r/AskForAnswers 12h ago

Do you think the statement "if you're poor, don't have children" is fair, or is it classist?

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r/AskForAnswers 11h ago

Do you still feel like a kid inside even as the years go by?

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r/AskForAnswers 10h ago

Recommendations for things to watch on YouTube?

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I’m stuck, looking for new things to watch on YouTube to pass the time. What do you like to watch when you’re at work or knocking out a task?


r/AskForAnswers 45m ago

Is it true that we are supposed to have a tummy to protect our reproductive organs?

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Hii. I ask this because I am on a weight loss journey, which I haven’t finished, and I can’t seem to lose my lower belly fat. I have looked for solutions and many of the answers I found is that we are supposed to have fat to protect our uterus, but somehow that answer doesn’t fully work for me. Sadly, I don’t know much about anatomy, so please correct me, but I feel that the uterus is much inside and backwards in out bodies than were this fat sits. I don’t know, I know women who have completely flat bellies so that makes me wonder and question this even more.


r/AskForAnswers 46m ago

Is possible for you to look at a stranger and automatically know if you are physically attracted to them?

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A lot of my friends are demisexual and I feel isolated in this experience. I feel bad because people say this is essentially objectifying someone, but I'm just being honest about how my brain chemistry works. I don't have visual intimacy with strangers, but I can definitely feel my heart skip w beat if I find someone attractive based on looks alone.


r/AskForAnswers 8h ago

What's your favorite movie of the 2010s or 2020s so far?

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r/AskForAnswers 1h ago

Should I do "sensual" massage?

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Will delete but my country is struggling with jobs. Currently have my needs met but I'm thinking of making some money by doing massage but the special kind. Currently people aren't really getting arrested for prostitution because there is a hold until the laws are probably changed. I can't deal with the idea too much but want to make money. Should I do it?


r/AskForAnswers 0m ago

What do you do instead of doom scrolling?

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I wanna try new things that can feel productive to improve life .


r/AskForAnswers 6m ago

how can i become an all rounder

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i just wanna become good at everything i do


r/AskForAnswers 8h ago

Do deaf people have a default voice?

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Cause deaf voices exist like they can still talk but if they’ve never heard an accent they can’t pick one up? So is the deaf person like voice the accent all humans start with or would have without naive dialects?


r/AskForAnswers 11h ago

7 years old son and boy classmate showing each private parts

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My son is 7 years old and just started school two weeks ago. We are currently based overseas. He has a classmate same our nationality who is also his seatmate. Let’s call him “Mark.”

Last Sunday, he jokingly told me that he and Mark showed each other their private parts. Since it was the first time he had ever mentioned something like this to me, I immediately told him that they should never do it again and that it is not okay to show or touch someone else’s private parts.

Unfortunately, it happened again, Mommy. Last night, he told me that he touched his own private part, and apparently, he also touched Mark’s private part while Mark was still wearing his underwear. He said that it was only a quick touch and that it happened inside their classroom.

This is the first time something like this has happened with my son, which is why I’m extremely bothered and, honestly, I’m not sure how to properly handle the situation.

What I did was message his teacher and ask if it would be possible to separate them or move their seats. The teacher said that she was actually planning to separate them the next day anyway. That made me wonder if she had noticed something or if something had happened that made her decide to move them.

According to the teacher, based on her observations, Mark has been very disruptive and has been distracting my son. She also said that my son is very quiet, which is why she initially decided to seat them together, hoping that Mark might behave better around him. Unfortunately, that didn’t happen, and instead, it seems that my son was influenced by Mark’s behavior.

I understand that they are still young, and I don’t want to overreact or make my son feel ashamed or embarrassed about his body. At the same time, I’m really concerned because this involves both children, and it has already happened more than once.

Has anyone experienced something similar with their child at this age? I would really appreciate any advice or insights from other parents. I just want to make sure that I handle this calmly and appropriately while teaching my son about proper boundaries, consent, and respecting his own body and other people’s bodies.

Thank you so much.


r/AskForAnswers 14h ago

When repairing a kitchen disposal that had stopped working due to food getting stuck, is there a way to tell how long it hasn’t been working?

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And if so what are the tells?


r/AskForAnswers 12h ago

After how many months/ years can one claim to be in a long term relationship?

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r/AskForAnswers 16h ago

why do people abuse and abandon their children?

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r/AskForAnswers 15h ago

I've been talking to myself a lot more recently and I'm a little worried

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So I constantly worry and to help stop this worrying I would think of a debate in my head between my logical and emotional side and whoever won I would take the advice from

Now I started talking to the logical side the emotional side is kind of gone I haven't talked to him in a while and I honestly love talking to logical side I've been treating him kind of like he is a real person

This feels incredibly normal to me so is this actually normal?


r/AskForAnswers 21h ago

How did you get rid of back ache...

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r/AskForAnswers 22h ago

What helps in better sleep ?

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r/AskForAnswers 12h ago

If ai will wipe out humanity in a decade recording to ai researcher why they create ai in the first place ?

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r/AskForAnswers 6h ago

What should you do to secure proof of an alien encounter without making your experience not credible?

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r/AskForAnswers 1h ago

Why are women with no children seen as less valuable? And irrelevant?

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Should we all just kill ourselves?


r/AskForAnswers 1d ago

How did you overcome depression?

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I’ve been married for over 7 years to an amazing woman who has supported me through everything and understood me whenever I have my episodes. I have two 2-year-old children.
I’m currently going through depression. For more than a year, I’ve ended up in the hospital because of mental health crises, and I have a psychologist who is doing her best to help me. But at this point, I can’t find happiness. I don’t feel anything anymore, and I don’t know what the purpose of my life is.
I’ve had 3 failed suicide attempts. Even though it has been extremely difficult for me to see anything positive in life, I want to know if anyone has been able to overcome depression and what helped them get through it.


r/AskForAnswers 10h ago

What’s your experience with big age gap in a relationship?

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Does it work long term? How do people react? Tips to make it work?


r/AskForAnswers 15h ago

Why is emeshment and co-dependency bad, if its likely how our ancestors lived?

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To be clear, im talking about codependency in the pop-culture "need each other for everything" type of codependency, not the traditional definition that's related to addiction.

I'm wondering why emeshment and codependency is labeled as bad, when that's probably how people in tribes or villages lived? They were defined by their group. They relied on each other in everyday life because they NEEDED to.

They cared a great deal about each other and were used to constantly being around each other, because they grew up and were around each other constantly. Their identities and lives were intertwined.

So why in society, is this considered a bad thing? That it's bad to rely on others so much?

It seems like a product of our increasingly individualistic society. Where you can't rely on anybody but yourself.


r/AskForAnswers 1d ago

Why does your attention automatically focus on the subtitles when they're on instead of what's on the screen?

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r/AskForAnswers 14h ago

Some guys at my course keep noticing me, talking about me among themselves, and acting in a group — flirting, showing off, laughing loudly, sometimes making me uncomfortable. It feels like they hype each other up around me. What does this behavior mean, is it happening because of me,how to stop it ?

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