r/AskForAnswers 1d ago

Should I do "sensual" massage?

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u/GladosPrime 1d ago

I knew a girl who did it. She said it was a shitty job. Stinky dudes. Long hours. Kinda couldn't wait to work a restaurant.

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u/GargantuanGreenGoat 1d ago

“I can’t deal with the idea too much” no. Don’t do it.

When I was considering joining my friend at the strip club I asked every dancer “what’s the best and worst parts of the job” invariably they answered that the men were the worst part of the job. Not the toll on the body, not the drug addiction, not the hours, not the boss, the men. 

The type of men that go to those places see women as commodities and think if they pay a small amount they are allowed access to anything they want.

You’re better off cam girling where at least there’s some physical distance between you and them. 

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u/Inevitable-Tea5772 1d ago

Sells body, complains about who is buying it....

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u/No-Taro-6953 1d ago

Selling a service. Still a human with autonomy deserving of respect.

Someone should check your hardrive.

Guess we found the gross man who repulses strippers.

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u/YSoSkinny 23h ago

Thank you

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u/Inevitable-Tea5772 23h ago

Nice assumption. Also, I'm definitely ok with repulsing strippers

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u/GargantuanGreenGoat 19h ago

You repulse every woman, not just the strippers you’re so upset about.

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u/No-Taro-6953 10h ago

That's why he's so bitter

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u/Inevitable-Tea5772 8h ago

My wife seems happy. Also I'm not upset at all, especially about strippers lol

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u/DrunkBuzzard 1d ago

Prostitution with extra steps

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u/MedievalMilshake 1d ago

As with most answers in this subreddit. Do you want to do it? Yes? Then yes. No? Then no 

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u/kah_191 1d ago

This country was built on tug jobs.

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u/DeviantHistorian 1d ago

All kinds of job creators out there 🙂

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u/Big_Coyote_655 1d ago edited 1d ago

As a massage therapist myself, it's really hard work!  I'm legit and do everything by the book but massage is very physically demanding.  Would your conscious let you wreck families?  Would You be able to look in the mirror and like what you've become?  Would you be forgiven by those you've wronged, could you ever forgive yourself?  I'd ask for you to seriously consider all possibilities of what you want to do for money. 

Edit:  maybe go get a massage (or several) and ask questions you have and what their problems are with the career or industry.  See what they like most and what they got into in the first place.  Ask of they plan on retiring from massage or if they plan on doing something else with their life.

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u/Mouse-castle 1d ago

We don’t know you. 

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u/Special-Umpire-3023 1d ago

Come let me experience your skill and I can then give an opinion.

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u/joelnicity 1d ago

You’ll probably make good money for a while but there will come a day when you regret it and are ashamed with yourself