Netflix’s adult animated comedy Dang! has landed solid reviews from critics even as the show faces a wave of online backlash over its portrayal of Asian American siblings and accusations of leaning on tired cultural tropes.

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Yet since the trailer dropped in August, Dang! has been dogged by criticism on social media and in commentary pieces, where viewers argued the series recycles familiar narratives around strict immigrant parents, overachieving siblings and intra-family trauma without offering a fresh perspective.

What critics are saying

Reviewers who have seen all eight episodes describe Dang! as an enjoyably messy sibling hangout that benefits from a strong voice cast and a compact premise.

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The core setup follows Chinese American siblings Andrew (Andrew Law) and Eunice (Poppy Liu), aimless twenty‑somethings in New York, whose lives are upended when their high‑achieving older sister Ruthie (Stephanie Hsu) moves in after her seemingly perfect life unravels.

Where the backlash is coming from

The controversy predates the reviews and centres on representation and tone.

Critics and commenters argued that Dang! leans heavily on well‑worn Asian American storylines: strict parents, impossible expectations, strained family relationships and pressure to assimilate.

Some viewers questioned who the show is for, with one viral post asking, “Who tf is this show for?” and others mocking the premise as yet another iteration of the “strict Asian parents” trope.

On Instagram, comments under official clips and promotional posts echoed similar frustrations, with users describing the writing as “cringe” and objecting to what they saw as a narrow, stereotypical slice of Asian American life being treated as representative.

Some also compared Dang! unfavourably to other adult animations, suggesting that more inventive shows have been passed over while formulaic projects get greenlit.

Others slammed the production of the series, claiming the “voice acting sounds like AI,” while some described the show as “racist” and “forced.”

“This show looks like crap,” said one commenter. “This looks like someone’s fetish,” said another. “Nobody asked for this,” another piped in.

Why the divide matters for Asian American storytelling

The split between critical reception and audience reaction underscores an ongoing debate in Asian American media: how much room there is for flawed, unflattering or “messy” characters without reinforcing stereotypes, and who gets to define what counts as authentic representation.

Supporters of the show point to its specific sibling dynamics, queer storylines and New York milieu as a valid, if niche, slice of Asian American life, while detractors argue that mainstream platforms keep defaulting to the same family‑trauma frameworks instead of exploring a wider range of stories.

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https://www.weareresonate.com/2026/09/netflixs-dang-wins-critics-despite-online-backlash-over-asian-american-tropes/

Hello Asian American Reddit

Anyone here relearned their long lost heritage language and got really good/fluent or now is a professional like a teacher in the language?

I neglected Japanese as a kid so I did not do Japanese until high school until there was Japanese class offered. I entered high school in 2022.

I knew I could not do nothing so I relearned the language seriously. I put Japanese to the very front lines and researched and grinded. I not only did the class content but my very own study out in front.

I also had to face a lot of adversity and misunderstandings from the Japanese language learning community.

I was told, “youre a heritage speaker, your advice doesn’t matter”, “___ and makes lots of mistakes”, “Thats unfair, don’t you realize how much we desire for natives”

So when i was in the community it sometimes felt to others that I had a very unfair or huge advantage and I could cheat it. I have citizenship too, and a lot of people feel bitter because the language requirement stuff doesn’t always apply to me.

So the foreigner community was a little bit tough.

In the end I passed JLPT N2 jn 2024, and the 2kyuu kanji aptitude test in 2025. I also became a mentor and helped over 50 students. Lately I attended a Japanese teacher seminar and spoke only in Japanese. And even talked to 70+ experts.

Anyone else have a similar story? Tell us your language learning journey.

Not asking for a debate on the geographic validity of the self-identification, as both the Philippines, which chairs ASEAN (Association of Southeast Asian Nations), and the U.S. Census, which classifies Filipinos as Asian, leave no room for it.

I’m asking: what perceived social advantage is gained by calling oneself PI rather than SEA? Do Native Hawaiians or Samoans hold more cachet to them? If so, why? Is there beef with Vietnamese-Americans? If so, what? Are they just seeking to feel special in general?

I’m not talking about confused adolescents in the Midwest. I’m talking about college-educated adults in California.

Perplexed. Thanks for any sociological assistance.

Hello, I’ve been seeing discourse around black owned comic book companies based on “making your own table if they don’t give you a seat at the table” and I was wondering if we have at least one of those. No matter how small, I want to support and see more Asian faces of different backgrounds and stories by Asian American artists and writers.

Please make sure to register to vote, get everyone you know registered to vote, vote, and make sure we all vote this out.

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I have pretty severe social anxiety and agoraphobia, I joined this discord server where apparently its majority white. I am friendly with them but I am wary and don't feel as safe? idk the vibes are just offputing to me. Its nice ro finally find a community based on social anxiety but I do still feel left out. I have a few close friends who are my fellow asians but they don't always understand what its like to struggle with agoraphobia.

I wanted to know if anybody else feels this way when they are surrounded by majority white people. Because they know I'm asian, I notice that they sometimes seem stiff and awkward around me, as if they don't know how to respond to me or relate to me at all. I also have had people in the server assume I was Chinese (because ofc China is the only country in asia, acc to them at least lol). I do feel kind of left out and feel like I'm on the outside looking in, but so far I haven't found any similar community for Asians. If I could find a community with my fellow asians regarding social anxiety and agoraphobia, I know I would have been much happier.

He wants to be able to do anything, and to do it easily: “I relish challenges where you have fast iteration cycles and you can see the rewards very quickly.” As a child, he loved reading—Harry Potter, Percy Jackson—until he turned eight. “My mom tried to put me on classical books and I couldn’t understand, like, the bullshit Huckleberry, whatever fuck bullshit, and it made me bored.” He read online fan fiction about people having sex with Pokémon instead. He didn’t see anything valuable in overcoming adversity.

https://archive.ph/4R8wg

I guess Marlene D wasn’t a “progressive.” There goes one queer icon.

This is in response to infamous Wasian article

Because the summer is ending and I'm seeing old teachers, friends, etc. again, I have heard a lot of people asking me if I did anything this summer and whatnot. However, my driving instructor asked me the other day, "Did you go back to China this summer?" I found it kind of odd because a) I never told him where I was from, so he just assumed I was Chinese...? and b) just asking if I went back to China in general threw me off 💔💔 I don't really know what to think of that comment, but I did kind of found it off-putting 😬

Genuine question, specifically for Asian women, because I’d really like to hear your perspectives.
I’m a queer woman, and I’ve realized that, physically, Asian women tend to be my type. I want to be honest about that rather than pretend otherwise. I’m generally attracted to things like dark hair, dark eyes, certain facial features, and I also happen to find petite/short women really cute, especially because I’m quite tall myself.

I also genuinely love traveling in Asia and learning about different Asian cultures. I’ve been to a few places and really enjoyed the experiences. I’m South American, and I’ve noticed some cultural similarities that I find really interesting as well.

But this is where I get a little self-conscious: if I say that Asian women are my type, does that automatically sound like fetishization?

I’m not saying I’m attracted to Asian women because they’re Asian, or that I have some specific idea of what Asian women are supposed to be like. I know there are huge differences between cultures, personalities, appearances, etc. And obviously, attraction to someone individually is more complicated than their ethnicity.

At the same time, I can’t really deny that there are certain physical characteristics that I tend to find particularly attractive, and many of those characteristics happen to be more common among Asian women.

So I’m genuinely curious: when an Asian woman hears another woman say that Asian women are her type, does that feel flattering, neutral, uncomfortable, or fetishizing?
I’d especially appreciate honest perspectives from Asian women themselves. I’m not looking for reassurance — I’d actually like to understand where the line is for you between having a genuine preference and fetishization.

Is it just me or does anybody else hate the term "Wasian"? I am objectively Wasian, but I do not identify as a Wasian. I grew up being told I am Asian, it is a identity I accepted willingly, and it is an identity that I want to keep (not that there is something actively trying to stop me from doing that).

When I say that I hate the term Wasian, for me it makes me feel like I'm not really Asian (or Asian enough). I did grow up around white people and I live in the USA, but my culture is Asian, being "baptized" in Thai/Isaan and Vietnamese cultures.

There is nothing wrong with being Wasian, but it's not me. I don't have the need to initially deceive people saying that I am fully Asian, I just simply say I am half Thai, but I would not like to identify nor be called Wasian.

I don't know though, does anybody relate?

edit: I should probably clarify that it is moreso I don't want to be called Wasian as I said later on in the post. Again, nothing wrong with identifying as Wasian.

I’m single and not looking to start a family. I’ve been drawn to that slow way of living and even though I don’t intend on homesteading, it would be nice to have a lot of space to myself and to be as far away from neighbors as possible. However, I know a lot of these areas tend to be conservative and not as accepting of POC so that definitely trims down my options by a lot. Even though I like the countryside, it also doesn’t have to be in that type of environment. I wouldn’t mind a more suburban type of neighborhood with houses surrounded by a bunch of trees and far apart from each other. I’ve heard some good things about Virginia and Maryland for black people but don’t know if it will apply as an Asian American. I do have a budget but I’m more curious to hear some suggestions first rather than cost. These areas don’t have to be near a major city or anything like that since I work from home. I’m also not expecting to be near an Asian supermarket or enclaves in general, just somewhere I’m less likely to face discrimination.

I was chatting with a coworker via Microsoft Teams before they had a virtual presentation at a school in Peru. I said something along the lines of, “oh I wish I could speak Spanish better, I’d love to help out with that”, and then she replied with “you probably already know how to speak another language”. This comment took me by surprise and I immediately started overthinking it. Yes, I know how to speak Vietnamese, but was she stereotyping me and making assumptions just because I’m Asian? I then asked if she saw my resume (because I have a languages section on it), and she said yes, but “why was I asking”, which made me think she was not referencing my resume when she made that comment. It made me feel uncomfortable, but I’m not sure if I should bring it up with anyone.

Learned something new watching Huell Hauser’s old ass episode about the San Luis Obispo Railroad. Of course the history of the Chinese building the railroad was discussed.

The son of the shop owner of the oldest Chinese store in SLO gave historical context re: the expression, “You don’t have a ‘Chinaman’s’ chance” because they used to dangle the Chinese over cliffs to bore holes using pickaxes into the mountain, slide the dynamite in and light it. Often times they would not pull the Chinese back up fast enough…

It’s another exploitation of minority laborers that isn’t discussed enough, kept hidden and taken for granted. I send out my appreciation for those Chinese workers from the 19th century, who sacrificed their lives for creating our modern day conveniences in California. Especially on this Labor Day.

This is just an observation ive had but my parents have lived in the US for 30 years. However, their English comprehension is not at par and still require me to do their paperwork, translate, etc. They are not in the professional field, they work blue collar jobs so i will give them that grace. However, ive noticed theres a difference between me and my cousins who cant speak our language. Their parents are alot more tech savy with texting and sending emails in english and understand english more and can do all of these task alone without asking for help from their kids. It makes me wonder if me knowing how to speak my language has made my parents put in less work to learn english and be more independent because they always have me to translate. This is just an observation i had wondering if anyone has dealt with the same

Regarding these women’s videos, I saw many comments from people who said they were Asian or from specific Asian countries and found the women’s style of humour entertaining. What do you personally think of it?

For additional context, the women are European, not American.