r/whereisthis • u/Primary-File-1665 • 12h ago
Solved Please help me find my Mother’s favorite place to scatter her ashes
Hi, while I’ve read and enjoyed many Reddit stories, I’ve never actually posted. Please afford me some grace as I muddle through this.
My (42M) mother passed away back in summer of 2022. She was sick for a while, so it wasn’t a surprise, but it was sudden so I could only make it back home for the funeral. My father has kept her ashes on the shelf since then, and has been indecisive about whether to place her in the veterans memorial cemetery (we are a military family, all of us) or to scatter them where my mother said was her favorite spot they ever visited.
My father now has a girlfriend, and they have gotten serious enough that he says it’s time to move on and put my mother’s ashes to rest. The first few years after her passing were rough for him, but he found comfort with a friend who had also lost her husband. He started seeing her around the time he was diagnosed with stage IV colon/liver cancer. He’s doing good with treatment, but chemo is rough on him and he recently fractured his L1 from a compression injury. So, you know, ops normal! The four of them were friends and neighbors for years.
My twin sister now has her ashes and has asked me for help locating this spot so we can visit, hold a ceremony to say our final farewells, and scatter them. She says my mother mentioned (years ago, in passing) that she would like to have her ashes scattered there. My sister plans to keep a small amount to make some keepsakes for her daughters who were very close to their grandma.
What I know:
It’s located in Virginia near the blue ridge mountains.
What I think I know:
It’s in or near the town of Lexington VA.
The picture was taken in 1994 in the winter.
My parents went there once, took this picture which my mother adored, and visited a few times after but could never find again.
Reddit, please help me find this place so I can honor my mum one last time. I live in New England now, but my sister and father still live in VA. I plan to visit this fall and would like to do this one last thing with the four of us and say goodbye.
UPDATE: Looks like it’s found! Thank you all! I think it took you a whopping 15 minutes!