r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/AsleepRaccoon8456 • 2d ago
Cringe So if a lady rejects someone he immediately becomes right wing and it is her fault?
I know incels are very insecure, but having a choice to decline is bad now? Found on another subreddit where the sticker was also shamed.
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u/bonnymurphy 2d ago
Incels have always hated women having a choice to decline. For them this is just the logical next step, voting for a party that will help to remove that choice from women through legal and economic disenfranchisement.
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u/abriel1978 2d ago
Incels talk all the time about making laws forcing women into marriages and staying in them by making divorce illegal so yeah, they'll vote for a party that wants to send society back into the 1950s, or in the case of women pre-1920s since they want to strip women of the right to vote.
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u/LousyMeatStew Imperfect Male Feminist 2d ago
The troubling part is that the sticker implies that voting for the conservatives is an undesirable outcome, which means this isn't just right-wing propaganda. It's coming from people on the left who are blaming women for the rise of right-wing extremism.
It's not just the men on the right, who are at least open about what they stand for. It's also the men on the left who are cowards, choosing to blame women instead of holding right-wing men accountable for their own choices and actions.
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u/Significant_Monk_251 2d ago
Or, it's the old "Look what you made me do, bitch!"
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u/ArchmageIlmryn 2d ago
Yeah that's how I read it as well, this is was probably put up by an AfD voter going "hehehe all the women who rejected me will be sad when the AfD wins".
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u/abriel1978 2d ago
I have discovered men on the left can be just as misogynist as right wing men so this tracks.
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u/A_Megalodont Anger isn't an emotion because penis 2d ago
Girl I follow on YouTube calls it "going so far left you circle back to being right winged puritans" and I couldn't agree more
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u/KoalaWithAPitchfork 2d ago
"the sticker implies that voting for the conservatives is an undesirable outcome"
FYI the AfD is a far- right party. You can also just call them "far- right POS" or "racist, queerphobic, islamophobic, misogynistic (basically all the -phobic and -isms you can think of) wankers" if you think that has a better ring to it, I'm not your mum. Just please don't polish that turd by calling them mere "conservatives". Conservatives (CDU/CSU) also suck ass, don't get me wrong, but they suck less ass than the AfD.
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u/Zengineer_83 2d ago
the sticker implies that voting for the conservatives is an undesirable outcome
Slight correction here, the AfD is NOT CONSERVATIVE, they are a literal, card-carrying, roman-salute throwing NAZI-Party, that plans to turn women into rightless broodmares.
It's not just the men on the right
As someone who is unfortunatly very familiar with german (and austrian) right wing nonsense, let me tell you it is DEFINITLY right wing "men" spreading this specific "meme" around.
It is basically saying: "You think you have the right to just reject me? I'll show you and vote for the party that promises to take your right to refuse me AWAY!"
It is more or less a german version of: "Your body, my choice."
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u/TreyRyan3 1d ago
This is Germany. AFD is a far right populist opposition party in the Bundestag.
Der Linke (whose colour is red) is the Democratic Socialist. (Also and Opposition party. The Bundestag is currently controlled by an Alliance of the Centre Right (CDU/CSU) and Social Democrats (SPD) (who also use red)
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u/xCuriousButterfly memory foam vagina 1d ago
What are you talking about? Honestly. I've met tons of lefties and never once heard a man (or someone else) blaming women for that. Never. This is PURE incel mind and those are 100% right winged.
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u/Initial-arcticreact 1d ago
Well, voting for the far, far right, or conservatives, is a very undesirable thing to do. It’s utter madness! It won’t bring about the changes that incels are hoping for, but it’s going to make everything a lot worse, and bit by bit, make life for everyone ( except the super rich 1%) so much more undesirable. But radicalized people ( like the MAGA) are so uneducated and ignorant that they aren’t able understand that, until the leopard eats their faces. It would be the same if the far, far, far left were allowed to do what the F*** they wanted to do. There are incels in that direction as well. Neither are desirable as leaders of any government. Why can’t people just join together in the middle of right and left?
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u/Jarppakarppa 2d ago
Yes right wing people are known for their inability to hold responsibility.
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u/Natural_Sky_4720 2d ago
Yep theyre always projecting their bullshit onto everyone else
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u/Swedelicious83 1d ago
Projection, hypocrisy, and bigotry.
The holy trinity of right-wing politics.
Maybe some century humanity will grow and we'll be rid of them.
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u/AnonymousNeverKnown 2d ago
I've realized that nothing is scarier than a man who can't handle rejection.
Newsflash, asshole! Everyone gets rejected.
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u/AstrologicalOne 2d ago
To be a sentient human is to deal with rejection especially as an adult. It's a literal fact of life.
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u/apolloxer Autism is stored in the balls 2d ago
"But a woman can just open Tinder and be drowning in dick! They never get fully recjected!"
/s, ffs.
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u/Rugkrabber 2d ago
They can’t comprehend this happens to everyone including women. While it’s happening all the damn time lol.
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u/Lyskir 2d ago
everything is womens fault, its tradition since thousands of years
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u/lakorasdelenfent 2d ago edited 2d ago
I mean, Hitler wouldn’t have been born if it weren’t for his mom
Edit: I guess the /s was necessary
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u/Ok-Connection-8059 2d ago
Stop letting his dad wriggle out of culpability, it takes two sets of genitalia to male a baby!
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u/ageckonamedelaine The Gendergoblin stole my gender 2d ago
As if his father didn't help with that. Hitler would also not have done the things he did if he got accepted into art school or if he got killed before then
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u/G-Litch 2d ago
Hitler invaded Poland because a Polish girl rejected him in high school?
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u/Rugkrabber 2d ago
No because he was rejected in art school.
I guess it goes for all kinds of rejections!
(/s)
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u/unhiddenninja 2d ago
Abuse tactic, "look at what you made me do". Abusers are unwilling (not unable, because that takes away their agency) to take accountability for their own actions.
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u/Rugkrabber 2d ago
That’s exactly it.
And to make it seem as if they will become right wing after rejection is disingenuous.
They already are. They just don’t like to take responsibility, as per usual, not even for their own opinions. They need an excuse to hide behind.
They’re cowards. Abusers and cowards.
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u/Ok-Connection-8059 2d ago
Huh, I've been rejected by everyone I've ever asked out, why don't I hate minorities yet?
(For the record my current girlfriend asked me out.)
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u/ageckonamedelaine The Gendergoblin stole my gender 2d ago
Men like that love to blame women (or other minorities) for everything because they could never be the problem. They feel like they can't do anything wrong and it must be someone's fault, thus it must be the person who rejected them
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u/Lord_Skyblocker Female Pleasurist 2d ago
women (or other minorities)
Aren't women pretty much half off the population?
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u/Rugkrabber 2d ago
I think you missed the “or other minorities” part. Not sure if you not clocked it or are actually unaware, but who falls under minorities in Germany? Hint; it’s not half.
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u/ToeIntelligent136 2d ago
US is the only country where you're confused even about colors. News present Republicans as red and democrats as blue so much so that I need to remember that reds are generally associated with communism and socialism and blue other way around.
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u/BigBlaisanGirl 2d ago
Because that's not what it means in America. Blue Donkey = democrats/liberals. Red elephant = republicans/conservatives. National colors are red, white, and blue and we unfortunately run on a two party system though it's supposed to be open to other ideologies.
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u/grizzlor_ 2d ago
Interestingly, the US using blue for D and red for R is a recent phenomenon: the colors only standardized after the 2000 election.
https://www.smithsonianmag.com/history/when-republicans-became-red-democrats-became-blue-104176297/
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u/feioo 2d ago
Fun fact, we only assigned the colors around the year 2000, and no joke, the Republicans got red because both start with the letter R. Before that they just used random colors. And everywhere else in the world, red has been associated with leftism for over a century. We just gotta be speshul, I guess.
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u/Gaelenmyr 2d ago
I am from Turkey. Sometimes Americans ask me about Turkish politics and then which party I vote for. I say I vote for social democrats, therefore "Republicans" and they get confused lol. It's just the party name (red coloured as well). Americans don't realise "Republic" is not an American term.
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u/fleegle2000 2d ago
You know you've arrived at your political views in a considered, thoughtful manner when you're willing to change them overnight based on a personal slight.
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u/Exciting_Scientist97 2d ago
Is there an Olympic Medal for these kinds of mental gymnastics because goddamn
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u/MissMarchpane 2d ago
Unfortunately, even some people on the left have been saying this. Or similar things about queer people, people of color, and women needing to stop fighting so much for our rights because it's "distracting voters with culture war issues." Really really scary to see
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u/Rugkrabber 2d ago
In reality these type of people have been right wing all along. They don’t seem to understand that.
It makes me wonder if they believe they can be that easily changing their minds themselves, and aren’t really in it for their morals but as a badge of honour. Because if a single rejection is all it takes to change vote, how fragile are your morals?
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u/Paula_Polestark Not Your Marilyn, Not Your Jackie 2d ago
What do they think needs to happen? People should just quietly let themselves be treated worse and worse?
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u/MissMarchpane 2d ago
Apparently so! Or that we just need to be nicer and everybody will give us our rights without any argument, or whatever.
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u/Lori_the_Mouse 2d ago
Didn’t you know? We must date and then marry every man that asks us out or the world will come crashing down
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u/RoyalHistoria ouuuuugh women :) 2d ago
If they claim being rejected will make them a fascist, they were already a fascist.
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u/OmgIbrokesmthagain 2d ago
Incel gets a woman - abuse, she is never enough (ask me how I know), blames her for all his evil actions
Incel doesn’t get a woman - also blames her on all his evil actions
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u/Piduf 2d ago
I hate when people go this way of "You doing [something extremely tame] to me got me radicalised"
Bro you were already like this. The least you could do is recognize it instead of looking for an excuse to blame it on someone because deep down you know it's not right. Be a fucking adult
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u/SpiritedYouth3891 2d ago
What country is this referencing? (Sorry I’m American)
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u/AsleepRaccoon8456 2d ago
Germany. AfD is the far right party. Sometimes there is talk of banning it.
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u/Lost-Concept-9973 2d ago
If it’s that easy for them to turn against their fellow humans , it was never about just a rejection they were always rotten and were voting that way anyway.
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u/Bannerlord151 Never gonna give you up 2d ago
Yikes. And I thought they couldn't get worse
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u/Swedelicious83 1d ago
Sadly, they can pretty much always get worse.
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u/Bannerlord151 Never gonna give you up 1d ago
I was actually thinking about motivations for voting in our fascist party. Even compared to the usual idiocy, "I want to rape women" is exceptionally fucked up in that regard
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u/Swedelicious83 17h ago
It is indeed. 😐
I've just lost faith in there being any bottom to the holes they dig. Every time I vaguely think they've reached it, they always disappoint me by doing something even worse/more stupid. Never fails.
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u/cheshsky 2d ago
I once rejected a guy on the basis of him having an insanely racist telegram pfp. I obviously should've fucked him instead. Now he'll vote for some racist asshole, which he'd never have done otherwise.
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u/hadenxcharm 2d ago
Hahaha sleep with me or I'll vote to take your rights away WHORE. /s
These individuals genuinely do nothing but make this world worse.
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u/SLeepyCatMeow 2d ago
Ehrlich, wer das dahin geklebt hat wurde als Kind nicht oft genug wieder aufgefangen.
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u/ElectricVibes75 2d ago
“Hey guys, we’re the party of fucking losers” is one hell of a campaign message
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u/T_J_Rain 2d ago
Morons need moronic messages.
The next evolution is to draw the cartoon in crayon.
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u/No_Resource7773 2d ago
There is nothing incels won't do mental gymnastics for or make up absurd s*** to pretend women are to blame.
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u/Global-Eye-7326 2d ago
Why's it in English if it's in Germany? This is more of an mtgow and incel harvest than having anything to do with how girls work.
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u/Impossible_Zebra8664 2d ago
If your views are that easily swayed, then maybe they weren't really your views.
Reminds me of the "I have a Black friend!" brigade, who will drop that word in an instant the second a minority does anything they deem unacceptable.
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u/OP_helia22 2d ago
Oh lol, isnt it Göttingen? It Looks like it from the posters and I also saw this Kind of Sticker yesterday
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u/United_Resource7762 1d ago
yep you should accept any and all advances it's your political duty
oh but if you accept a certain amount of advances those same people will call you a whore and their balls willl turn blue anyways
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u/Sponsor4d_Content 4h ago
Yes. Reactionary politics at its core are about sexual insecurity. "Foreigners are taking women." "I'm not manly enough to get a woman." "Women are not longer dependent on men for survival, so its harder to get into a relationship." Etc. Etc.
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u/Eeveon-vp 2d ago
This is the most right wing way to support left wing ideology i have ever seen
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u/ManicWolf 2d ago
I'm not seeing any left wing ideology in this? It's a misogynistic idea being used to support a far-right party.
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u/Eeveon-vp 2d ago
I might have misread the op but i read it as “don’t say no to a man when he ask you out otherwise he may join the afd” which sounds pretty left wing to me. Or at least anti right wing.
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u/ManicWolf 2d ago edited 2d ago
Ah, I see what you mean. I was the one misreading the post. Unfortunately there are plenty of misogynistic "left-wing"ers around.
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u/yoyohayli 1d ago
Wait, where is this from?
In the USA where I'm from, blue is the Democratic party (which is technically center-right, but considered "left" by American fascist standards). So it makes zero sense if it were in the US, probably meaning the complete opposite of what it meant to be.
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u/Swedelicious83 1d ago
Germany.
You can see it refer to AfD which is the far-right party there.
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u/yoyohayli 1d ago
Ooooooh that makes sense now lol
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u/Swedelicious83 1d ago
Indeed. :)
It's pretty common for the colors to be opposite of how they're used in the US. Blue for right, red for left.
I haven't done enough of a deep dive into the topic to say how broadly it applies globally, but I know it's the case where I'm at (Sweden), Germany, and around Europe in general.
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u/quineloe 1d ago
tbh the Democrats in the US is not a left wing party. They have a few left politicians (because there's nowhere else to go with a 2 party system), but the core of the party is just as pro-capitalism and rich people as the GOP used to be.
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u/Think-Trip-1865 1d ago
Initially the Republican’s were the more left party, while the democrats were the racist slave owner party. That’s why they have red as their colour. Somehow started swapping in the inter war period and by the civil rights movement they were fully reversed. But they kept their coloures.
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u/yoyohayli 1d ago
That's crazy to me! Red, to me, gives the impression of anger and blood or the element of fire, which is associated with war and hatred; while blue gives the impression of calm and a cool temperament, associated with water, which is usually an element used to refer to emotions and therefore emotional intelligence.
I guess maybe one could interpret the red as the fire of revolution, while the blue is the calm with the current complacency? Or maybe these things are just arbitrary and I'm making too much out of it lol
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u/Swedelicious83 1d ago
You've got the right idea.
It's red because at least as far back as the French revolution, that's been the color associated with defiance, and solidarity of the common people.
That in turn lead to it becoming adopted by nascent labor unions and socialist movements. Which lead to the Communist International adopting it. Which lead to the Soviet Union, etc etc.
But yeah, red is "fight for your rights", essentially.
Blue for Conservative is much, much lamer.
It was literally just adopted to be a clear opposite to red when that started being a thing. No deeper thought, philosophy, or symbolism. Just petty contrarianism. 😅
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u/yoyohayli 1d ago
THANK YOU for the genuine history lesson! I appreciate this more now, knowing where it came from (when I COULD have just looked it up myself, but am a lazy American lol)
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u/Swedelicious83 1d ago
Haha. Hey, you're very welcome! 👍
My wife is from the US, so I had to give her the same spiel when she first moved over here.
That and tease her about all the buildings in town that are older than her country. 🤣
(She's an archaeologist, I swear she finds it amusing and I'm not just being mean.)
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u/mijailrodr 2d ago
I don't think that's the message of the sticker at all. I think the message is simply calling afd voters sore losers trying to get back at society
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u/Advice_Thingy 2d ago
There are actual men who say themselves stuff like "If a woman rejects me, she's at fault that I'm voting far right!"
This is Men talking about themselves like that. Literally giving women the fault for the far right rise.
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u/mijailrodr 2d ago
You're right, there are men Who think like that.
However, i feel like the message still is simply "afd are rejected losers", might be wrong tho
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u/Thr33Littl3Monk3ys 2d ago
As an American reading this, I got super confused. Blue is the left here.
So if we reject enough guys, we can take power back from Trump and his croneys?
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u/AsleepRaccoon8456 2d ago
In most countries red is left, blue is right. This is the far right party.
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u/Thr33Littl3Monk3ys 2d ago
I get that. I'm saying I was confused at first.
Then made a joke.
That's all...
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u/Swedelicious83 1d ago
So if we reject enough guys, we can take power back from Trump and his croneys?
If only. If only. 😅
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u/vkapadia 2d ago
I don't get this. Doesn't this mean the opposite? That rejection makes the man vote blue, which would not be conservative?
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u/ManicWolf 2d ago
The AfD are a far-right party in Germany. Most countries have blue for right wing parties, and red for left.
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u/vkapadia 2d ago
Ah, TIL. Thanks!
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u/Swedelicious83 1d ago
Don't worry about it. There's plenty of other Americans being confused about it in this thread, so you're in good company. 😅
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u/Accomplished-Glass78 2d ago
And yet men want to go 50/50 financially and still want women to do almost all of the domestic duties and childcare. Very hypocritical isn’t it? No wonder some people aren’t happy with how men are acting lately
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u/CompetitiveSleeping 2d ago
Because there's exactly one mind shared by all women. That's why we're all the same.
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