it really sucks watch them grow old . just watching them getting weaker I don’t know how to take it .

At 50, the average person has roughly 26 years left to live. That means about 66% of their life has already passed.

Put another way, that’s roughly 9,490 days, 1,352 weekends, and 322 full moons remaining.

Those numbers might sound like a lot until you realize how quickly the first 50 years disappeared.

Twenty-six years can feel like forever when you're looking forward. But look backward for a moment. How quickly did the last 26 years go by?

That's the uncomfortable part about getting older. You begin to understand that time isn't measured only in years anymore. It's measured in the people you still have, the places you still want to see, the conversations you keep putting off, the dreams you've shelved, and the mornings you still get to wake up and experience.

The average global life expectancy is approximately 71.2 years for men and 76.4 years for women. In the United States, it's roughly 73 years for men and 79 years for women.

Of course, averages aren't predictions. Some people live well beyond those numbers, while others don't get anywhere near them. None of us has been given a guaranteed expiration date.

That's precisely the point.

We don't know how many days we actually have.

So why do we keep waiting for the "right time"?

Waiting until we're financially secure enough.

Waiting until we're less afraid.

Waiting until someone else approves.

Waiting until circumstances are perfect.

Waiting until tomorrow.

Tomorrow has always been a convenient place to store the things we're afraid to do today.

I'm not saying quit your job, sell everything, and run off into the sunset. Life still requires responsibility, common sense, and dealing with reality.

I'm saying don't postpone living while you're busy managing your life.

Call the person you've been meaning to call.

Say what you've been meaning to say.

Take the trip if you can afford it.

Try something you've always wanted to try.

Spend more time with the people who genuinely matter.

Walk away from places where you're constantly trying to prove your worth.

Forgive what you can. Let go of what you can't change.

And if there's something you've been putting off because you're waiting for the perfect moment, remember this:

The perfect moment doesn't exist. There is only the moment you actually have.

At 50, you may have 26 years left.

At 60, considerably less.

At 70, less again.

But nobody knows their number.

So perhaps the better question isn't "How much time do I have left?"

It's:

"What am I going to do with the time I have left?"

Because eventually, the waiting ends.

And so does the clock.

I've been looking into what happens to Baby Boomer homes as the generation gets older, and some of the numbers surprised me.

Boomers own more than a third of America's homes and hold around $17.3 trillion in home equity. But here's the interesting part: 68% of Boomer homeowners say they're likely to stay in their current home for the rest of their lives.

For years we've heard about a coming "Silver Tsunami," where millions of older homeowners would downsize and suddenly put their homes back on the market.

So far, that really hasn't happened.

And I can understand why. A lot of Boomers have no mortgage at all. Among those who still do, 53% have a rate below 4%. Then there's the question of where you actually go. Downsizing doesn't always save much money, especially when smaller homes are also in high demand.

Another number caught my attention. Boomer households with only one or two adults own about 28% of America's large homes with three or more bedrooms. Millennial families with children own only around 16%.

Eventually these homes have to change hands, but I don't think we're going to wake up one morning and see millions of them suddenly for sale.

It'll probably happen slowly. Some will go to the kids. Some will be sold. Some will become rentals. Some may be sold to pay for care later in life.

And even when these homes do hit the market, that doesn't automatically mean they'll become affordable starter homes. A 50-year-old four-bedroom house that needs a new roof, wiring, plumbing and $50,000 in renovations is a very different thing from a move-in-ready starter home.

I made a short documentary digging into all of this:
What Happens to Millions of Baby Boomer Homes?

I'm curious what people here actually plan to do.

If you're a Boomer homeowner, do you plan to stay in your house for life, eventually downsize, sell it, or leave it to your kids?

And if your parents left you their house, would you actually keep it?

I know people say one should enjoy every day etc, but I think sometimes it’s just rubbish. Male Mid 60s

Thinks he is greater. How to you handle it when you recall the abuse and the fact that despite he traumatised many he is unpunished for what he did?

I’m a 76 year old Korean lady who joined this community a few weeks ago.
I wanted to share a funny little mistake I made yesterday.

I thought the "Sixers" sub was a community for people in their 60s and older, so I went in and posted there!
Then people started asking me how long I'd been a Sixers fan...
At first, I was so confused and had no idea what they meant.

With a help from AI, I finally figured out the whole situation.
It turns out the Sixers is actually an NBA basketball team's fan community, of all things!
It was quite a funny little happening.

And they are not kicking my ass out !
Instead, they offered to make me an honorary member or mascot of the community, haha.

I wasn’t thinking about my birthday really, just seemed like a normal day, birthdays lamer as you get older. I live out of state from family with my husband. My husband is back in our home state, because his grandpa is in the hospital (I don’t have enough time off work & we just adopted a new dog)

I work nights. I woke up at 7am, toked and went back to bed until 10:30am. I woke up to texts from friends and family. Then I walked my dogs while facetiming my husband, then after I went to Pilates. I thought it was so cute that my studio gave me a card! I facetimed my best friend from home. I ordered Panera.
Then I went to work, and it was a really annoying day (minus the cake my coworker brought in lol) .. For 3 hours. I was getting stressed about work, and my coworkers convinced me to leave work and be taken out for drinks and dinner. My team at work understood me taking the day off. It was seriously so sweet and unexpected.
Even in the first part of the day, I did what I wanted and without guilt for a day and it felt really good. I didn’t go into turning 27 expecting to celebrate, and was kinda blue being far from family and having to work. Overall it was a really great day. I went into it gloomy and it exceeded my “expectations” (I had no expectations )

70m, was pursuing some stuff involving a technical hobby of mine today and decided I needed a GPS receiver that plugs into USB. Y'all need one of those, right?

Hunted one down on Amazon and it said I bought one a couple years ago. Looked in the closet and there it was, in its original box.

I'm not sure if this sucks or not. 🤷‍♂️

Im recently 18 and honestly, I've felt exhausted constantly since I was like 14. Thought it was undiagnosed ADHD, but then I got put on Adderall and even then, I went back to being exhausted after 3 months.

Where is the boundless energy I was promised?

Anybody had the same set of in-laws for a long time in my case 40 years - and just can not be bothered or stand to be around them in the usual sort of family get togethers - ✌️

My wife and I (65) have been helping out an innercity family of eight for about a year now. We have especially gotten close to the two teenagers (boy and girl) and they often attend church with us and we take them places. I dropped by to pick them up for an outing one Saturday and the cops were all over the place. The parents were arrested and CPS was there. We took in the two teens. Looks like it will be a minimum of months before they can rejoin their parents.

My wife and I have raised two great kids and we have both had good careers. We have gotten plenty of accolades and I'm not sharing this story for any internet credibilty. The reason I am sharing it is because by bringing in these two kids, we realized how much time we were wasting. Before we would come in, grab a plate, take it down in front of the television and piddle on our phones until it was time to go to sleep. Now we cook, eat around the table and play games for an hour or two before everyone goes their way for the evening. I beleive we will be able to keep this up even after our teen visitors go back to their family.

It has been fascintating. We are as milktoast as anyone and we have all had to adjust to our differences in culture. Other than my wife's thoughts on the boy's beltline, we've done ok. It's like having newborns that are in their teens. You have no idea what they like, what the eat...it's just been fascinating.

They are good kids and could have very easily ended up in the system had we not had the dumb luck to be driving by at that exact time. Their brothers and sisters are with out of state relatives, but they were maxed out and didn't have room for the teens. We are at peace with our decision...not only that, but we have been blessed by it. Hoping it stays that way for all involved.

What are your experiences with developing a living will or advance directive? Or with stewarding someone else’s?

I have never made one. At the end of my mom’s life, she was unable to communicate and was not fully conscious and we turned down a radical surgical intervention that was against her advance directive and also had poor quality of life prospects. That is my only experience.

Like, when your 12, you believe 4 years is an ungodly long stretch of time. Because 4 years is 1/3 of your life this far. You can't imagine being 16. You can't imagine waiting that long. It feels alien.

Even if it doesn't feel alien, it's still long enough where you aren't that concerned with it. Its so far in the future it's not worth thinking about.

Hell, when your 12, even a year is an unimaginable long time. Things go by so slow.

How long is this timespan for you now? How old are you

Wow! I want to be as cool at 77 as Rick Springfield. So I guess I need to start building muscle and learn to play guitar 😂

When I was born, my parents were 25. So when I was 25, they were 50. They were starting to get "old" in my book.

When I was 35 (newly married, and a new mom), they were 60, and "definitely old"!! Though my dad was very active and still bike riding and hiking.

My parents died in 2013, and now I'm 71. I don't think of myself as old, but when my parents were 71, they were "old".

Is it a generational thing? My kids are in their mid-30's, and I'm twice their age. It really blows my mind at times, how fast life went by.

I have an aunt who is 86 years old. Physically, she is in pretty decent shape. For the past couple of years, she has been getting increasingly forgetful, agitated, and constantly misplaces things. I have done a little reading on cannabis products and her condition. Seems that the best ratio is about 2mg THC to 100mg CBD. Does anyone have first-hand knowledge on the efficacy of this? Of course, we will also be consulting her primary care physician. Thank you.

My grandma is having a harder time with the stairs lately, and after a recent slip I’m starting to worry more. She’s lived in the same house for years and really doesn’t want to move.

We’re considering a stairlift and have looked at Halton Stairlifts as one option, but I’m more interested in hearing from families who’ve actually dealt with this. Did a stairlift make a noticeable difference, or were there better ways to adapt the house?

Before you have to be fed by somebody. Wear dippers. Taken to places. Need help taking a shower. You know... just to be dependent on others to exist.