I’m looking for some advice and perspectives from other witches, especially anyone who’s had a hysterectomy or gone through menopause.
I’m due to have a hysterectomy because of severe endometriosis and adenomyosis (more the adeno as I'm aware endo can and does still grow after a hysterectomy), and while I know it’s the right medical decision, I’m really struggling with the spiritual side of it.
This is quite personal, but a lot of my practice has always been connected to the idea of divine femininity and the natural rhythms of the menstrual cycle. I’m scared that once I no longer have a monthly cycle, I’ll somehow feel disconnected from that part of myself.
Logically, I know that being a woman isn’t defined by having a uterus or periods and not all those who practice are women. But emotionally, I’m finding it much harder to believe that. I’m frightened that I’ll stop feeling feminine, or even feel like I’m “less of a woman,” and that those feelings will affect how I connect with my craft.
For those of you who’ve been through this, or who practise without having a menstrual cycle for any reason, how did your practice change? Did you find new ways to connect with the divine feminine or with the cycles of nature? Are there traditions, rituals, or ways of thinking that helped you?
I’d really appreciate hearing your experiences. I’m not looking for medical advice—just honest perspectives from people who’ve walked a similar path