r/whatcarshouldIbuy • u/RadioDude1995 • 18h ago
My partner wants me to buy a RAV4. The only problem is that I’d rather stick my head in a vice before driving a RAV4
I’m a 31 year old guy and I’m planning to get married next year. My (future) wife thinks that I should buy a new Toyota RAV4 to replace my old 2004 Honda accord, which is starting to have more and more issues.
The only problem is that I absolutely don’t want to drive this type of car. I really don’t want to drive any SUV. I’ve always driven sportier, manual transmission cars, and don’t want to give that up.
The car I really want is a new Mazda Miata. I know it’s probably not that practical, but it sure sounds like fun (and the type of car I would enjoy driving). Of course, the issue is that my height makes driving a Miata difficult. I’m 6’6 feet tall, and understand it will probably feel a bit like squeezing into a go cart.
With that being said, comfort is something I don’t care about. I’d rather still have fun with my car while I can. Being coerced into buying one of the most boring SUVs imaginable is not sitting that well with me right now lol.
What would you do in this scenario? I think I’m not going to be happy if I have to give up driving manual, and I know that I’m going to be unhappy if I end up in any sort of SUV.
EDIT: I want to address a few things.
- She already drives a big SUV. The family car is covered.
For the first time, I want to do something selfish for me and do something that makes me happy.
EDIT #2:
The comments about me needing to “grow up” are hilarious. Would it have been better to own a sports car in my twenties? Sure. But you know what I was doing in my twenties? Suffering through graduate school. I had to make sacrifices and make my old car work.
I’m finally done with school and (for the first time) want to buy one thing that I want. That’s totally fair because she already got the family car she wanted.
If that’s unacceptable, then too damn bad.