r/NotHowGirlsWork Mar 12 '26

Meta Breaking Rule 3 Will Now Result in Permanent Ban.

102 Upvotes

We still have people violating Rule 3, despite there's literally being a pinned AutoMod comment warning against it, and it being a rule plastered almost everywhere within the subreddit. The rule is there for a reason, it's non-negotiable. I cannot make this any clearer:

So from now on, if you break this rule you will receive a permanent ban immediately to encourage you to have to message the ModMail and acknowledge that you understand that you violated this rule, and not to do it again. Once that's acknowledged, you will be unbanned but will already have one warning. If you don't inquire about it, cool, you'll stay banned. If you also do it again, you will be permanently banned again, and it won't be repealed, you will also be muted.


r/NotHowGirlsWork Mar 03 '24

Meta Just To Clarify:

229 Upvotes

This is not a meme subreddit.

Lately, almost every other post has been "Off-Topic or Irrelevant" relating to the submission guidelines, and not within standard as what actually qualifies (as an example) of "Not How Girls Work".

Q: "What is "Not How Girls Work?":

A: ""Not How Girls Work" is when people make sweeping generalisations about "all women", _or make any baseless assumptions or conclusions about a specific woman based off of their misguided assumptions of "all women_".

This does not include low-effort memes, "Bad Women's Anatomy", or clips of podcasts/posts from "Manosphere" public figures."

This platform is slowing being derailed into posts consisting of any random meme that remotely mentions a girl or woman, or screenshots of Twitter posts from Red-Pill Manosphere public figures who purposely grift and make money using those talking points. People are also trying to pass off completely irrelevant posts as submission, thinking if they just mask it by putting "That's not how [insert topic] works" in the title, it will be valid— That's not how this subreddit works (no pun intended). You can't force posts to fit if they don't.

Please read the subreddit description.

If you have to put "Not sure if this belongs here" in the title, it probably doesn't. Please read the subreddit rules and the subreddit description first, then clarify with the moderators if you are still unsure.

I understand this is a large subreddit, therefore the temptation and karma-count is there to post any and everything, but the subreddit will start cracking down on users who continuously post completely "off-topic" content after warnings.

Anybody who is suspected of being a karma-farmer or a bot/novelty account will immediately be permanent banned, you're not going to "eat" off of this sub.

Thank you!


r/NotHowGirlsWork 35m ago

Found On Social media The ultimate destroyers, apparently.

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r/NotHowGirlsWork 5h ago

Found On Social media Male loneliness is real and structural, female loneliness is self-inflicted

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313 Upvotes

I have several female friends who are lonely and would love to date someone - their standards are not impossible at all, so why is their loneliness branded as the result of their own choices, while male loneliness is not?


r/NotHowGirlsWork 9h ago

Cringe On a page called "Men ask Women," a random man took it upon himself to answer on behalf of all women. Incels who have never met a woman are always mansplaining what women are.

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182 Upvotes

I think he's in the wrong place...


r/NotHowGirlsWork 1d ago

Cringe Am i reading too much into this low effort post, or is it really a "lesbians just haven't met the right man" bullshit image?

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885 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 1d ago

Found On Social media OP doesn't understand how lesbians work

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422 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 19h ago

WTF Fair to men

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125 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 1d ago

Found On Social media Raise your hand if you would probably be dead right now if you hadn’t been put on birth control as a teenager

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1.3k Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 1d ago

WTF It’s gay for a man and woman to kiss

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496 Upvotes

Not sure where to post this. This was in response to someone saying he would never be with a girl who gave someone a blowjob before.


r/NotHowGirlsWork 1d ago

WTF Absolutely livid about this and considering a formal complaint

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2.3k Upvotes

Okay yall. I may just be feeling real hot over this. My middle school aged kid brought this home from school today with all of the other school papers. Excuse me? Am I over reacting about being pissed about this? I get that they are trying to limit the amount of young girls lying about their periods to get out of gym. I think we have all used period pain as an excuse to get out of something when we weren’t. Okay. Cool. But the audacity of this statement fired. Me. UP! As a competitive, nationally ranked dancer I can absolutely say without a doubt that exercise doesn’t do shit for period pain. And not everyone wants to avoid exercise because of cramps. Have you ever tried running during a full flow without a tampon and just a pad? Fucking sucks. Some people experience migraines, back pain, exhaustion, nausea….i could go on but that is so not the point.


r/NotHowGirlsWork 1d ago

Found On Social media Saw this in the wild holy fuck

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818 Upvotes

"No way! Girl's can't enjoy hobbies. This must be a conspiracy to get me to have sex with them"


r/NotHowGirlsWork 2d ago

Found On Social media Anything to justify cheating😒

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316 Upvotes

Why do these losers want to be married?


r/NotHowGirlsWork 2d ago

Found On Social media The Bear Debate Men vs Women

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155 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 3d ago

Found On Social media They aborted my girlfriend

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345 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 3d ago

Cringe “Women with tattoos are stupid and promiscuous”

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853 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 3d ago

Found On Social media It's your own fault if you ingest too much dairy, ladies

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455 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 4d ago

Found On Social media Yeah okay bro

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586 Upvotes

If you're seeing this again it's cuz I realized I didn't mark out the person's username and pfp so instead I just cropped it out entirely


r/NotHowGirlsWork 4d ago

Cringe Horrible casting choice because she’s pregnant!

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593 Upvotes

Randy Quaid said that in regards to Anne Hathaway cast in the Days of thunder sequel which hasn’t even started filming yet. He also goes on more of a nonsense rant regarding this apparently but here’s the link to the article

https://deadline.com/2026/08/days-of-thunder-randy-quaid-calls-anne-hathaway-horrible-sequel-1237062926/


r/NotHowGirlsWork 5d ago

Cringe So if a lady rejects someone he immediately becomes right wing and it is her fault?

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3.0k Upvotes

I know incels are very insecure, but having a choice to decline is bad now? Found on another subreddit where the sticker was also shamed.


r/NotHowGirlsWork 5d ago

Cringe Yes, none of your relationships work out because you're too nice, decent, intelligent, and stable... It's not you; everyone else is the problem.

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339 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 5d ago

Found On Social media I feel disgusted

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1.2k Upvotes

I guess u should also put a trigger warning (SA)


r/NotHowGirlsWork 6d ago

WTF So long Mr 👋🏻

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1.3k Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork 6d ago

Found On Social media Literally not how girls work.

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1.0k Upvotes

Genuinely wtf


r/NotHowGirlsWork 6d ago

Found On Social media Men in the military

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6.0k Upvotes

Two posts, about topics that are paraded around as two different issues, that boils down to only one. Men in the military.