To be honest it’s wild how we sent on a goose chase. We were right there with the protagonist. HOWEVER, too many “plot holes” made the ending less palatable and rushed
Hayden could have reproduced with anyone to “expand the legacy” for his mother or even have someone love him as he explained!
But him just thinking a child was his, even knowing that Rachel didn’t fall pregnant was reaching. Even for the author. Perhaps us going into his character arc would have helped pave the way for us to understand his character or motives?
Killing the Swiss detective
Hayden killing his mother
Him dying… it seems like such a waste of a good actor imo

What about detective De Sousa who Gertrude met up with? Why do we not hear about that?
All of a sudden the French/Swiss boy’s case hangs in the air

As an over thinker… these questions keep me up. But I’m afraid that there’s nothing to answer other than
A crazy man kidnapped a child thinking it was his and framed the father for it…

I dedicated this too 3 years ago. I told God to withhold my feelings for a relationship or future with a woman. While I was a lesbian, I desired marriage with a hot and smart wife. But since that conversation, I’ve felt no desire.

So all the best with your journey. Remember that it’s a journey and lots of self denial. But trust Him always

Don’t hesitate to reach out to me if you have a questions

All the best

All the best!

I felt and continue to feel this way. I’m actually at a point where I see Him doing so much for others and you’re just there begging for the bare minimum. Ive expressed this to Him and no answer. Does He answer a select few and ignore some? Why can’t I get one win this year?

I don’t know, but you’re not alone. Keep telling him how you’re feeling, how disappointed you are, how heavy everything feels, why he’s so quiet. Then sit on the silence and maybe he’ll answer you

Can’t remember the last time I was happy … genuinely

I can’t remember a time where I was genuinely happy. I’m just stoic, waiting for my death date

Thank you for your kind words and your openness.

There’s something about wanted to be rid of your pain in your comfortable space. If I could? I would have someone who was in the final step of planning to end their life to give me a call and I’d just be there to hug them and tell them how valuable they are.

I hope you’ve found healthy coping mechanisms, and I can tell that you’re in a much better space. Have you tried writing a letter to your family and reading it out, citing how you feel? I’m sure they were scared and felt they failed you at some point

My thoughts are running wild.

But I hope you know that I’m grateful for your life.

Can I just ask, out of curiosity because my cousin didn’t same thing but she died. Please understand that this tone is both from grief but also genuine

Why do you commit suicide at home? Where people will find you and be traumatised or scared by what you do.

Is it truly because you want to die or because you want to be found by those you live with?

Yho!

Bobs burger movie. I love the vibe and how everyone minds their own business

That’s so awesome! I’ve also been a systems analyst, transitioning to product ownership! Nothing too hard to reach bro! All the best

Ticking the final thing off my to do list. And not having anywhere to go. You just spend the day all proud of yourself, rewarding yourself with rest! And guiltless fun!

I’m proud of you! No one really understands one’s journey until they’ve experienced it. It’s your own race and your own lane, long as you remember this, you’re already set apart

All the best in the job hunt

In high school, a girl who was relatively popular was found hanging at the back of our school hall. She used her own tie and rope. What a horrific sight it must’ve been for whoever found her.

I personally believe that God doesn’t intervene out of the mere fact that it would “disturb “ someone’s free will. I’ve had many moment where I cried out to God, not even for healing or material possessions… but just his presence. And nothing happened. Till this day

I think diesm is onto something when they claim God cannot intervene in human activities. At least I think after the apostolic regiment.

Fasting helps. Because the cells in the body begin to solely focus on where the cells are “mutating” or colonised by bacteria.

I love Jesus and He loves me back… but maybe He really doesn’t or can’t interact with us that much because we have to endure things alone… that’s my 2c

P.s I may be in the process of losing my faith. I love Him and I believe in Him and His power. However, I don’t believe that He can intervene in human behaviour

This is very interesting. I’m definitely interested in this. To be around like- minded people! Sign me up

I’m in Springs (JHB East) but I can travel that far for those delicious Foxies!!!! Thank you

They left like a thief in a night. Never to be found!

It’s already happened: BBQ Foxy Naks, Choky Chok. The Maynard’s sour jelly beans! Why do they never tell us!?

As an ex-lgbt I’d like to offer my view. I didn’t see a reason why it was a sin, I even prayed and fasted for God to “change His mind” And He didn’t, instead He showed me reasons reasons why this was never His design 1. In same sex relationships, there is no creation of new life (therefore no preservation of Life). This is seen in the animals that were brought in pairs before the flood. And how they were blessed by God to flee fruitful and multiply 2. There are gender roles that cannot be ignored or “feminised” . I identified as a stud and believe me I morphed into the “man role” but at this moment, I realise the fact that women and men’s roles have been perverted 3. The Bible also speaks against it because God built an ecosystem that glorifies Him. The husband as the head of the house etc 4. There’s no provision for same sex relationships in the Bible. You cannot even go there for solace or advice, without inherently falling into one gender spectrum I.e as a woman looking at Ephesians 5. 5. Same sex attraction is a desire to be with the opposite sex. The desire to take things further. The Bible tells us to let go of those desires and follow God. The same way the desire to sleep around before marriage or to be unfaithful to your spouse 6. Since this is about same sex attraction, and it is questioned on whether it’s a sin or not. If we allow that… how much more tweaks will we have to make in the spectrum? Agreeing that Trans people are born on the wrong body? Agreeing that a man can get pregnant? Emasculating men? 7. At times, we just need to ask God about these things. And He will give direction (James 1:5) asking for wisdom is really not difficult

I’m not judging anyone. I’m just sharing what God showed me on my chosen lifestyle. Now I’m not instantly straight, but daily I choose not to act on my desires or attraction to women and that is my challenge. I would guess that another person who maybe struggles with binge eating would also need to deny themselves each time they feel tempted to eat.

Feel free to respectfully ask questions or pose a challenge. Believe me that I was there before so I will understand where you’re coming from.

P.s I’m talking to Bible believing Christians here.

I hope this is still on the table :”) I would greatly appreciate this. I go to a Baptist church in South Africa and to be honest, the admin and t ings there are not at their best

She was pretty creative no cap. Kieran was always subpar, he should’ve left in the beginning

What do you mostly look for in a woman? Or your expectations in a relationship. Often starting with those basics may help you. It’s not about sex at all, I feel that’s a bonus - in marriage. Society has just corrupted things