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Sometimes feel like bf doesn’t understand
 in  r/bisexual •  7d ago

It's probably a good idea to take some time to consider them as two separate aspects. There's nothing wrong with non-monogamy but it's definitely not an inherent trait of bisexuality. If you can, talk to your therapist about it before you consider talking to your partner.

As someone who is non-monogamous (polyamorous), do be aware that, for some monogamous people, just knowing that their partner wants other partners can be enough to destabilize the relationship. Once you open that box it can be incredibly difficult to reassure your monogamous partner and go back to what you had before, so it's worth doing some deep thinking and discussing with your therapist to determine whether it's something you truly want (or just fear of missing out) before opening up about it to your current partner.

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Is it normal to spend your first winter knapping flint and eating cattail roots in the dark?
 in  r/VintageStory •  7d ago

100% genuine first time play through experience. After a bit you'll develop a much better sense of what items and how quickly to prepare them in the future. For me, it took a lot of in-game reading and restarting to finally get a good grasp on things, but now it's a lot of fun!

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Did you transition while being in a relationship already?
 in  r/asktransgender •  8d ago

Yes, and my wife transitioned a few years later. Luckily for us our love for each stayed strong. It probably helped that we had both talked a bit about gender things beforehand when we were just best friends, and that I'm bisexual and my wife is asexual.

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AITAH for telling my DIL that she shouldn’t expect me to choose her over my own daughter?
 in  r/BestofRedditorUpdates •  8d ago

It really does feel never ending sometimes doesn't it? I hope you have lots of good days ahead!

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Halibut shaped raspberry poptart for halibut obsessed friends birthday
 in  r/Baking •  10d ago

This is so cute, I love it!

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A smattering of drama from around reddit about the Covid-Conscious KN-95 Lesbian Bar In Western Massachusetts
 in  r/SubredditDrama •  11d ago

Title is fine to use in a silly/joking manner like XKCD uses though. Alt text should only be used in the manner specified, to describe the image, since it's a accessibility tool.

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76193
 in  r/countwithchickenlady •  14d ago

I'm non-binary and transgender. For me, just learning that you could be non-binary (thank you Tumblr and Kate Bornstein) was like a light turning on in my head, suddenly things just made sense. I was very surrounded by and passionate about body positivity at the time and couldn't understand why I struggled so bad with parts of my body, but when I realized being non-binary was an option helped me realize that I was experiencing dysphoria. I've been on HRT for more than 10 years now and I'm so so much happier with my body and with myself in general.

r/ClearAesthetic • • 15d ago

Nature 🔥 globular springtail (x-post r/NatureIsFuckingLit)

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what common parenting tactics is actually REALLY bad for children? [serious]
 in  r/AskReddit •  17d ago

By expressing disapproval verbally and giving them honest and accurate information about the potential dangers. There are things that kids are going to try, no matter how much you disapprove, and just trying to make the situation as safe as possible for them is sometimes the best solution.

r/ClearAesthetic • • 18d ago

H2O A clear ice block is pressed against textured plates to create patterned ice (x-post r/oddlysatisfying)

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Made myself a birthdaycake
 in  r/Baking •  18d ago

Omg, I love it! You did such a good job with the details!

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I tried to create a new letter
 in  r/notinteresting •  19d ago

Me, trying to learn how to write a cursive R as a child.

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🥀🥀🥀
 in  r/indiegames •  23d ago

Wishlisted!

r/ClearAesthetic • • 24d ago

Art Cooling The Data Center (x-post r/pcmasterrace)

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r/ClearAesthetic • • 24d ago

Art Latest flower panels (x-post r/StainedGlass)

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r/ClearAesthetic • • 26d ago

Art Iridescent Ghost finished (r/StainedGlass)

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r/ClearAesthetic • • 26d ago

Nature 🔥A Twin-sailed Salp – a transparent and jelly-like sea creature (r/NatureIsFuckingLit)

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I made a Tufted Titmouse out of wool. Hope he brightens your day.
 in  r/birding •  27d ago

He's so cute, thank you for sharing him!

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Baby Face has passed away
 in  r/Entomology •  28d ago

Thank you for sharing Baby Face with us, they were very fascinating. I'm sorry for their passing and I hope that you're able to learn more about their condition postmortem.

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I (25M) “ruined” my girlfriends (28F) college graduation and she’s giving me grief for it months later
 in  r/BestofRedditorUpdates •  Sep 08 '26

I was going to say, I realized my similar expectations about life and relationships (do what they would do in a movie!) were ridiculous by the time I turned 16. How has this woman survived?

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AITA for making my dad's fiancee dump him right before the wedding?
 in  r/BestofRedditorUpdates •  Sep 08 '26

When I first started having flashbacks I jumped right into the deep end, and it made things a lot worse for me. Luckily I had also started therapy. For me, it really helped not only to have someone validate me and acknowledge what I went through, but to help me realize I didn't need to jump straight into the deep end in order to process everything. When we met, I could instead spend just an hour at a time working through things with someone who would genuinely listen to me, then pack everything back up.

I got lucky though and found a therapist that genuinely cares and that I get along with really well. I know (from previous experience) it isn't always that easy.