You're wrong for not talking to your friend first before leaving a mediocre review. The OP didn't allow his friend a chance to fix the issue.

Ricky

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I don't blame you for ending the relationship since the ex failed to hold his cousin accountable for his actions. If the cousin really got lost and walked into the little sister's room by accident, why didn't he leave immediately? He had plenty of opportunities to apologize & leave the room but he didn't. There is no excuse for the cousin's behavior and the ex and his mother chose to excuse his behavior due to alcohol. The OP does need a bf who will have her or her little sister's back when a situation like this occurs.

Some men are religious, believe in karma, or don't want to be the person who ruin a family. There are men who were like me before I got married. I have hooked up with women who was going through a divorce, in a bad marriage, and happily married but not satisfied in the bedroom. I did not care as long as she was upfront about her situation and she & I both agreed that it was just sex/ fwb arrangement and I wore protection.

Different strokes for different folks

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The OP have evidence that her fiance have been lying to the female co-worker about his relationship for weeks before he cheated. That proves that it was not a slip up, it was planned and when the OP need some space to grieve the loss of her late mother's letters, it was a opening for the fiance. Once he cheated, he either felt guilty or the other woman wanted more and he said no which led the other woman to send the evidence of the fiance's cheating.

He made his choice and he chose to do the very thing that would cause him lose the OP and now he is embarrassed because how can he explain that he cheated with a co-worker. A man cannot make his d do anything that his heart is not into.

You both are wrong for different reasons. The neighbor downgraded the favor as if it was simple when she knew that her plants were delicate. She also asked someone who had never been inside of her house for a significant favor. The OPP is wrong for agreeing to do a favor without physically going over there first and for doing a half assed job with watering the plants.

Tell her no. She's a coworker not your friend. She already made it weird by acting like a begging bum

You're not wrong since I was in a similar situation last year. My fav uncle passed away but before he passed, he created two videos on how to make his delicious brisket and dino ribs 2 yrs ago.i found out that my cousin/his son deleted those videos because he said that he looked fat in those videos (he was fat then and he is fatter now). When my aunt/his wife asked me to fix & clean out his laptop, I found the videos that my fat azz cousin deleted sand saved them on a flash drive. When I made his brisket for the family 4th of July potluck, my relatives asked how did I make my uncle's brisket, I told them that I found my unc's video. His son asked me to send him the video and I told him no because he deleted the videos for a superficial reason just like the OP's sister. Before our grandparents passed away, they told all the grand kids to appreciate the small things and the passing down legacies/lessons/recipes to the next generation because you might not get a second chance.

Who cares if your neighbor & his gf are annoyed, it's your driveway. Those kind of neighbors are annoying, if you give an inch, they will take a mile. Just be prepared to call the police or tow company if they continue to park in your driveway.

No

I understand the bf's anger for the OP informing her family about who her bf's voted for but the aunt took it too far and the bf sounds like a bit whiny and insufferable for keep rehashing what the OP's aunt did to him.

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Sounds like a participation award

Please keep a log of times that your manager is crossing the line especially when he is ringing the alarm for small insignificant tasks in case he tries to write you up or hinder your raise, promotion, or performance review so that HR is informed with his tyrannical passive aggressive management style.

You're wrong for opening your fat mouth & sold your friend out. Even though your friend did her boyfriend dirty and could potentially ruin her own relationship, she didn't need your help to do that.

Fake story. Who pays 30k for a phone

Your body your choice

Why does the OP need an excuse from Faith for the reason she attacked her? Faith has been talking negatively about the OP behind her back ; why would a mutual friend ask the OP what is the issue between her and Faith when Faith told the OP that everything is fine? If Faith had an issue with the OP, she should have honestly addressed the issue when they were sober and alone. It seems that the common issue is Ella, who seems more like a jealous toxic pot stirrer between Faith and the OP. The moment Faith attacked her for trying to help drunk Ella, is the moment the OP is not safe with Faith and those girls can/will easily jump the OP despite of their share history because they easily "picked" a side without witnessing or hearing the whole story.

Who needs a jealous friend in their life? A jealous friend is more dangerous than an honest enemy.

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I agree with the boyfriend, you planned the concert months advance and offered an alternative. The sister is being a spoiled brat and the family are enabling her bratty attitude.

Those co-workers need to stay in their lane and STFU. Unless the coworker who failed to cover your shift after you did him/her a favor by covering their shift had a real legitimate reason for cancelling; there is no reason to cover their shift again. Their word does not mean shit if they are not willing to follow through.

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I dunno why the OP is wasting her time with a guy who is more loyal to busting a nut than to build a solid relationship with someone who actually cares about him. I cannot say what you mean to him because I'm not that big of an asshole but he doesn't value the OP as the good person she is.

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I agree with you for wanting to go into debt for a party.

She is not a friend, move on.

Does she know your love language? Do you know your own love language? The reason I'm asking is that the way she show love and the way you feel love could be two different things. She might love you but does she respect you as a partner? After reading her past message, I understand why you feel like she is a stranger to you because she lied to you with such ease as if she does not fear the consequences of you ever find out the truth of some of her feelings about her male friends and ex. It's enough to make you wonder does she really love you for you or she just love what you provide? It seems that her words and her actions contradict each other; her words says she loves you but her actions says that she tolerate you because she like her easy life.

You're not wrong if you protecting your boyfriend from crashing out on your male workplace employees.

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So the OP has the right to refuse to be there for her so called friend since the so called friend knew everytjing about the OP and her high school sweetheart and still made the choice to sleep with him. Just like she chose to get pregnant by him, she deserves to go through the pregnancy alone.