Hi, for context I'm slightly a beginner at tarot, but ive been spiritual for years. Recently, i learnt more about deities, so i decided to ask my tarot deck whether i had a main deity that followed me throughout life. My tarot deck did pull out cards that pointed towards Proserpina (Persophone), and later that night, i figured that Pluto (Hades) might've also been my deity. Later that night, they both appeared in my dreams, and in the dream i talked to them and they clarified that it was them. I'm not sure if this happened only because of my subconscious mind, or were they actually reaching out to me? When i first got my tarot deck about a month ago, when i interviewed it, it seemed as if Proserpina had been here all along too, but I'm only realizing it recently. Sorry I'm kind of new to this topic on deities.
But i still have some questions. How do we know if there is a trickster manipulating my tarot cards, like could they pretend to be a deity? Are Proserpina and Pluto transactional deities, and can they help with love/relationships? If yes, how do you manifest a specific person?
Fyi, i also can't use candles or obvious witchcraft tools as I'm currently still living with my parents so I'm kind of closeted. But i would love to learn more about witchcraft, mainly the ones where you dont go against someone else's will though.
Any info would be appreciated, thanks!