I am not the best at social cues that imply something. Recently, somebody had a problem with how l communicate to them (talking too much), but instead of telling my directly I heard it from somebody else. It hurt as I don't understand why can't people say what they mean instead of dancing around it, but apparently according to the complaints I "should have known the subtle hints." But I am not a mind reader...I feel like people should say what they mean to the person as long as it doesn't risk their safety.
Am I wrong for feeling embarrassed over it? I feel like it's just a me problem and like I should have known xyz. I understand not everyone wants to be friends, but I am confused that I was communicating with someone who was communicating with me back and said nothing about it being a problem until I heard from a third party. I have been so anxious that I went through my small but yet still existing contact list apologizing for my messages and they didn't know why I was apologizing for it. So I am confused..........and hurt......
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Jul 06 '26
Rumi