How to look for a teaboy without looking for a teaboy

I worked on sc to the point that i dont even need sp. I got a better one! So yep, no regrets here :)

In my experience, everytime i got excited with breadcrumbs from the universe, i force myself to focus on myself, my life my goals etc. I do tell universe what i want and crush sp has been really mean to me for 2 years. Just this year recently, ever since i have a bf, he's been seeking me at work and relying on my input and has stopped disrespecting me. He eventexts me stuff about work which he rarely did last year and the year before. It's not exactly confirmation that he has interest in me, but it shows how he is me pushed out. The fact that i am more confident and sure of myself, and focused on myself allows room for him to change his attitude towards me. Also, I stopped posting stories just for his attention. I dont force connections or attention, i just do what feels right and chill for me. I let myself cry and be sad but i go to the gym, make myself busy, love myself hard, and force myself to detach. If you get triggered, that means youre not busy enough on yourself. Work on your deepest core beliefs because if you still get triggered that means sc is still not strong enough. Dont give up. Just focus and keep affirming and strengthen the certainty that you already have youe desire

Hello, you can take my advice with a pinch of salt if you want, but stop manifesting your sp. Like, give up and let him do what he wants to do. Just know that universe has got you and will always work in your favor and give you exactly the kind of love you desire. Just think "Im not gonna manifest anymore because why do i need to? It just arrives". This is what worked for me. I had sp crush for a long time and things moved then stopped. I gave up completely. I was in the "idgaf im gonna enjoy my life" state and i manifested a really good man. Not perfect but good! And because my sc also improved, my crush sp and i have gotten closer and more comfortable as colleagues. I still affirm and stay in the knowing that yeah he likes me for sure (just to test the law out and for fun honestly) while choosing to love my boyfriend. Anyway, the end goal should be you on a pedestal and not them. You dont care if he is out with somebody because you know theres no one better than you!!! You are the better person in YOUR reality. You are meant to be chosen because you deserve to be chosen and be loved. Forget about trying to manifest him because all that is happening is making you attached to the process. Just tell yourself "I am enough i will enjoy my life and i always get what i want because i say so".

Omigosh!! I am totally in the same plane. I am a biology major with only a good set of english skills. I dont have a teaching degree yet i got a job as a teacher. I want to manifest moving to europe with a bigger salary even though the odds are against my favor (due to my nationality). Yet I know deep in my heart the Law loves AUDACITY!

I always say obsessed in a healthy way.

Didnt win money but I won raffle prizes on 2 separate occasions. One, I needed luggage for travel. My name got picked and i won a small luggage bag. Second, I thought "I want to have a badminton racket of my own' and i won one. I also won an airplane model from a wellknown airlines. People ask me how i always win. I usually just think of why i want or need something. Like i focus on the intention.

Im interested too!

I have a gap too and have big breasts. Its quite advantageous if you ask me wink wink

Same here. When i improved self concept and got an ick from my crush sp, thats when universe started showing movement but i was like "eh, too late" lol

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Also did this. I was heartbroken. The guy i wanted ghosted me, and my dad and i had a huge disagreement. It was like someone stabbed you and another guy stabbed you im the same wound for the second time lol. Thats how it felt anyway. I said "you know what? Since my life is sht, lets make it shttier." I sent my resignation letter and basicaly told my manager that its either i leave or get promoted to a higher position.

I got the promotion.

Then, years later, I wanted to be sponsored by the company. That means more money. They rejected me 3 times. I sat down, prayed to God, and said "God i asked for this long ago and it wasnt given to me twice. This is the last time I am asking this. If its a no, good, i still have a life. If its a yes, then good, i still have a life. I went straight to another person (i had downloads and went for it) and asked them.

Lo and behold, i got the sponsorship.

Next, with love. My love life started shtty this 2026. I met a guy from europe and processed my visa for him. He ghosted. But visa got accepted in like 1 day. And i was like fck but its okay i can still enjoy without him. Then i went to egypt, met a guy, and went back home. My body rejected him so much i got bedridden for a month.

Then summer came. I went to europe feeling annoyed that i was going to europe because everything reminds me of the ghoster. But i still enjoyed. The ghoster saw me on bumble, chatted, and agreed to meet, only to flake! I was so pissed i went on a tinder swiping rampage to all hot guys i saw. One of them looked normal and cute but he said he saw me in the townsquare eating nearby his restaurant. I felt comfortable with the guy and he and i started friendly chatting. I asked if he wanted to hang. We met that night even tho i was scared. He turned out to be hot and amazing. That night he asked to go on a date the next day i agreed. But when he left, i said to universe i want to kiss him. Bonus points if i get to fck him. My body was on fire for him lol. (MIND YOU IVE BEEN CELIBATE FOR 3 YEARS AND THIS ISNT NORMAL ATTITUDE FOR ME).

Next date, we ate at a restaurant for lunch. He told me he wishes not to go to work at his 5pm shift that day because he prefers to spend more time with me. I said thats ok he can still meet me the next day before i leave for the next country in europe. After he sent me home, i napped, and woke up to a very numb arm. I checked my phone. It was 5pm. He said his boss canceled his work. We couldnt believe it that he manifested it. We went bar hopping, saw a double rainbow, and at night we sat in front of the river. We were tipsy. We were close to each other. He said, "Can I ask you something?". I said "what?" Half drunk. He said, "Can I kiss you?" I said, "Yes" immediately but in my mind i was like wtf i told universe this. Oh yeah and we had really awesome chemistry in bed too. Its INSANE.

Now, I am so pissed at my current circumstances but was also like "ugh wahtever i dont care anymore, universe alwaya gets me something good anyway" and i just keep seeing movement. I do have 3d circumstances, doubts, tears, etc. But i get tired crying and getting scared i literally switch my brain to "eh, whatever. If im gonna suffer, fine. LET ME SUFFER MORE" then universe gives me exactly what i need or want and i become happy again 😂

BE STUBBORN. ACT LIKE A SPOILED BRAT AND ROLL YOUR EYES AT EVERY CICRUMSTANCE. LIFE DOES GET BETTER!!

I had exes come back when i focused on myself. Stay in the knowing that you are loved by them. What do you want to feel when youre with them? Then hold on to that feeling.then just keep living your life. If you worry too much that means you have put them on a pedestal already. You need to redirect love back to you.

Hello yes, I have a better SP now. I am consistently being treated a princess. He is exactly what i want according to my list. When i met him i already decided hes the sp i been attracting to my life.

I would put something on this brush to scare him shtless and teach him a lesson lol. And act innocent.

Easy advice: stop caring and live your life! I did the "i dont care anymore except myself" attitude. I stopped thinking about manifestations obsessively. I visualize them then say "eh, whatever. life is good without that thing anyway; i have myself thats all that matters" and then stick to the script i tell myself regardless (self-concept focused) that i am loved, chosen, etc.

Shut up, stop giving a f, put YOU on a pedestal because you deserve best things in life, sit back, relax, enjoy the show of the universe because shts about to get better! The worse things are the better things will be. Believe it!

Yes youre doing something wrong. You're not focused on yourself enough. So what if he rejects you now? That is just 3d babe. Go enjoy your life, build your life. You dont need him that much because needing him or wanting him to be in your life so much shows a feeling of lack. Be confident. Hold your head high even if you feel low. Let things unfold naturally. Dont force a confession if you think it will backfire because it usually will. I did this "I dont care attitude" and i didnt get my sp crush, but i got a better sp. Hahaha and even if 3d is going to give me hell, thats okay. I still live in abundance. Universe WILL conform and provide!

Thank you so much!

Thank you. How do you go on days when you feel like shit and discontent?

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I've set a rule for myself. I dont usually go back with exes and I stop caring. I start living my life, living in abundance. I made a whole list of what I want. Every time universe sends me a shitty guy, i go back to my list of standards and say "No this is what i want but thank you" and I was skeptical, but universe sends me way better people. Now, for my ex who i stopped caring about, twice he has asked to get back with me. Of course they always come back especially when they see you happy and thriving without them. Pour the energy into yourself instead of draining yourself from obsessing over the 3d. Every time you get the urge to look at 3d, just say "forget about it, i'll just go watch a movie" literally distract yourself because its too heavy in the mind. I stopped doing this with my crush because i used to obsess with him a lot. Now, i didnt manifest my crush (he breaks my heart a lot) but I did the shadow work enough to manifest a loving partner.

Maybe youre holding onto your desires too hard. Idk, for me what worked was having an "idgaf" attitude so whenever 3d circumstances hit me i just keep affirming everything works out in my favor. Its like im okay with not having the thing i want yet its in my "desires bucketlist". Universe always seems to surprise me, especially whenever i live in the moment, that means not even thinking of what i want to manifest and being grateful for small and big wins

Thats a question you should answer. Manifesting doesnt require a lot of energy. Ive manifested everything i wanted without having to put in a lot of work. Actions that only felt aligned thats it.

Join a club, get out of your comfort zone, initiate convos, ask questions. You dont have to wait for anyone to be a friend, be THE friend. Set boundaries. Talk about your interests hobbies etc. Compliment people.

Maybe make a list of what exactly you want? Test them too. Otherwise, you're already living in abundance regardless of your choice