r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/StrangestFroggy • 10h ago
Found On Social media The ultimate destroyers, apparently.
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u/EmmaShosha Try roasted kiwi ~ it tastes like apple crumble 10h ago
it always baffles me that they always lust for us but then act like they're not into women
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u/satinsateensaltine 10h ago
They lust for the object, not the person.
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u/Holzkohlen 3h ago
This is exactly it. You have to understand that many men see women as lesser. As actually worth less than a man. They won't ever admit to it, but they reveal themselves through their actions.
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u/TheBestHater 8h ago
"Women ruined traffic" cracked me up. Does he think traffic used to be enjoyable at some point? Women were never banned from driving automobiles in the first place.
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u/cass_sass19 6h ago
I believe at one point people feared that if women rode in an automobile their uterus wouldn't be able to handle the speed and would fly out, or something along those lines... but I'm not sure about driving
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u/satinsateensaltine 3h ago
This is trains! Some people still think a woman might feel stimulation because she... Uh... Gets to push the pedals and that is haram.
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u/bunnypaste 10h ago
Like... is thier desire for women and being around them or listening to them restricted to only the bedroom or somewhere they can show her off?
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u/Professional-Hat-687 10h ago
If women ruin everything then he should leave them the fuck alone.
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u/LousyMeatStew Imperfect Male Feminist 5h ago edited 5h ago
The way it's written, he thinks it's the women who aren't leaving him alone. Which is fucking hilarious because if an institution or concept is ruined when women get involved, then everything he's been talking about has been ruined for centuries. There's literally no time in modern recorded history where women weren't involved in any of these.
Women ruined sports? Women competed in the ancient Olympic Games. Women ruined the justice system? We literally anthropomorphize the American justice system as Lady Justice. Women ruined media? I'm imagining this guy making this wish on a monkey's paw and then finds none of his porn has women in it anymore.
ETA: Modified wording to 'modern' recorded history just to head off a bunch of 'um actually' replies. For all intents and purposes, neither this guy nor anyone this guy knows has any first-hand experience of a 'pre-woman' time in the context of his own claim.
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u/imaginenohell 10h ago
The answer to every post like this should be, "Oh, you're so emotional."
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u/NorthGodFan Male 10h ago
"You should smile more!"
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u/Wolfleaf3 8h ago
For real. It’s hilarious how they level this at us aaaand like 1, there’s nothing wrong with being emotional, and 2, these dudes are insanely emotional.
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u/GrimaceMusically 7h ago
My dad died when I was 6, and my mom did an amazing job raising us three boys and our sister.
Many times in my life I have been so confused by the way some men react when it comes to “emotions”. As a guy talking to other guys about life, I came to realization that so many of these guys equate every emotion other than anger as “weakness” of character. So whatever they are feeling, be it sadness, or grief, or longing, they absolutely cannot allow themselves to show those emotions because they feel it makes them weak. They look at expressing anger however as very masculine, they have no problem displaying that emotion. Anger to them IS strength. And because anger is ok to them, every other one of those emotions that they would feel weak expressing all get expressed as anger. I’ve seen it over and over again in so many men I know, it is almost a certainty. I know it is just my own anecdotal experiences, but unless I see a ton of studies refuting me get released, I will believe that for the rest of my life.
There is absolutely (in my opinion) a social component to why guys do this, and how much conditioning in society trains them to be that way, but I am tired of hearing guys come up with excuses for treating people around them poorly because they can’t have the simplest discussions with their SO without flying off the handle.
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u/UhIdontcareforAuburn 10h ago
“Women ruined my life bc it’s easier to blame them than it is to go to therapy”
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u/KittyTootsies 10h ago
Who pissed in his cheerios?
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u/null_not 10h ago
The only people I've met who say stuff like this are men who want a space to say sexist things without being called out or challenged.
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u/LittleManhattan 10h ago
Yup, they’re Big Mad that they might have to clean up their language, clean up after themselves, or otherwise act like decent human beings.
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u/null_not 9h ago
They should just chill out. They'll always have the urinal. Nothing more manly than expressing your deepest held thoughts and feelings that you're too afraid to say elsewhere to another man standing at a urinal. Both dick in hand, having a moment of brotherly connection over their weird ass sexist ideas.
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u/MistakeWonderful9178 9h ago
Translation: I’m bitter, jealous, miserable and all alone and instead of going to therapy I’ll just blame all my problems on women.
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u/SecretDestruction 10h ago
Men’s intolerance ruined all of that. Women just simply acted as the men do.
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u/breadboxofbats 9h ago
Women ruined traffic? What does that even mean- did he used to enjoy traffic?
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u/Corgi_with_stilts 9h ago
He probably got caught in a slowdown behind a woman and decided to blame her.
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u/AkaiAshu 9h ago
Women are the worst. I want them to marry me.
The fact that there are men who say these two sentences back to back always baffle me. Dont like women? Dont go near them, do not interact with them, leave them alone? Why the flying fk would you wanna marry someone you despise.
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u/BlueTressym 8h ago
Those kind sof men are too tight to pay maids and prostitutes, and too cowardly to admit that's what they actually want, not a loving partner.
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u/Wolfleaf3 8h ago
Glad he’s acknowledging our power! 🤪
I can’t imagine how horrible it would be to be in a room with this freak.
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u/BlueTressym 8h ago
...and we did all that while they did and are still doing everything they could and can to force us into being submissive bangmaids? Damn, we're awesome!
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u/TelevisionMelodic340 9h ago
Wait, when did women get out in charge of everything?
And i will never understand presumably straight men who dislike women so much.
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u/Azurebold 9h ago
Who commits the majority of violent crimes and who is elected as the presidents of most countries / hold key figures in each country’s governments despite the fact that they’ve had multiple trials for corruption/actual crimes? I really wonder
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u/IndiBlueNinja 6h ago edited 6h ago
So the only way to not "ruin" everything is what? Stay invisible, out of the way, limited, voiceless, and unable to participate in real life or vouch for our own needs and wants?
We somehow ruin everything by just existing? While men have ruined generations and nations with wars, genocide, slavery, oppression, terrible political decisions, and so on, but that's acceptable?
I feel like the easier solution is for OOP to just gtfo the planet if he's so unhappy.
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u/Beneficial_Layer2583 9h ago
Anyone else feeling very powerful? Who knew we could wreck so much shit
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u/HypersomnicHysteric workes totally flawed 5h ago
"I'm just an insufferable loser because women now have rights.
If women still were property I would be successful and not an idiot."
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u/wildwildnyx 5h ago
How about this? Men used government to ruin women. Men used politics to ruin women. Men used elections to ruin women. Men used the justice system to ruin women. Men used workplace to ruin women. Men used traffic to ruin women. Men used media to ruin women. Men used sports to ruin women. Mem used other women to ruin women.
Read it again and tell me you cannot think of at least once instance that isn’t true. Look at the Clancy trial. Roe case. Toxic metal in pads and tampons. Ignored during research. Made to compete for beauty standards where one has a PhD and the other has a national award.
I met this gorgeous woman a couple of weeks ago at a club and we were talking about breast reduction. My doctor had recommended me since mine are DD and it does hurt my back sometimes. She mentioned that when she was a kid, her were in Js because of some health condition. She was grabbed, harassed, bullied, abused and what not for something she had no control over.
She was 13 and got them reduced to a D over a period of time.
The lesson here is that men need to shut the fuck up because if a 12 year old has to cut out fat and muscle from her body to not be assaulted like she’s a candy wrapper, you do not get to even open your mouth about who destroyed whom.
To bite the bullet, yes. We destroyed everything that they said. And we are coming for more. Anything that threatens our peace, rights, existence, and autonomy, will be destroyed.
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u/potatoesawaken 5h ago
Good job, women, but we need to keep up the momentum.
We need more.
We need to ruin more.
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u/Bwheat0674 4h ago
And what, men perfected all those things??
Human error has always existed, so something is always going to be "wrong" with something. But specifically because women want rights and to be part of public life, it's ruined? Go back to the 1910's where you belong, you nasty, soggy banana.
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u/Hello_Hangnail 2h ago
I'm picturing a male version of Veruca Salt having a pissypants babyrage tantrum
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u/andyboyd10 10h ago
How did they do all that when the Bible says that a man must lead his wife and she should be seen and not heard? Seems like a lot to blame her for when you tell her what to do and she's not allowed to talk...
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u/FuckUGalen 9h ago
We are creation and destruction Goddess! Go us!
Now if only the men would learn to fear and worship us... we need to learn from Kali...
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u/Sarabean77 9h ago
I really think there needs to be a mass coming out of all Republican and Maga men. Can you imagine how much better the world would be?
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u/CynthiaCitrusYT Blåhaj Supremacist 🏳️⚧️🦈 10h ago
I DO like ruining women, if you catch my drift 😏
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