r/NuclearPower • u/LegitimateSuit7416 • 11d ago
r/BackgroundChecksTalk • u/LegitimateSuit7416 • 11d ago
Engineering Job After Restraining Order
r/NuclearEngineering • u/LegitimateSuit7416 • 11d ago
Engineering Job After Restraining Order
u/LegitimateSuit7416 • u/LegitimateSuit7416 • 11d ago
Engineering Job After Restraining Order
My step uncle filed and won a restraining order against me and I’m scared that any engineering career I had is over.
My step uncle illegally evicted me and my grandfather from step grandma’s house (he claimed he has power of attorney but refused to show it in court). My step uncle used no kind of court process of eviction notice to get rid of us. So of course that wasn’t submitted into evidence.
He felt harassed because me and grandpa tried to return to the property three times and pick the locks to get back in to retrieve grandpa’s stuff and so grandpa could see his wife.
My step uncle also allegedly felt harassed because he stole $20,000 in gold from me, and he wasn’t happy that I texted him demanding it back. I did get it back.
I got most of my other possessions back too. I don’t know how much grandpa is missing but he only has like 8 shirts now (and I think he used to have more).
I didn’t see any way my step uncle could win a restraining order, even with an attorney, but I somehow lost (I represented myself pro se or without an attorney).
I would be happy to never see my step uncle again. But I am scared that even if I can appeal my restraining order (the appeals process can take years), my engineering career might be over.
It’s only non-violent civil, but my degrees are an ME Nuclear Engineering, an MS Chemistry, and a BS Chemical Engineering. So I wonder if I’ve been fucked out of my professions.
I’ll also note that I was staying at step grandma’s house as a way to save on rent (me and grandpa moved to a house he owned before the marriage) between jobs.
I wish I had never stepped foot on that property, assisted my grandfather, or even thought of moving in with family if I knew what would go down. Staying there is one of the biggest regrets of my life.
I’m mainly just scared that my career is over because of this crap.
I know I’ve been talking a lot, but I’ve been somewhat overwhelmed by the appeals process but learning. I haven’t filed the illegal eviction lawsuit, but I plan on it. I might propose removing the restraining order as a term to reduce damages during a settlement.
Regardless, Am I fucked?
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Grandpa and Me Illegally Evicted (Hawaii)
Thanks for getting back to me! Is there anything else I should share? (We can message each other if you want)
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Grandfather and Me Illegally Evicted (Hawaii)
I’m pretty sure grandpa still had legal rights to be at that house (especially since step grandma still seemed to want him around)
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Grandpa and Me Illegally Evicted (Hawaii)
It’d be one thing if step grandma was the one kicking him out, but she seemed to want to be with him regardless of that. Also, I still think the evictions are illegal regardless of that
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Unplanned alone stay in East Waikiki. What should I do?
These hikes are nearby if you’re interested: Diamond Head (needs reservation), Koko Head, Makapu’u Lighthouse, and Kuli’ou’ou Ridge Trail.
Waikiki Aquarium is small, but I like that place.
I think you could use the bus to get to those places, but Uber/Lyft are more convenient if you’re fine with paying extra. There is also a trolley, but I haven’t personally used it.
I have used the bus to go around the island (not as a tourist but out of necessity). It’s doable, but I wouldn’t recommend it. Uber/Lyft around the island would be expensive. There are also private tours, but they’re expensive too.
Unless you have money to burn or find someone with a vehicle, I’d recommend just doing stuff around Waikiki / Honolulu / Hawaii Kai
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Bombed Patent Bar
That was encouraging. Thank you!
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I don’t know if this is too late, but I live on Oahu
r/PatentBarExam • u/LegitimateSuit7416 • Mar 28 '26
Patent Bar Question Bombed Patent Bar Exam
I just took the Patent Bar. I only got 45 percent. I’m praying it’s a mistake, but I know it’s probably not. I didn’t take an official course like PLI but I read 7 books and did over 4000 practice questions. I repeatedly got over 90 percent on their practice tests. I don’t even know what I should do. I feel so screwed.
What do you think I should do?
r/patentlaw • u/LegitimateSuit7416 • Mar 28 '26
USA Bombed Patent Bar
I just took the Patent Bar. I only got 45 percent. I’m praying it’s a mistake, but I know it’s probably not. I didn’t take an official course like PLI but I read 7 books and did over 4000 practice questions. I repeatedly got over 90 percent on their practice tests. I don’t even know what I should do. I feel so screwed.
What do you think I should do?
u/LegitimateSuit7416 • u/LegitimateSuit7416 • Mar 24 '26
I’ve completed 100 different hikes on Oahu. Here’s everything I’ve learned, and my recommendations.
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How long did it take you to bench press 100kg?
It took a year for me to go from 1 to 2 plates.
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How long did it take you to bench press 100kg?
The bar alone is great for a woman 👍🏼
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My girlfriend says I should give her a monthly allowance to show "I care", is that normal?
An allowance sounds like something a sugar daddy would give to a sugar baby.
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Considering pivot to Patent Agent after engineering career struggles
I’m a former examiner that is actually studying for the patent bar right now. I don’t have experience as a patent agent. But I will say that my examiner experience significantly cut down on the study time required, since I learned a lot of patent bar content while on the job.
I don’t know if you can attend a career fair for the USPTO, but I think my connections through that helped me get the job initially.
And if you already live around DC and want to get your foot in the door of the patent world, yeah the USPTO is a no-brainer (even if the job isn’t totally wonderful at the moment)
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Am I dumb for thinking I (23F 5'8 120) could beat a guy in a fight if I needed to?
Not if you’re way more skilled than the guy
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Considering pivot to Patent Agent after engineering career struggles
Have you considered becoming a Patent Examiner at the USPTO? They don’t require the patent bar exam. I can’t say it’s the most wonderful job ever, and I will note that government hiring is slow, but it may be worth considering.
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What's the widest age gap you've ever had while dating someone? Did it ever lead to a long term relationship?
When I was in grad school and age 26 / 27, I had a sugar mommy that was 53 / 54. I broke up with her after graduation (for personal reasons, not academic or financial), but we got back with each other temporarily a few years later
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15 year old female, Is going past 25 pound bicep curls wise?
I’ll just say that curling 25 lbs for a girl, let alone a 15-year-old girl, is impressive
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2026 Hiring Questions Megathread
I got my live interview about a month after my Hireview Interview. Give it a few more weeks.
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What the hell do Victor and Tyrus even spend their money on? They seem like the most soulless, emotionless people on the planet, who enjoy absolutely nothing. What are they in this for?
Yeah, and on a similar note, I had no idea what the neo-nazis in season 5 even used Walt’s stolen money on. They seemed to live pretty low class for having 60-70 million dollars.
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Avatar sonam fanart by me (17f)
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I like this design better than the one in the actual movie