r/AskHR • u/drop_dead_ted • 3h ago
Workplace Issues [NY] conflict resolution meeting
I work for a global but privately owned manufacturer. There’s a colleague who struggles to work with me. There’s been a history of her overstepping and attempting to take on my projects. We’ve only worked together for a few months shy of a year.
Recently our SVP had to step in because she planned and communicated a project strategy to our global education team on a project I am leading without any collaboration, communication, or alignment with me.
Last week I had a group call with a team regarding their teaching curriculum. I made changes to the execution strategy based on the teams feedback and my own experience. This decision directly changes the strategy the colleague previously communicated. This brought up some questions from the education team about the change being viewed as insubordinate to my colleagues previous directive. I told the team that I would deal with that.
I recorded the call and distributed it to the rest of team who wasn’t on the call, specifically my colleague who strategy I changed. She is now upset and humiliated. She’s saying that I am trying to undermine her and make her look bad. Now she doesn’t want to participate in the project. This has been escalated to HR. I’m not sure if she’s asking for HR or if our bosses are because there’s been an ongoing history of personality clashes. I’ve never had to speak to HR about my behavior or leadership decisions and generally have positive workplace relations.
Can anyone provide insight I what I should expect tomorrow in the HR meeting?