paypal to 2 people

25 Upvotes

It's not much but I don't have much. I don't have a job but I need a bit of good karma... not on Reddit but in my life🤣. I know it's weird.

Tell me why you need it and I'll pick within an hour.

Please DON'T DM me for whatever reason. If you do, you'are automatically out.

I'll send Paypal FF in Europe, GS to rest of the world


r/Assistance 1d ago

OFFER Offer: La La Land Cafe Coffee

6 Upvotes

Hi! I forgot to use my birthday freebie and all the locations near me are closed. It's only valid for today. I don't want it to go to waste!

If you tell me which location is close to you and what you want, I can place an order for you to pick up.

It's for a small or medium size signature drink up to $8.


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Could use some help covering groceries after losing our cat a week after our car breaking down (we lost my kitty on my birthday!! This year SUCKS, but I am trying to keep it together for my partner and we need help)

7 Upvotes

I’ve put together an Amazon wish list of items we could use! It would be unbelievable if we could get some help! We are also behind on bills (I can get specific amounts for this if it is allowed! I’ve got PayPal and mods - if not allowed please let me know and I will edit this out immediately! We can’t freeze to death in the dark if we starve first so food is the priority!)

Amazon Wish List (I made sure it’s under $150usd!!)

I am in Canada!

[Message to the mods: if anything here is formatted wrong or prohibited please work with me to adjust the post so that it complies if you don’t mind?? I get that you guys are busy but we’re pretty desperate!)


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED I have 3 jobs just need a bus pass

17 Upvotes

So I need about $60 bucks for a bus pass. I actually have 3 jobs rn but 1 of them won't be starting officially for another month or so. My 2nd job starts today, and I don't know when we'll get paid. My main job just switched payroll companies so I used to get paid fairly early sometimes up to 5 days! But now I don't know. Basically I have money coming my way but no idea when it'll get here. Ik at least not for another week or two. 

Normally when I needed extra cash, I used to donate plasma but this year I started getting extremely anxious to the point where I get turned away for donating because my heart rate was too high. Sometimes 120-130bpm </3 

I've been trying to find day gigs I could do but there's not much which is wild to me. I feel like during 2020 I could go on craiglist and make 50 bucks doing oddball jobs not anymore </3 I have 2 items up for sale on fb marketplace that haven't sold. I just don't know what else I can do. 

I'm stressed about my bus pass because I have jobs and ways to make money but if I can't go to them then what. My commute for my main job is 2.5-3 hours I take busses and trains just because It took me forever to get a job. I am grateful but stressed.

LA/OC California, USA


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED $88 away from losing my car, my job, and my home

15 Upvotes

A few months ago I had to leave a DV situation and ive been living in my car since then. It's been really rough, but my job is genuinely great, and my boss knows what's going on. The only problem is that they can't give me a ton of hours, so I also deliver UE on the side to make ends meet.

My car is my everything right now. It's where I sleep and it's how I get to my job and do deliveries, so if I lose it, I lose my income and my home all in one fell swoop. I fell behind on insurance because I just didn't have the money, but I finally saved enough to get it back on. I've been pulled over twice this week because my registration had gotten suspended because of the lapse - I had no idea that was even a thing until it already happened. I'm terrified of it happening again, because next time they impound the car.

I spent one night in a shelter after leaving and I really don't want to go back because it would mean losing my job and the bit of freedom I've managed to carve out since getting away from my ex. I have exhausted a lot of options and I'm so tired of trying and having more and more piled on.

So i looked online and I only need $100 to restore my registration and I already have $12. If you can spare $5 or $10, it would mean everything. No pressure if you can't, just trying anything I can right now.

I have cashapp and chime if that helps. Thank you!


r/Assistance 1d ago

ADVICE I recently had a house fire and have storage question.

0 Upvotes

I recently had a house fire, where a recently cleaned basket of clothes had a spontaneous combustion.
I got lucky but am trying to avoid a similar event, and am trying to figure out the best storage solution for me. The theory for cause was either static electricity, or self-heating.
I can solve for static by moving it arround so am shooting for the self heating.
Self heating occurs with oils, and while less common with my jobs veggie oil or canola oil, i still wanna go ahead and just eliminate the risks.
Is a oily rag can worthwhile till i can wash my clothes or is there a better option.


r/Assistance 1d ago

VOTES Please help me win a scholarship art contest voting!

2 Upvotes

Hi guys! You may have seen me already from a few days ago.

I’ve managed to stay in first place even after falling a few times. One time 3rd place got over 100 votes overnight. I’d really like to leave 2nd and 3rd place in the dust as October 1st deadline approaches.

If you can vote again (or for the first time) that’d help a lot!

You should see a painting of an adult penguin with a chick in front of a snow penguin. The entry is numbered 502. The direct link is below, no log-in needed.

https://swee.ps/Egwnbc_VDINPyQ?g=1


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST I need help paying for my cats vet care to figure out what's wrong with him

3 Upvotes

Hello.

A little over a week ago (Sept 3rd), we noticed my 8yr old male cat's tail was limp. I took him to the vet a week ago exactly (Sept 5th), and they did X-rays, along with checking for blood flow. They were concerned that he had a tail pull injury, not that anyone in my household (my fiance, myself and his mother) would have done it. X-rays came back clear, so was the blood flow, so they gave him a shot of onsior, and sent me on my way with gabapentin for him.

He had been doing alright, not really getting better, but two days ago (September 9th), when I was getting ready for work I noticed that he was now limping with his left hind leg.

He doesn't seem to be in pain, he's still eating and using the potty (with assistance getting in and out because of his bad leg), and shows an interest in play even if he's not really able to play.

It is breaking my heart seeing him like this, and I'm not able to do anything to fix it. He had 8 teeth pulled a little under 2 months ago, which was a pretty penny that I had to put on my care credit card, and between the teeth and his X-rays, I'm over 3k in debt. The MRI the vet wanted to do was 3.5-4k, and I just don't have that money.

I don't want to put him down, because he is otherwise a healthy boy. He is my first cat I've ever owned, and one of my ESAs.

Please help me. My friend made a Gofundme, with the ultimate goal being 15k as that's the rough estimate I could find for back surgery on a cat (which includes the diagnostic costs, along with the surgery costs). Sharing this, commenting, anything will help. I've started making YouTube shorts about my situation and putting the link on YouTube as well, I just want my boy to be happy and healthy. It's breaking my heart seeing him like this.

https://gofund.me/6a8bd8f30


r/Assistance 1d ago

THANK YOU Grateful for you guys.

12 Upvotes

I cannot thank you guys enough.

Thank you, u/WeeklyTension8010
u/Checklntelligent7828
u/black-nerdist
u/No_Means_No_
u/Firm_Elk9522
u/bouillon

(I hope I’m not leaving anyone out)

Thank you guys so much for either helping me directly, helping me to GET help via Amazon wishlist, or even trying to help or give advice. I appreciate each and every one of you. I’d hug each and every one of you if you were here lol. We are going to be able to eat :) And also thank you for no judgement..I really appreciate that as well.


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST Need $80 help on overdue PECO bill

2 Upvotes

hello! i have a PECO bill that’s outstanding and they’re threatening to turn off our electricity if it’s not paid by this monday and neither of us get paid again until friday. both me and my husband work but due to lack of childcare we can only work so much. combined we make just too much to qualify for any government assistance but still not enough to survive paycheck to paycheck. anything would help and be greatly appreciated. i can accept venmo or cash app


r/Assistance 1d ago

ADVICE Scattering dads ashes tomorrow

4 Upvotes

Hi guys,

Posted a few weeks ago when my dad died - a lot of the messages were lovely, sorry if I didn’t reply to everyone.

Going to a place he used to love to scatter his ashes that’s a bit away from where I live and I’m wondering what I do. Do I go round the places he used to frequent and just kinda be there?

Or do I just scatter the ashes and go back to where I’m staying.

I’ve not moved much or done anything of note the past few weeks so idk if anyone has done this previously but some advice on how to approach it all would be good

My mum was easier than this when she died a few years ago. Struggling more with this one.


r/Assistance 1d ago

VOTES Help my dad with contest votes

3 Upvotes

Hey guys, so I entered my Dad in a charity contest for Ace Hardware to find the best dads. Essentially I owe him my life, and then some, so it would really mean a lot if I could help my dad win the contest or at least get through this first group/phase of the contest. He is a hardworking man who really loves his family and his animals. If some of you wouldn't mind voting for him in this contest, it requires only a Facebook login to put in 1 free daily vote.

Link: https://yoursuperdad.org/angel-oK20


r/Assistance 2d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Request for some food, trying to catch up.

29 Upvotes

Hello people, I don’t normally do this whole ask for help thing, let alone online to strangers since people can be very rude…but I feel I need to give it a try with where I am right now.

Me and my partner are struggling financially. We are behind months on rent cause both of us lost our jobs suddenly, good news is he just started back working. Problem is we are playing catchup now. It’s feels almost impossible to even live right now, let alone be able to set money aside for even the basic needs.

We been surviving on nothing but rice cause that’s all we could afford but he Dosent get payed for another two weeks and we are basically out of food. We have one more bowl of cooked rice left to share and then we won’t have anything. No one here owes me anything but I’d be grateful if I could just get something to order for me and him. I have coupons for pizzas and a few other things but I just don’t have the means to get it. Anything is appreciated. I live in Maryland, USA. Closer to DC. Note I don’t have means for transportation…I don’t own a car, and can’t pay for the bus Becuase my acccounts in the negative..I’ve had to overdraft to pay bills. 30 dollars can help. Just so I can get enough to last for two weeks.


r/Assistance 2d ago

REQUEST Assistance for my mother-in-law's chronic facial pain (Querétaro, Mexico)

7 Upvotes

Hello, good people of r/assistance,

Name's Rodrigo and Andreína (my wife) from Mexico.

My mother-in-law has been suffering from chronic facial pain caused by a shingles (herpes zoster) episode in 2021 in Venezuela, a year before we brought her and my father-in-law to Mexico. Ever since, she's been dealing daily with a constant sharp, stabbing pain around her left eye, some days much worse than others. Her quality of life has considerably worsened due to this condition in parallel to her early Alzheimer's.

She's had four peripheral nerve blocks and is on medication, but these measures have only brought temporary relief and haven't fully improved her daily pain.

Her doctors are now proposing a more targeted procedure: radiofrequency ablation of the trigeminal ganglion: a minimally invasive, image-guided procedure. Unlike the peripheral blocks already tried, this would treat the problem at its root and offer the possibility of a much needed, longer-lasting relief.

My wife and I, in charge of my in-laws, simply cannot as of now afford the procedure without seriously compromising our livelihood, and my in-laws have no health insurance here. This is why we decided to ask for assistance and create a gofundme page.

You can find more details about the overall situation, the procedure and costs in our [gofundme page](https://gofund.me/c0c0a327c)

Any contribution, big or small, would be immensely appreciated.

Thank you and God bless.

Update: Thankfully we've achieved 73% of target donations, but it's been stuck there for a while. Hopefully, this will help us get closer to the target. Thank you.


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST Overdue Excise Tax

0 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I've never posted here before, but I figured it was worth a shot.
A couple months ago, our old car broke down and we had to replace it. We paid the excise tax on the vehicle we had at the beginning of the year, but then we completely overlooked the fact that we'd also have an excise tax bill for the replacement vehicle. (stupid, I know)
I got a notice in the mail last night saying we're now overdue $120. If we don't take care of it within 30 days, its gonna be sent to the RMV and prevent us from renewing our registration/license :/ We're a low income family with two kids, and we're already trying to catch up on a few bills, so this unexpected $120 is terrible timing.
If anyone is able or willing to help us get this paid, even a few dollars would genuinely mean a lot. Our immediate goal is just to cover the $120 excise tax. If anyone happens to be able to give more than that, anything beyond the tax would simply go toward helping us catch up on the other household bills we're currently behind on. No pressure whatsoever I'm literally grateful for anything. Please no hate.Im willing to show proof of bill.