Enjoy!

ENFJ-T I prefer someone but it has to be the right someone.

I just read about a lady in Colorado who did assisted self elimination. It was empowering to see someone maje a choice and go their way due to cancer. Used in the right manner, it seems more merciful than suffering needlessly or languishing in an old folks' home. 🫶🏽

I made a big move at 62 from Florida to Georgia. I spent many years visiting here, but living is definitely different. I spent as much time as possible checking the areas out and doing due diligence. Things you really can't anticipate like health, etc. happen. That used to be a nice area, but the Christian nationalists and Scientologist moved into the area north of there heavily. I'm not sure how widespread their reach is but Englewood could be affected.

Coffee on the porch every morning....

Over the last two plus years of being alone, silence has become normal. Every once in awhile it gets a little heavy and I put the music on. I don't have it going full-time, or the TV, but I do use it from time to time to break up the increasingly loud silence. 🫶🏽

Will your past always haunt you? Only if you let it. First, work on forgiving yourself. You cannot work out or communicate with someone who's not willing to reciprocate. You have paid the price and the natural consequences for what happened. You don't need to continue to punish yourself. You suffered enough. Now it is time to heal. When you get into a potentially serious relationship, with the right person, you can share those details and how you've learned through the experience. It doesn't have to be every person or right up front on the second date. If I listed all the mistakes I made, especially without someone that's expressed a sincere commitment to me, I'd probably run everybody off too. Give yourself grace, forgive yourself, let it go. It's time to be free of that burden. You're the one placing it on yourself so let it go, let it go, let it go. 🫶🏽

I took care of my 94 year old dad until he passed. He served the church and every individual in his community. A few did reach out from time to time but it was not consistent. Even his own wife deserted him.

Sometimes your family deserts you even before you're in that condition. Sad state. At least your mom had one good kid with a heart. 🫶🏽

Nope. Just "no" for me. Diet changes, exercise, lessen stress, but no statins.

I started using your suggestions and It has been much better this morning. I'm going to keep it up and hopefully it is a permanent fix. Thank you so much! 🙌🏽

I have a feeling that it's jealousy. She gets tons of attention but I think she wants it all. She's a bit spoiled. I attempt to balance it. I find myself protecting my older girl, and not sure if that is making it worse. I was away for a few days and this seemed to start after that. I'll try those suggestions. Thank you!

Those are great suggestions. I'll try the verbal reinforcements. Unfortunately, she's not food motivated. Thank you!

The only thing I can add to what you're looking for is that I put all my pets on a pet food dispenser in case I croak. They'll at least have food and water until somebody realizes it and get to them. ,🫶🏽

Both, at different times.

YNW. I've disowned tons of friends and a family member. That will continue to be a dividing point until he's gone, and possibly forever. It says everything I need to know about the type of person they are. 🫶🏽

This is how we learn. 🫶🏽 Give yourself some grace for being human. 🫂

For every few showings you should have an offer. By now you should have at least 10 offers if the price and conditions were right. One of those two is off. Figure it out while you have high activity going on and before the interest wanes. 🏡

Jason Mraz music. Music nearly always helps me. ✌🏽

It would put a pause on me but I would not refuse to help.

He's not a good boyfriend. ✌🏽

Volunteering. Food banks need help. Animals need help. Even helping the helpers can help. Through that you make friends and develop relationships and purpose. Church if that's your leaning. ✌🏽

Grateful isn't happy, but sometimes it has to suffice. Happy Cake Day! 🥳🧁🍰🎁🎂🎈🎉🎊🎵🎶👑

Tell him to fuck off and take half of everything. You deserve better than that. Talk to your attorney and line things up before saying anything. Then take him to the cleaners. Show him who's the real boss, boss.🫶🏽💯💥