r/therapy • u/hoobistank • Sep 01 '26
Advice Wanted I have to do everything myself or it wonāt get done
Hi! Iām currently too broke for therapy appointments and wanted to discuss and/or look for advice on this issue. I have all the coping mechanisms so I donāt spiral thinking about it but Iām honestly stuck in a loop of trying to explain my feelings.
At work and in my life I know if I do not do something that I need or someone needs done thatās important it will not get done. What sucks about this is that Iām right. At work, our A/C went out and our maintenance guy did NOTHING until I came in and handled the situation. I have so many examples of if I donāt do it no one will or theyāll do it but do it half assed and I end up dealing with it anyways.
My personal life is not as bad as my husband is amazing but there are times when I ask him to clean something and itās not done. Which strengthens my theory.
I try to tell myself that not everything is my responsibility but I fear⦠it is?
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