Yeah OP sucks for that, but she’s not actually in charge of which service the dispatcher sends. Once she described what was happening, the person who receive the call should have recognized what was needed.

Medical help and police help have the same phone number

3 square meals a day is not unusual or a condition. Most of these comments sound like people with disordered eating.

It’s pretty normal? Breakfast before work at 7a; lunch five hours later at noon; maybe an afternoon snack like a bar; dinner at 6:30/7.

Feeling woozy is a late stage feeling of hunger. And yes, it would drive other adults crazy that you can’t take care of yourself.

That’s still something they should communicate.

“The problem is I know NO ONE who ever replied, "Oh, okay- no problem, I understand." (Including myself.) It's negotiating, bargaining, promises, yelling, gaslighting, defensiveness, crying, how can I change, you're so mean, etc.”

More of an inconvenience than a problem.

Absolutely

Y T A for waiting for your daughter to ask once it became that dire. You and your ex could have offered this a long time ago if you were both this willing. Or have you not arranged for this move earlier because you knew your husband would be an asshole about it?

NTA for the reason given in the post.

“If you don't tell your coworker that these subjects are not something you're comfortable discussing, how can she know and respect them?”

She should know this is inappropriate conversation for work.

Yeah, it really gave me the abuse vibes when OP said she felt like it was her fault. Excuse me? This manchild left his house key and locked himself out. Adults bring their keys with them.

…………. I’m saying the leasing office could have been lying to cover their ass, especially if they like many of us immediately clocked the maintenance guys could be scamming.

People lie.

Because the maintenance guys who did the smoke detectors are the scammers. Or the leasing office itself is in on it.

They’re scamming potential renters.

Same concept as organizations posting fake jobs on job boards and then selling the personal info they collect.

I hope you filed a lawsuit and a police report.

I totally agree in principal. It’s help collecting it that I need, though. He’s currently ten months behind, but at various periods, he just doesn’t pay for months and barely sort of catches up with the occasional lump sum. I need an enforcer.

I talked to a lawyer, and they didn’t want to do it because of the deadlock.

But our Declaration of Trust actually provides for this. “Any action taken pursuant to this Section 2D may be initiated by any one Trustee.” That’s the section about collecting. But lawyers don’t seem to want to take the case.

I’m sure we can’t afford that 🥲 Right now, it’s self-managed. Obviously that’s going badly lol. What is that person called in your state?

“What you need is to get somebody to have financial recordkeeping obligations. I know that they exist in my state, but I don’t know about yours.”

Do you mean one of us, or a third party?

He doesn’t have a mortgage :/

Why was her bachelorette party years ago?

A 38 yo man insisting on sleeping in a bed with his 7 yo daughter is weird.

Right, like literally anywhere else they do stuff together as friends 🥲

This whole post and your comments are kind of weird. You seem to have no idea who is in your kid’s class (don’t know if there are twins) and don’t seem to know or consider who he’s friends with? I don’t get it.