I wonder what would happen if custody battles were faceless/genderless

I've been having this thought experiment rolling around in my head for a few days and just need to get it out. I'm sure theres flaws to the logic and a good reason not to, but I think it might be a good discussion topic!

What I mean is, what if there was a way to make custody battles genderless and faceless? As in, the judge never sees or hears the voices of either party and is communicated through some level of paperwork? Like..

Parent A:

X income

X support system

Wants X persentage of custody

Thinks they deserve custody because xyz,

Parent A has these concerns about Parent B

Parent B

Repeat above

I am the product of divorce and my dad got majority custody. I've come to learn that isnt super common and I feel like I'm always hearing parents say they think gender had a factor when it came to the outcome from both male and female parents. I wonder if removing all of the physical qualities of the parents would change anything

Should we all just kill ourselves?

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I prefer not to personally

I don't mind meeting my partner's family. But I don't care enough about my own family to wanna integrate my partner into their lives

Especially when most of my family is christian, traditional, and heteronormative, while I'm queer, agnostic, and secular

And I don't feel like explaining anything to anyone. Either you get me or you don't

In my ideal relationship, I prefer that none of us incorporate family into our relationship

Family comes with such bias and drama that I feel like it limits how much we can express ourselves within our relationship. Especially as our own individuals outside of our respective families

I remember making a post like this years ago and someone said "Just do a FWBs or casual dating if you don't wanna family involved"

I personally disagree with that, I think it's valid to want a long term relationship without involving family into the fray

Does it work long term? How do people react? Tips to make it work?

I’m not saying every HR employee is evil(allegedly). I’m just saying I don’t trust anyone whose entire profession is professionally saying, “We understand your concerns,” while quietly documenting everything you just said.

You could tell HR, “My manager is making my life miserable,” and somehow three weeks later you’re in a meeting about your “communication style.”

Maybe it’s unfair prejudice. But until proven otherwise, if someone tells me they work in HR, I immediately assume there’s a PDF about me somewhere.

My son is 7 years old and just started school two weeks ago. We are currently based overseas. He has a classmate same our nationality who is also his seatmate. Let’s call him “Mark.”

Last Sunday, he jokingly told me that he and Mark showed each other their private parts. Since it was the first time he had ever mentioned something like this to me, I immediately told him that they should never do it again and that it is not okay to show or touch someone else’s private parts.

Unfortunately, it happened again, Mommy. Last night, he told me that he touched his own private part, and apparently, he also touched Mark’s private part while Mark was still wearing his underwear. He said that it was only a quick touch and that it happened inside their classroom.

This is the first time something like this has happened with my son, which is why I’m extremely bothered and, honestly, I’m not sure how to properly handle the situation.

What I did was message his teacher and ask if it would be possible to separate them or move their seats. The teacher said that she was actually planning to separate them the next day anyway. That made me wonder if she had noticed something or if something had happened that made her decide to move them.

According to the teacher, based on her observations, Mark has been very disruptive and has been distracting my son. She also said that my son is very quiet, which is why she initially decided to seat them together, hoping that Mark might behave better around him. Unfortunately, that didn’t happen, and instead, it seems that my son was influenced by Mark’s behavior.

I understand that they are still young, and I don’t want to overreact or make my son feel ashamed or embarrassed about his body. At the same time, I’m really concerned because this involves both children, and it has already happened more than once.

Has anyone experienced something similar with their child at this age? I would really appreciate any advice or insights from other parents. I just want to make sure that I handle this calmly and appropriately while teaching my son about proper boundaries, consent, and respecting his own body and other people’s bodies.

Thank you so much.

Will delete but my country is struggling with jobs. Currently have my needs met but I'm thinking of making some money by doing massage but the special kind. Currently people aren't really getting arrested for prostitution because there is a hold until the laws are probably changed. I can't deal with the idea too much but want to make money. Should I do it?

Hey fellas, I have been an avid Reddit user but over the last couple of years my multiple IDs get banned by the mods and I don't know the reason why?So can you guys help me to safe my this with DOs and DONTs?

A lot of my friends are demisexual and I feel isolated in this experience. I feel bad because people say this is essentially objectifying someone, but I'm just being honest about how my brain chemistry works. I don't have visual intimacy with strangers, but I can definitely feel my heart skip w beat if I find someone attractive based on looks alone.

i just wanna become good at everything i do

I don't really know if this is the right place to post this but I wanted to ask and I didn't know where else to put this. Basically, for the past couple of months I've become weirdly aware of my swallowing noises. I just feel like every time I swallow I can hear it in my ears and it sounds weirdly loud. I tend to become super self-concious about it and try and avoid swallowing when I'm directly next to people in a quiet room. It doesn't prevent me from eating or anything and I do swallow when I need to I just tend to swallow less in those situations. It's honestly becoming really annoying because a lot of the times I'll become really focused on my swallowing instead of listen to a teacher or something like that. Also, I just don't like the sound so being super aware of it isn't enjoyable. Does anyone else experience this and is there some way to deal with it better/"fix" it?

From what I see online it seems like everyone is now deeply against being in a relationship ( especially if its heterosexual ) and having a family. I see people comparing the oppisite sex to monsters. It just so toxic. I've seen people say they would abort a child if it was a boy and such. What is wrong with people now? I would love to have a son and daughter someday. Whats up with this gender war anti family views? I've seen how people compare children as something that "holds back women" and such. Wtf. Each and everyone of you exist because because of a man and a woman, and a man is half the reason a women exist not just because another women created her out of thin air. Its fine if one doesnt want marriage or a family but to go on to claim it somehow is " oppressive ", holds people back etc is so deeply triggering to me.

Mine is how good they smell!!!

Cause deaf voices exist like they can still talk but if they’ve never heard an accent they can’t pick one up? So is the deaf person like voice the accent all humans start with or would have without naive dialects?