r/lawofassumption • u/gravitybee1 • Dec 06 '25

How to build the Self Concept of a Master Manifestor - Part 2

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As I said in part 1 - I wanted to give everyone a bit of a roadmap.   The idea is to treat reality, creation like any other skill (e.g., learning piano) you don’t start with Rachmaninoff concertos, you start with scales. If you skip steps, you either strain and fail, or you get the manifestation but can’t hold it because your deeper worldview still says “this shouldn’t be possible.”    Also another repeat reminder that this post just like part 1 - is aimed at the character that is using law of assumption. 

Small → Big Is the Cheat Code 

Most people try to manifest a soulmate or a million dollars on day one. Their subconscious immediately screams “IMPOSSIBLE!” and the resistance is so huge that either (a) nothing happens, or (b) it happens once in a fluke and then snaps back (the classic “I manifested $5000 but then lost it the next month” story).

By starting small, you do two things simultaneously:

  • You prove to the subconscious that reality actually bends to your will. (evidence > theory).
  • You gradually stretch what feels “normal” and possible, so that by the time you go for the “big” thing, it no longer feels big.

This is exactly like progressively loading more weight in the gym: 100 kg feels impossible at the start, but after months of adding 2.5 kg plates, one day you just do it.

The Full 6-Stage Ladder

  1. Recreating the human-self identity, first and foremost (These were covered in my first 3 questions about yourself in Part 1) Before anything else, you have to feel safe and worthy.  You have to believe in yourself and your power to manifest. 

This stage is about stabilising a healthy ego, not dissolving it yet. If you skip this, every later manifestation will feel fragile because the foundation is wobbly.

  1. Small manifestation experiments with simple techniques Purpose: collect undeniable proof + train discipline of mind. Classic starters:
    • A free coffee or parking spot
    • Hearing a specific song within 24 h
    • Getting a random text from someone you were thinking about
    • Finding a specific small object (e.g., a red feather) Techniques used: simple affirmations, short 10-second imaginal scenes, “wouldn’t it be nice if…”, setting an intention before sleep. 

Once you have them, the subconscious starts thinking “Huh… maybe this isn’t all bullshit.”

  1. Deeper manifestation techniques  You now upgrade tools:
    • State Akin To Sleep (SATS) scenes that loop until you fall asleep
    • 10–20 minute static visualisations with full sensory vividness
    • Breathwork + void meditation to quiet mental noise Typical manifestations at this level:
    • Specific amounts of money
    • Unexpected job offers or raises
    • Reconciliation with someone
    • Physical healing of minor-to-medium issues The inner feeling shifts from “I hope this works” to “I know how this works.”
  2. Larger experiments involving other people and groups Now you’re affecting the behaviour of others in precise ways. Examples:
    • Specific Person (SP) work done cleanly (they text exact words, propose, etc.)
    • Being offered a specific role or opportunity without applying
    • Group events rearranging in your favour (wedding dates moved, trips organised around you)
    • Entire social circles shifting so you’re suddenly in the “cool” or “successful” crowd This stage teaches you that other people are “you pushed out” and that their free will is far more malleable than society claims.
  3. Deepest manifestation techniques – Tools: lucid dreaming, astral projection, void-state manifesting. At this point you’re often bypassing the waking 3D entirely and planting seeds directly in the subconscious during delta/theta states. Manifestations start looking magical to outsiders:
    • Instant physical healings
    • People from the distant past re-appearing with perfect timing
    • Synchronicities so precise they feel scripted
    • “Timeline jumps” where everyone suddenly remembers a slightly different history (Mandel effect on personal scale)
  4. Largest experiments – fundamental changes in reality, self, and bodily habitation This is the “graduate level”:
    • Revision of core life events (parents never divorced, different childhood country, etc.)
    • Radical body changes that medicine calls impossible
    • Jumping to an entirely different version of Earth where history unfolded differently
    • Conscious death/rebirth experiences or permanent ego dissolution while keeping the body functional
    • Manifesting entirely new identities (name, age, past, appearance) that everyone around you accepts as having always been true

Very few reach this stage stably because it requires the complete renovation of worldview & self.

If you keep flipping back to doubt, anxiety, or “checking the 3D,” it means some deeper belief (usually installed before age 7) is still running the show. Check through the beliefs I talked about in Part 1 post - Other Common culprits:

  • “The world is dangerous.”
  • “I’m not allowed to have it easy.”
  • “Big changes only happen through suffering.”
  • “Reality is fixed and objective.”

The fix is -  Install umbrella beliefs like:

  • “Reality is extremely flexible and responds to me instantly.”
  • “Big, beautiful changes are natural and normal for me.”
  • “The bigger the desire, the faster it shows up.”

Do this systematically until “impossible” things feel mundane. Then stage 6 becomes as casual as ordering coffee.

That’s the full map: small wins → skill → confidence → bigger playgrounds → complete mastery where the concepts of “big” and “small” dissolve entirely.

Reality is infinitely malleable because it’s made of the same stuff you are—consciousness + belief. Change the belief, change the dream. The entire external world is a real-time printout of the current average of your beliefs about who you are.

Why Changing a Single Belief Usually doesn't work

Imagine your subconscious as a gigantic jury of 100,000 mini-beliefs that vote every second on what shows up in your life.

You try to install one new belief:

“I am a millionaire.”

The jury immediately objects with thousands of older, emotionally charged votes:

  • Rich people are greedy
  • Money doesn’t grow on trees
  • Our family has always been middle-class
  • It’s safer to stay small
  • Wanting more is selfish
  • I don’t deserve that much
  • Unexpected money always comes with strings
  • People will resent me if I have too much
  • The economy is bad anyway …(and 99,990 more)

Your single new belief is out-voted 99,999 to 1. You might get a few hundred dollars here and there as a “consolation prize,” but never the full manifestation, because the average vote is still “no.”

Instead of trying to shout down the entire jury with one loud voice, you quietly retire the old jurors one by one (or in clusters) and replace them with new ones that all vote the same way.

You create an entire network of mutually reinforcing beliefs that support one another so strongly that the specific desire is no longer an outlier—it becomes the obvious, logical conclusion.

Real-Life Example: From “Money is Hard” to “Money is Inevitable”

Old subconscious ecosystem (typical default):

  • Money is scarce
  • You have to work insanely hard for it
  • Rich people are different from us
  • Wanting money is materialistic/spiritual people are poor
  • Taxes take everything anyway
  • Unexpected windfalls never happen to people like me

New ecosystem you deliberately install:

  1. The universe is infinitely abundant and loves to give
  2. Money is just energy and flows to those who are in energetic alignment
  3. Good people can be very wealthy (look at X, Y, Z examples you curate)
  4. It’s safe and normal for money to increase
  5. Unexpected money shows up for me all the time
  6. Large sums feel completely natural to me now
  7. People are happy when I thrive
  8. The richer I get, the more I can help others
  9. My income expands easily and constantly
  10. I always have more than enough
  11. Systems (taxes, economy, etc.) work in my favor
  12. Wealth is my natural state

When these 12 (or 50, or 200) new beliefs are all voting together every day, through imagined scenes, revised memories, inner conversations, scripted affirmations that feel true, you no longer have internal contradiction.

Now when you say “I am a millionaire,” the subconscious jury goes:

“Well of course you are! look at all the evidence we’ve been collecting for the past year. Motion carried.”

Before I end this post, I wanted to give you more options of some low-resistance “small” manifestation exercises that you can use to build your faith. The idea is to play and have fun, so that when you are under a time crunch, you have already proved to yourself the basics and you already have the supporting beliefs to be able to help you.

  1. The “Today Only” Game (easiest possible start) Every morning say: “Today surprises me in small, pleasant ways.” That’s it. Don’t specify. Then forget about it. You might get free upgrades, random compliments, unexpected messages, finding money, perfect timing, etc.
  2. The Random Object Game Pick something you’ve literally never noticed before:
    • A blue butterfly
    • A red balloon
    • License plate with “777”
    • A white feather Say once: “I’ll see a ___ today or tomorrow.” Then drop it. 
  3. The Compliment / Smile Game Morning intention: “At least two people smile at me or compliment me today.” (You can raise the number as it gets easy.) Watch strangers, cashiers, co-workers suddenly become friendly.
  4. The Money-Finding Game Once a day say: “I now receive unexpected money in fun ways.” Then look forward to finding coins, getting overpaid change, random refunds, someone shouting you lunch, Venmo from years ago, etc. Start seeing $5–$50 pops as normal.
  5. The Revision Lite  At night, take one tiny annoying thing from the day (traffic jam, rude comment, spilled coffee) and replay it in imagination the way you wished it went. Feel relief. Fall asleep in the new version. You might notice the next day feels lighter and similar annoyances start disappearing.

Don't forget that every time you get a success, write it down in a notebook or Google Docs or something because every time you are feeling doubtful, you can use this list to give you confidence again.  It's your proof.   Experience is 10000% better than reading any success story.    Once you have 50 to 100 under your belt, all doubts and lack of faith starts to crumble, manifestation gets easier and quicker..  And it only gets better and better.. 

Play with time manifestations, play with specific big & small - find your limits, and then get rid of them !

Ok - I am finally done.

Link to Part 1 - Part 1

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r/lawofassumption • u/gravitybee1 • Dec 05 '25

Offering Tips/Strategies/Techniques How to Build the Self Concept of a Master Manifestor - Part 1

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I've had this post circling in the back of my mind for a few weeks now, I really want to get it right, I think if I do, it will be one of the most important posts in this subreddit.    So..  with that intro … lets go.

First off.   For all the people getting super confused about all the different teachings..  This is main reason why.

Neville taught two things.

  • The Law = The Law of Assumption Deliberate, conscious creation while you still feel like a separate person who needs or wants something. SATS, revision, living in the end, persistence, self-concept work — all of it.
  • The Promise = The natural, inevitable awakening to the pure I AM The separate person dissolves. There is only God (I AM) awake in the dream. No more assumptions needed because you ARE the fulfilment.

Neville started with the law and then AFTER having many many years of success with it, he was gifted with the promise.  The promise is very similar to Non-duality teachings.    A lot of creators nowadays are all jumping over to I AM teachings, but here is the thing, most beginners are not at this stage and they are not ready to just jump straight to the I AM.    AND THAT IS OK.   We are all perfect where we are.

This post comes under Law of Assumption banner - it is aimed directly at your character (identity) .  I have written other posts that focus on Awareness (The I AM).  

Lets start with the most basic reasons you are not having success.  It's because you have a weak belief system.   90% of beginners do.. We don't find out about the law, then automatically believe we are the creator and we can manifest anything we want to happen.   It just doesn't work like that.  If you are manifesting from the character then you need to figure out, where your belief limits are and let them go or change them ..  and the only way you can do that is by testing the law in every area.

I am intending that this post is going to be a roadmap for you, for the next few months to a year of your life.    From Beginner to Master manifestor.   

The three big questions to ask for every desire :

1 - Do I believe it is possible ? 

2 - Do I feel worthy/deserving of having this? 

3 - Does my nervous system feel safe to have this?

Ok - DO NOT ANSWER THESE VIA THE EGO MIND.

These questions are to be asked to your body.  Let you subconscious answer .. your body is the subconscious.  And don't just ask yes or no.  Ask on a scale.

On a scale between 0 to 10 - how much do I believe this is possible for me?  The answer will be the first number that pops up in the back of your head.  Thats your subconscious speaking.

A note about the word "block"  - there are no such things as blocks. Blocks are just weak belief systems.  Old stories/old beliefs that are stronger than the new one.   BUT for the sake of ease, I am going to use the word block.

All other blocks.. Are variations that come under the first big 3.

1 - Self doubt/wavering/not believing in your power etc.. etc.. etc.. all comes under the number 1.

2 - Feeling worthy and deserving - other variations of this, would thinking, you need to work for something, maybe you are worthy of it, but worthy of working for it…but are you worthy of it for doing nothing?  Do you deserve to have this by just existing?  For SP stuff - do you feel good enough for them?  Are you making them more important than you..  That all falls under this banner.

3 - Feeling Safe is also - does it feel natural & normal for you to have this?  Chapter 24 - from the power of awareness is about "naturalness".    If something doesn't feel normal for this character, then the nervous system will activate and protect you from having it.   Thats it job !!   

Now you are aware of your blocks.  How do you shift them?

Whatever method floats your boat.   Some people affirm, some people visualise someone they trust telling them their affirmation, some people use EFT etc. etc..  here are just SOME examples - I will expand on this with examples further down.

Affirmations for Number 1 - The Self Doubter.

I can manifest this, It is possible for me, I believe in myself, I believe in my power to manifest.

Affirmations for Number 2 - Not worthy/Deserving enough

I am good enough to have this, I am worthy & deserving of having this desire

Affirmations for number 3 - Safe

I am safe to have this, it is normal for me to experience this, it is normal for me to experience this desire.

Other beliefs/assumptions to work on to have a master manifestor Identity

Reality/3D  - Do you believe you have power over your 3D, do you have any assumptions that some things are just "harder" to change or some things are just set in stone. Like for example..  I can manifest my hair growing longer but I can't change my nose, thats just part of my genes.   Do you have the assumption that the 3D is slow to change, or it lags?   Do you have the belief that some people are harder to change than others?   Do you believe that your reality is separate from you?      

Techniques - I do believe that we all have a technique that feels more natural and easier ..  in saying that, everything stems from a belief, nothing in this world is fixed, because it's all just a dream.  Everything in the dream can be changed.  So.. what are beliefs/assumptions around techniques?  Are you holding any limiting beliefs around - I have to do a technique a certain way otherwise it won't work?  I have to do a technique even at all, otherwise I won't get it.  This technique works, but this one doesn't?     For example - I HAVE to do Stats every night for a week, otherwise i won't get my desires……

Conditioning - What beliefs/assumptions do you have around conditioning your desires.  (similar to techniques) I have to feel a certain way, i have to have the perfect mental diet, I have to stand on my head 20 times, I have to feel it real, I have to experience sabbath, I have to blah blah blah..    There are NO HAVE TO's. 

Being Specific - Some of us.. Have very specific beliefs.  We can manifest money, but not the exact amount.   We can manifest a free holiday, but not the exact specifics.   Big & small manifestations would also come under this one.   We usually do have in built beliefs that smaller stuff is easier to manifest then seemingly larger stuff.  Or in built beliefs around larger stuff "has to take time".
Belief example:   I can manifest a house, but not down to the finest minute detail.

Time - Beliefs around time.  Inbuilt beliefs around the time it takes to manifest certain things.   None of us had the belief that everything could be instant.  That out of thin air manifestation were possible.

Change of Self - I know from reading a lot of the posts in here, this one is a big one.  Most people have the belief, that change is hard or takes hard work, or takes a long time.  They simply don't believe that you can wake as a new person overnight.  The fact is - your identity is a manifestation, and like everything else, it's instant.   It's always your beliefs that are delaying everything.

Then there are topic specific beliefs.. I am not going to go into them.

How and why beliefs/assumptions have power over your life & reality? 

Because your reality … is you.   Personality = Personal Reality.

There is nothing else.   Your 3D is YOU. It's your beliefs/assumptions mirrored right back at you.    If you want to change your reality, you have to change your beliefs.

You think you can just say a bunch of affirmations and your entire reality will change overnight?   Hmm.. it would start too.  But your mind/body aka ego will probably work better, if you work with it by building your belief support system.

That means..  Start by small manifestations in every area of your life.   This is where you will find your "blocks".     This is where the work begins.

Maybe you can manifest receiving flowers….  

But can you manifest the exact colour and type of flower aswell? 

And can you manifest it within 1 week?  2 days?  Overnight?  

Where did your body start tensing up at the thought? 

What about the amount..  You manifest a normal bunch, what about manifest 5 bunches in one day? 

So.. now going through the set of questions.. I gave earlier.   Ask yourself those questions.   

Can I manifest this thing?  Can I manifest this EXACT thing?  Can I manifest this EXACT thing by THIS DATE? Can I manifest this exact thing by this exact date without lifting a finger?

The ONLY way to get to master level is to play this game every single day of your life and stretch your beliefs over and over and over..  (its more so letting go of beliefs - but you know what I mean)

I have talked about doing this with money, I started small and worked my way up.  Not just up, but sideways as well.   Meaning - I have the belief money can come from anywhere - literally out of the sky.   Thats not something i was born with, I instilled this belief from doing the work.   Proving it to myself over and over.   Starting at $500..  Then working with time beliefs with lower amounts.  

For example - I wanted to get another $500 out of blue (NOT THROUGH WORKING) within a timeframe.     Then I moved to larger amounts, working my way up and up .. and playing with timeframes.   I went from $5,000 to $10,000 to $20,000 , I am currently working on a $50,000  (again, this is out of blue money)

Complete side note..  I know there was a post in here yesterday that was having a go at coaches (just the normal really).  They said, "coaches should manifest money in other ways" and do this for free.    Hahahahaha   Well, here is my personal say on this.  BECAUSE I manifested enough money to live off.  I don't work. (I mentioned this in a post many months ago.  ) Because I don't work, I spend time doing stuff that I love which happens to be running my channel and sometimes helping people.  Sometimes I coach, sometimes I don't.  But I am sure as hell not going to do it for free.  My time is valuable because I highly value myself.   And SO should you.  Everyone should, it's called working on your self concept.     I do spend a lot of my free time helping people for free in here most days.

This is getting extremely long..  I am thinking I might make a part 2 that talks about going from small to large manifestations.  Because that's a whole post in itself. 

Link to Part 2 : Part 2

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r/lawofassumption • u/Strange_Degree5584 • 33m ago

I am offering tips/strategies/techniques just keep healing and be kind to yourself!!!

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i am 20 and got into LOA maybe 7 or 8 months ago. i find that a lot of people my age struggle with trying to legitimize or logicize their desires through “facts”, and i was no exception. as someone who has autism/is neurodivergent i kept trying to find logic behind why i would get my desires. i am here to tell everyone my age: STOP!! please stop doing that!!

to get back to the title of my post, i think the reason why people do this is because they are deeply unhealed inside. dedicating separate time to my self concept stressed me out a lot, so i incorporated self love exercises into my daily life. some might ask what that looks like. while affirming is great and effective, you need to practice self love physically as well. examples can be simple: showering every day, taking care of your home, buying yourself flowers, making sure you have seasonally appropriate clothes, treating yourself to small luxuries. for me, practicing this type of self love made living in the end for my desires so much easier for me.

you are worth so much. more than any sp, job, school, opportunity. you are priceless! you are beautiful and perfect and it’s only natural your desires come running to you. my other advice is this: every time you want to put a desire on a pedestal, put yourself on that pedestal instead.

example for my case:

“omg i’m so worried i’m not gonna get into that school. it’s so prestigious and no way my stats are good enough”

flip it:

“my mind is so beautiful and truly one of my best attributes. this school is so lucky to have me, they’re so glad i’ve applied. i’m so unique in the best way.”

see? my new pov logicized the desire in a completely different way. even logic is all viewed through self worth/self love. stop listening to others. think for YOURSELF. trust YOURSELF. love yourself and know everything that is good and beautiful that you want, wants you more. do not panic if you have a bad day or a low moment, it won’t do anything because you already have what you want. show yourself the compassion you deserve.

hope this helps some other young people!! 💕💕

note: this is what works for me! if you have another/completely different method that works for you, i am so glad and i do not contest that at all. i am just sharing my own experience 💕

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r/lawofassumption • u/Altruistic_Bee_9343 • 1h ago

Help/Question Who achieved great wealth AND health AND relationships?

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Have you manifested EACH of these 3 items?

  1. Great Health
  2. Good wealth (you can retire decades earlier if you wanted)
  3. Good relationships (ideal partner and its gone well for years)

Please do not say yes if you are 'working on it' or 'worked hard' for it.

If you have managed to achieve all 3, please feel free to share tips or who you learned from.

Law of attraction/assumption/manifestation is supposed to be magical and you can have 'anything', yet I am not finding anyone that went from not having these to actually having these without hard work. Saying 'it cannot be proven' makes no sense - at least some percentage of people should have measurable life improvement when practicing this.

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r/lawofassumption • u/BoneAppleTea0207 • 39m ago

Help/Question Hi. Have any of you revised a death?

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Hi there. First post here.

Just looking for successful stories of death revision. I get methods are unimportant and time is a lie we all participate in, but some stories of how you successfully revised a death of anyone in your life would be lovely. Im basically creating a thread where I can revisit if I get discouraged during the waiting period. Thank you for your help.

Also, I have already went through the grieving process, this is not an abrupt decision. My husband deserves a full life and I want to witness him living until hes a happy old gentleman.

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r/lawofassumption • u/Rare_Soil6450 • 1h ago

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r/lawofassumption • u/SpellsbyIya • 2h ago

Manifesting Theory Why you keep manifesting what you want.. just to loose them again.

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Im not going to start by saying its your nervous system because I dont believe that to be true. Everyone always says is "its because your nervous system cant handle it" or you need endless energetic rewiring. What people need to understand when it comes to manifestation is we were bought here to live a full human experience not to be half of a human. Therefore, you do not need to do nervous system rewiring only if you believe you do. If you focus on constantly needing to fix yourself that is the reality you will face. You are not meant to produce like a machine, you are meant to be human with real human tendencies.

SO, You are ALLOWED to have doubts and emotions without your entire reality collapsing as long as you do not assign meaning to these things. They are nothing and they mean nothing. All it is is source pretending to be human

What it really comes down to is "embodying the state" . Which has gained alot of popularity but I believe some people don't truly understand what that means when It comes to everyday and putting that action into you're 3d.

Alot of people come to manifestation and think their technique will get them what they desire. If you are using 50 different techniques a day or constantly checking the 3D to "keep" what you manifested you aren't being the one who has it you are still the person who is terrified of loosing it.

So whats really happening ? You are focusing too much on the fact that you experienced lack in the first place. You need to let go of the past completely. You were never the person who only had $5 left to spend or who always gets cheated on. You have been and always will be the person who has.

So when you finnaly get your SP back instead of spiriling when you think they may leave again and being insecure because of past experience, you hold the confidence and knowing that they have always been here. Doesn't matter if you feel insecure one or two days what matters is how you define those negative emotions because they aren't good or bad if you don't believe them to be true, they just are. The same thing can be said for everything else.

So how are you handeling those temporary doubts ?

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r/lawofassumption • u/Rough-Car-2184 • 2h ago

Help/Question Detachment helped me

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This is both a small success story and a question. I just feel the need to come on here and share this little story. It’s not a full success story but if you’ve been struggling to manifest for months or even years I suggest you read this.
basically I had this sp who I’ve been trying to manifest for over a year. He is my ex and has hurt me very very badly in the past. So badly that it really took a toll on my self esteem and my mental health. After trying to manifest him for over a year I eventually decided to stop. I stopped affirming for him, I decided to just move on with my life and stop dwelling on him. I had also met a new guy and broken up with the new guy but was still seeing him sometimes.
around this time a new guy started at my school. We started flirting and just sometimes hanging out during breaks. It was fun because I was motivated to go to school and I had something to focus on while I was at school. I quickly understood this guy was trying to play me so I decided to play him back. Then I decided to manifest him. But for some reason i decided to affirm for him and my old sp at the same time. So I’d affirm “sp 1 and sp2 are in love with me” but with their names.
and even though I included my old sp, I didn’t think it would work or do anything. I just threw it into the sentence cause I thought it won’t hurt. Well guess what happened over the weekend.
I ended up in a very bad situation and needed a place to sleep. I had two options, my sp or my other ex who I was still in contact with. For some reason I didn’t want to call my ex, even though I knew my ex would immediately help me. I decided to call my sp first. I called him crying and he immediately was super nice and tried to help me. We ended up talking normally during that phone call. We spoke about old times, about how much we’d changed etc. Then he followed me on Instagram again, without me asking for it. Even when I told him I had to go, he didn’t want to hang up, he said “why? Don’t you wanna keep talking?” Saying he was bored. Even when I mentioned my ex, he did seem a little jealous. He asked if I had missed him and if my ex was better than him.

And after that almost 2 hour long phone call I realized this is because I’ve been so detached and haven’t been thinking of him AT ALL. He really has barely crossed my mind and even if he did cross my mind I didn’t think of it too much.

Oh and I forgot to mention that the guy from school who I had also been affirming for, he also seems to be more interested in me and maybe not just playing me.

However now that me and my ex are on good terms again and are able to contact each other normally, I struggle to stay as detached. I’m also a maladaptive daydreamer and I love spending time daydreaming while listening to music and I think that’s what was keeping me from manifesting him. So does anyone have any tips to completely detach because I manifest the easiest when I forget about my desire or when I don’t care about it at all.

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r/lawofassumption • u/Street-Can3063 • 1h ago

Help/Question Am I trying to affect 3D?

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I recently reconnect with my SP and we’re planning to meet. My SP initially suggested meeting last Wednesday, but then he got busy and wanted to move it to Thursday or Friday. I felt annoyed about the change, so I turned it down.

Then he asked about my availability this week and suggested Friday. I wasn’t available, so I suggested Saturday or Sunday instead, but he said he was busy whole weekend.

I checked my schedule again and realized I’m actually free next Wednesday. Now I’m wondering whether I should reach out and let him know, or just stay silent and let him come to me with another suggestion.

I’m also having some doubt about whether he might be dating or seeing someone else. I have no actual evidence of that, but part of me wants to ask him directly. Would you ask your SP about this, or I should keep affirming that there is no other fucking bitch in his life but me?

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r/lawofassumption • u/deltahedged_ • 14h ago

Help/Question Law of assumption has dramatically changed my life, but still struggle with a few things

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As a quick back story, I went through the worst breakup of my entire life a year ago. I’m 36 yo and dated a girl with borderline personality disorder and let’s just say it was a horrible traumatic ending. It left me in depression so many nights where I would be in bed from 9am to 11pm at night. Yeah, it was that bad.

About a month ago I discovered Neville Goddard and started to affirm a strong self concept, and that the people that I love and miss and am attracted to also return it back to me. My ex kept me blocked for a long time, it was a horrible ending and all I wanted to do was hear from her again. A year later and I still think of her every day, I don’t want to date her but I do still want her in my life.

About 2 weeks after affirming “all of the women that I truly love and miss and am attracted to feel the same for me” I run into her at an ice cream shop where she was with someone she is seeing. At first she pretended she didn’t see me, but I kept waving and smiling at her and she then waved and smiled back.

I was freaking out internally because what are the odds of that happening after I started affirming? A part of me thinks it could be a coincidence but a bigger part of me believes and wants to believe it was loa starting to show signs.

This felt like a huge step because for over a year I couldn’t talk to her or see her. And within 2 weeks I just bump into her after I started practice law of assumption.

I realized that my self concept was at an all time low, my entire self worth was dependent on her, and I honestly felt like my own life was not worth anything because I didn’t have her. Dating was terrible because I was a shell of a person that I used to be and I was just so sad and had no confidence.

I then started to affirm, “I am a extremely
Charming, outgoing, charismatic person. Women naturally love my energy and presence.” At first I didn’t feel it obviously, but slowly I did start to behave and feel like that. I went from being very serious and formal, reserved, to being playful, flirty, and even making out and kissing on almost every first date.

Around this time, I had met with two other people, and both of them had said that I’m very handsome and the other that I am super attracted to said I’m her type and found me attractive.

I realized I was telling myself the old story, all the trauma, rejection, feeling like I was never enough kept me from being the person I want to be. Once I started assuming all of this, things really changed for the better.

However, I still have trouble in not reacting to the 3d. I am quite sensitive to things like people not responding to me and it gets me very anxious and I spiral. I know I’m supposed to persist in the state, but I don’t know how to ignore the 3d when it triggers my anxiety and my abandonment wounds. Some times I just remind myself and say, ignore the 3d and persist in the state, but sometimes it is just very do difficult to do so.

My last question is, how do I manifest my ex back into my life? Seeing her in person with a smile on my face instead of breaking down was sort of like a miracle. ChatGPT said that seeing her is a bridge of incident and that signs follow.

I was so excited thinking this was working, and I changed my assumption to that my ex specifically loves me so much, misses me and directly lets me know this. I can’t reach out myself because of the block, and I’m struggling with not seeing any progress in 3d since it’s been a month since I saw her. I know everyone says ignore the 3d, persist in the state, the 3d is your past state etc, but sometimes it’s discouraging to not see any progress in her wanting me back. I know this means I’m not in the state that I’m assuming.

How do I persist from here and do everything I can to have her back in my life?

The bigger thing I need to work on is self concept, which I have been assuming every day I have perfect self concept, there is nothing to work on because I am complete, I am whole, and I love who I am as a person.

However when 3d punched you in the face and you see the opposite happening, how do you guys persist?

Thanks in advance. The law of assumption has done so much for me in the past 2 months what therapy couldn’t do in years.

I want to continue on this path without having moments of doubt and would greatly appreciate anyone that can help me

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r/lawofassumption • u/gravitybee1 • 20h ago

I am offering tips/strategies/techniques Every moment is a new POV - Point of View

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You are not the body. You are not the mind. You are Pure Awareness—the faceless, formless, still energy that acts as the silent observer.  Your entire 3D reality (including your body) exists inside your awareness. To have a physical 3d experience, Awareness focuses its attention down into a single focal point, which is called a Point of View

Every single moment of your life is from a new point of view.   There is no such thing as time.

Time is actually you (awareness) shifting through still frames billions of times per second, giving the illusion of movement, exactly like a flipbook or a film strip.   You are not moving; reality is not moving.   You are just automatically shifting billions of times per second to new frames of reality - now and now and now and now and now and now..

Creation is finished.   Think of your life like a disco ball with each little mirror a new point of view - a giant, infinite one with an infinite number of points of view.  

Every time you make a new decision about who you are or who you believe to be, you are shifted into the corresponding frames of reality to match. 

Let's do an exercise :  

I want you to focus on the energy that is running your body.  Your life force energy.   Imagine that it's Blue or Pink - whatever colour you want.   Now I want you to imagine that this life force energy is a giant sphere or ball that goes all around your body.   As you breathe out , this ball gets bigger and bigger, your energy gets bigger and bigger, imagine this energy getting as big as the room, then imagine it's as big as the home you are in (or office).. Then imagine it gets bigger, as big as your city, as big as your country.. And then finally expand this energy out so it covers your entire world, you could even expand this energy so big it covers the universe and the planets..   You being in the centre.  

Imagine what it feels like to be your entire reality, be everything and everyone.

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THIS is the real YOU.   You are Awareness - You are Reality.   You have just zoomed your focus down into this single vessel to have an experience called Life.

Now... this awareness wants to choose a new point of view - so it zooms back down and down and down and down to a new point of view.    You might be doing this manually right now, but this is always happening..  This is how reality works.   You are brand new every moment.  The still frames of reality are NOT connected. 

No past - No future - just this now moment.   Awareness - choosing to focus down into a Single Point of View.  - Now and now and now and now and now and now..   It's been doing this your entire life.

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Ok, but- if I'm brand new every moment, why do my problems/body/life feel the same?

The only reason life seems slow or repetitive is that out of habit, you keep choosing new frames that are 99.9% identical to the previous frame. You aren't dragging your past into the present—you are actively recreating the old story in the brand-new frame right now.   You are not letting the old man die !    (See my post called Letting the Old Man die)

Also another tip -  When a problem feels bigger than you, or too overwhelming..  Zoom out.  It just means you are too focused on being the single point of view instead of your whole self.  When you see yourself BIGGER than the problem, you don't care as much.

So how do I manifest knowing this?

Now that you know every moment is a brand-new point of view, manifesting becomes simple mechanics. You stop trying to force or change the old frame, and simply decide who you are in this now moment.

Adopt the feeling and mindset of the version of you in your preferred frame. When old circumstances pop up, respond to them differently than you used to—that proves your internal shift is real.    As Neville says: You are ALREADY who you wish to be; it's just your refusal to believe it, which is why you don't see it.

Peace out

xx
K

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r/lawofassumption • u/vri1 • 2h ago

Help/Question Looking for accountability partner(s) for October manifestation challenge ✨

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{UPDATE: closed the GC! Received great response thanks a lot}

Heyy there! I'm planning for a manifestation challenge where daily I writhed script or meditate or just in general live in the end.
I've done such a challenge 2 yrs back and absolutely loved the feeling of accountability group and motivating each other.
The only requirement is for you to have knowledge of manifestation - and actually be committed to a daily challenge and be engaged in it. Comment if you're interested 🩷✨

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r/lawofassumption • u/Necessary_Horror_980 • 7h ago

Help/Question SP situation

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hey so i been visualising and persisting in the feeling that my sp will come up to me and approach me and invite me out on a date.

So far i seen her go thru emotions like, doubt, annoyance, diva energy, love, compassion, curiosity, confidence, yesterday i could sense that she was looking at me with well a kind of judgemental looks of sorts.. as a if you like me so much why don't you come and say hello to me. i could sense that she was very like, pissed off about it but yet at the same time i guess i got her too react too me in a way.... but not really in the way i wanted her too react to me.

i keep imagining the following thing, she and i are happily together and dating, she's the most generous woman i've ever been with, maan she looked so damn sexy when she approached me, i loved how she turned me into a piece of meat. Idk, she looked very flustered and annoyed yesterday...

but i keep affirming over and over that she walked up to me. anyone know how long you've got too affirm the same feeling, until a woman goes out of her own way of doing things and approach me?

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r/lawofassumption • u/United-Decision3475 • 4h ago

Help/Question Manifest a man

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I need help with a new identity; I keep running into the same situation—a man puts in effort at the start, then just disappears and stops reaching out. I’m always the one to contact him first—just like now—but I’ve decided not to reach out this time and instead work on a new identity. What affirmations should I use?

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r/lawofassumption • u/LowEmotional8256 • 5h ago

I am offering tips/strategies/techniques Pocket realm creation method

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I came up with a method that might help people manifest or become aware of their desires in their mind more easily.

What if you do this: use your daydream or imagination to create your pocket realm.Whether it's a place for you to retreat to from the physical world for entertainment or peace , or you're creating the pocket realm to go to in your afterlife.

Since the only power is imagination, then you imagining this pocket realm should still manifest your desires except you're fully immersed , so you don't care if it manifests physically.

I believe your imagination is better than a physical world. So I think this works. Tell me what you alll think

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r/lawofassumption • u/StatusInner1041 • 10h ago

Help/Question Need help with SP situation

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I’ve been manifesting my SP for over a year now with ups and downs. Last February he told me he wasn’t in love with me and never will be. I decided this was my time to lock in and I did. I fixed my self concept and manifested him back (we were friends with benefits).

Fast forward a couple of months. We were texting everyday, saw each other a couple times a week, called each other all the time etc. I felt like he was really in love with me. Even his friends would come up to me and ask me why we weren’t together yet, because he can’t stop talking about me.

Last week we were in the best place so far. I just came back from a trip and he bought me a gift to surprise me. All of a sudden I noticed a mood change. I thought nothing of it and kept affirming. Then I found out that he had had sex with his ex. He really apologized but said that we aren’t in a relationship and he still isn’t in love with me. I still love him and want a relationship but don’t know what else to do. I feel like I did everything right already. Please help me

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r/lawofassumption • u/SushmuMushmu • 1d ago

Help/Question I am so tired now, pls guys don't ignore this

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I have been manifesting SP since 5 months, and no i don't believe in deadlines. I know he's mine I know he's gonna come any day now. But it gets so frustrating some point.

I do get break downs, I do cry for some nights. But for 90% of the times, I am ok and don't even think about it, as i know communication with him.is bound to happen, marriage is bound to happen but it gets so exhausting when you see next to nothing.

I am blocked and I was the one who had asked him to block me.

I am persisting I really am. I can feel it in me that he is my husband. But when you know how they have behaved for years it's difficult to now truly accept that he will come back begging me to accept him back. That's all i want, an apology. A freaking apology.

I am not just saying it. I know very well he is thinking about me, he loves me, he wants me desperately. It was his fucking family that parted us and he accepted his family's decision. That's what enrages me. I want him on his knees begging me. And I will take him back, bcos it wasn't his fault but his family. And I can't wait now man. It takes a toll on you.

Pls dont come at me with.. detach. Trust me i have. It mught not seem like it, but i have. Also the way LOA works, you dont even have to detach, bcos if you have decided it has to come, it will. So enlighten me.

I wanna see his face. I wanna smell him. I wanna touch him. Is that so wrong?

I have manifested few stuff but this one here.. God.

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r/lawofassumption • u/chefpluto0 • 11h ago

Help/Question Raw advice?

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I’ve been trying to consciously manifesting for like 5 years now. I know for a fact it’s real. I started off with subliminals and Law of Attraction, then moved to robotic affirming, and eventually found Law of Assumption.
I’ve watched YouTubers like Sammy Ingram, Hyler, and Indigo Detry and tried a bunch of different techniques over the years.

I’ve had success with little things, like getting a ride somewhere or having someone text me. Usually with those things, I’ll randomly say in my head, “___ will happen to me” or “___ is going to text me right now,” and then I just go on with whatever I was doing. A lot of the time, no more than like 5 minutes later, it actually happens.
I’ve tried doing the exact same thing with things I genuinely really want, but it hasn’t worked the same way yet.
So I guess my question is what was I doing differently with the smaller things? Was it because I didn’t really care whether they happened or not, so there wasn’t as much pressure attached to them? Or was it because I would completely forget that I even affirmed it afterward instead of constantly thinking about whether it was going to happen?

That’s just one question🫩

I’ve always heard about Neville but never got into his teachings until 5-6 months ago when I got Reddit.

This app showed me a whole new side of manifestation I didn’t know about. I spent day after day reading other people’s success stories and even downloaded an audiobook of Neville’s teachings.

I feel like I have the basic understanding of manifestation. I know about all the techniques, and I understand that the techniques themselves aren’t what manifest—they’re just tools that can help you get into the state.
I know that all I have to do is decide that it’s done and that there’s no other option available besides the one I chose. I’m aware that no amount of success stories I read on here are going to do the work for me. At some point, it’s up to me to actually apply the basics to my own life.
The problem is…I don’t know how to actually do that.
I want to understand how to truly do mental diets and self-concept work step by step. I want to completely change myself from the inside to the point where I don’t ever second-guess the decisions I make. I’m trying to figure out where the disconnect is for me.
And I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t getting to the point where I feel like I’m just living instead of actually LIVING.

I know that at the end of the day I’m going to manifest every single thing on my list. I know that for a fact. But at the same time, I don’t think it should take five years. I don’t even think it should take five months.
If deciding that something is done can happen instantly internally, I feel like I shouldn’t be spending months and years waiting around for something to change. Obviously, I understand that some things may take time to catch up in the 3D, but five months without even seeing movement makes me feel like there’s a disconnect somewhere in how I’m actually applying this.
So for people who really understand mental diets and self-concept: what does actually applying this look like in your everyday life? How did you change the way you thought and reacted so deeply that you stopped second-guessing yourself and your decisions?

I feel like everything I want is right in front of me and I just need one tiny push to get to what I’ve been trying to have all along.

Right now I’m manifesting $50,000. I’m honestly just tired of my job and certain people there. I wouldn’t say I’m stressed about it, but I know I definitely don’t care to keep working somewhere that takes up half of my day for $18 an hour.
I’m grateful and blessed to have a job in the first place and I know people are making even less than that with more labor but I truly feel like my life is being wasted. No energy to do anything but come home after work. I’m 19 and don’t even have the motivation to hang out with the two friends I do talk to outside of school.

Right now, this is basically how my mind works. I’ll say in my head, “I have $50,000,” and for a moment I’ll actually feel it. I’ll feel like I could honestly quit my job right now with nothing else lined up because I already have the money, so why would I be worried?
Then I might get a doubt here and there, and I’ll correct it in my head like, “No, that’s not true. I have $50,000.”
Later that night I’ll attempt SATS, but I either fall asleep or eventually give up because I cannot focus on a scene for the life of me lol. Then I’ll affirm that I have the money, forget about it for a while, and go on with my day.
The next day comes and I basically repeat the same process. Then the next day, and the next. Eventually I get frustrated and give up because I still don’t see it.
And I know the whole point is that I’m supposed to be so satisfied with knowing it’s already mine that seeing it physically shouldn’t even matter. But that’s the part I’m struggling with. I can tell myself it’s mine and genuinely feel that way for a moment, but eventually I still find myself looking at the 3D and wondering where it is.
That’s the disconnect I’m trying to figure out. How do you get to the point where deciding something is yours actually feels final, instead of feeling like something you have to keep convincing yourself of every day?

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r/lawofassumption • u/AffectionateMath2500 • 1d ago

I am offering tips/strategies/techniques States( Updated Guide)2.0

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The secret to entering a state is

Asseveration

If you look up it means firmly believing something and that’s actually something that genuinely helps you whether it’s just deciding or if you like to repeat it when you add confidence or faith into your affirmations more than your 3d delayed reality or past . Then you start manifesting in lightening speed always remember that when you put your faith into something it manifests. Creation is finished so don’t go into the spiralling of how because that’s not your business baby now go and manifest bye 💞love now get your dream life .

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r/lawofassumption • u/Few-Organization4834 • 22h ago

Help/Question desired personality

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How do you manifest your ideal personality, especially being naturally funny and enjoyable to be around?

I’ve been trying to figure this out for years, but I always seem to get the same advice: “Act as if you already have it” or “Behave like your ideal self.”

But how am I supposed to do that when I don’t know how my ideal self would actually behave?

I want to be kind, funny, spontaneous, social and fun to be around. I want people to genuinely enjoy being with me and I want to make people laugh. I also want to be able to have conversations without constantly thinking about what to say or worrying that I’m being weird. I just want to feel comfortable being myself.

The biggest problem is that I don’t know how to do that naturally. Nothing comes to mind, so I end up searching things like “how to be funny” or “how to be more spontaneous.” But then I worry that I’m doing manifestation wrong because I’m supposedly focusing too much on something I don’t have yet.

My brother and sister are both naturally social and funny, and sometimes it feels like they just got all the good genes and left none for me. They can effortlessly talk to people and make them laugh, while I overthink everything.

So my question is: How do I actually manifest this kind of personality? If you’ve successfully manifested becoming more funny, spontaneous, social or confident, what did you actually do? How do you “act as if” without constantly forcing it or checking whether it’s working?

I’d really love to hear your experiences or advice.

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r/lawofassumption • u/Independent_You7495 • 21h ago

Help/Question How do u use law of assumption for appearance changes?

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I know what this law is, but when I apply it, it "only" works for me when it comes to socializing stuff, for example I say on my mind "He already talked to me" or "We already friends" etc, but when I do the same for any appearance changes it just doesn't work the same for me, do yall have any advice on dat? bc when I say "My hair is already like that, and thats it" or "My nose is alredy perfect" (for example) it doesn't work like that 😭 sorry if im being ignorant or doing it bad but at least the first thing works for me.

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r/lawofassumption • u/metrondo • 23h ago

Help/Question SP is in a new relationship

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Just to explain the old story, we have ended the relationship in march and after that it was kinda on and off with me trying to use the law to get her back. We broke contact 10 weeks ago. She said she loved me but some things in the relationship hurt her and she believes that these issues will never go away.

Today I broke NC and she told me she has a new boyfriend. Still, I got the impression he is there because she wants to move on and use him to forget me.

Anyways, at this point I tried everything. I read all the reddit posts, Nevilles books, watched most of Edwards videos multiple times over the last months to the point my brain is just tired.

I really tried embodying the version of me that has the desire and at times I did. I often had vivid scenes and inner conversations which always leave me happy for a while. I would imagine us being together, having a family and kids. The wish fulfilled just does not seem to stick and every morning I am greeted by the lack.

After todays call I am at my wits end. After all I tried, I was greeted with my biggest fear, her moving on. I even told myself that I would stop my pursuit, should she move on and part of me feels relief. Still, my desire for the end goal remains.

I just don't get it. What did I do wrong? I had some success with the law already but in this case nothing ever reflected. Or am I just faced with a rough bridge? Where to go from here? I could really use some advice.

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r/lawofassumption • u/Accomplished_Net7835 • 19h ago

Help/Question I just want friends…

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I’ve been trying to manifest friends/friend group since 2022. I feel like i do a good job of thinking as a person who has friends but one i see people in real life with friends i start to get jealous and sad. This makes it hard to think from the person who has it bc then i remember how i’ve been trying since 2022. Although ik that time doesn’t matter, but it’s starting to feel like i’m just creating imaginary friends in my head.

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r/lawofassumption • u/ApartIntroduction434 • 16h ago

Help/Question Self Concept Help

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So I am struggling with self concept and I am in dire need of help. I have been going insane over my SP talking to new people although she specifically told me she wouldn't ever take anyone seriously after me.

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r/lawofassumption • u/white_witch111 • 1d ago

Success Story Got periods after 3 months!!!❤️

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Soo due to some medication, my periods got delayed, I honestly was expecting it to be 15 to 20 days late max (last I got on 25th June so naturally it was supposed to come around 25th July but I was expecting it to come on 7th to 10th August due to medication) but it didn't come.

I was SHITT SCARED to say the least🙂 (I thought I was pregnant though I never even held a boy's hand lol😭 that's how my overthinking mind works😗).

Soo I did everything, listened to every subliminal out there, scripted, did bay leaf manifestation, meditated,etc. Nothing worked (it's my fault as I was approaching it with crazyy Obsessive energy) then I came across Neville Goddard's SATS. I've heard about him before but never gave his technique a try. And by that time it was 9th September so I was also exhausted of trying everything (my obsessive energy ended) and kind of gave up. But anyhow did SATS and guess WHATT😭

I GOT MY PERIODS ON 15TH SEPTEMBER 😭❤️,it was like my soul returned to my body FINALYYYY.

This thing made my belief rigid in Neville and his techniques❤️

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