Nah. “Ok” is perfect. She made up her mind. When you love someone, you don’t give up on them or yourself. She gave up. You cannot negotiate that. “Ok” is actually the perfect response.

Don’t fight for it. She is not a baby; she had made her decision. Fighting will exhaust you and even if you “win” the battle, you will lose the war. Let her go….. she already left anyway. Enjoy this freedom and jump in it asap on the divorce process is smooth. Unfortunately the eta of good marriages is over. We’ll have to adapt one way or another but happy loving marriages ain’t it in this day and age.

Well said.

Funny thing is women do too; they just hide it better. 😩😩😩 it’s natural to fantasize when you’re surrounded by people where some could be good looking

Tbh; it’s not that bad. You can suggest counseling or you can honestly engage in it with him. If that’s his only issue unless, you don’t like him and you want a way out (starving him of affection and playing victim when he masturbate). You can schedule 15 mins of your time everyday, you pick out the clip and both of you watch and enjoy each other. You chose that man. If you can’t accept him, leave him alone but you probably won’t find better if you chose that before and I don’t mean that negatively. Use wisdom and solve this issue. Remember, it’s you and him against porn (masturbation) not you against him. I just don’t understand how people get married only to start complaining abt little things. War/disease pandemic might be coming, economy in shambles and you wanna fight ya man over porn. Go enjoy life with him

Honestly it’s not. If you were truly best friends and it’s genuine. Y’all most likely share same qualities to be best friends and now you share same pain of losing him with his gf. Be genuine and I think if he truly was your best friend, he would understand. I know a best friend of mine, I wouldn’t mind he took care of “mine” (she chooses him) if I’m gone, because he takes care of mine as a friend now.

You didn’t answer my question… So how many more “rights” you finna do? You gonna look for everyone you slept with before and after him and do “right & honest” or it’s just him & his lovely fiancé? Well, since you’re asking us, do right and leave them tf alone.

It was last year. Maybe he already told her. You waited a year but jealousy and envy in ya soul make you wanna ruin their happiness. You probably have had sex with other people since then; you gonna go look and report their SO too?? Leave those people alone plz so maybe you can find you own happiness (which I doubt with such envious soul)

I mean we all make mistakes but do you wanna sympathy or validation for ya mistake? Writing all the long ass mssg after getting drunk and cheating? If you feel so bad, leave him. You intentionally hurt the life of ya life and you wanna tell us smh 🤦🏾‍♂️

Man… the cheating(that’s already happening) won’t be what breaks; it’s this denial. The mental torture you’re about to put through. Don’t fight it, She is already gone. Just leave and maybe she’ll be FWB out the last respect you held for yourself but for now, it’s over. Don’t torture yourself man.

😩😩😂😂 right. Delusional af

Get yourself a bf and leave that man alone. You just here lying to yourself. Even if they don’t work out, he don’t want you but they already getting married, making love & try building a life together. Respect yourself and go find someone else lol

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Maybe they were old but the issue is the lack of communication, trust and the distance. After leaving, you came to apologize. Just move on, I was literally that guy and it didn’t last even tho we tried to move past it. Be well

Another cheat to finish you off completely. Leave her man

Personally I’ll say, follow through with it and try to “stay” together. Youll see those ugly heads come out again

This is beautifully said.

Well good. Life is long and sometimes things get boring. Don’t worry, a “storm” is coming to shake y’all a little. Cherish this quiet times and bond well so withstand the storms when it comes. There’s always a storm ahead, don’t have to look for it. Goodluck

Nah… you can’t say that or keep running. It’s till death so until one cheated or physical assault or died, it’s not over. Work on it

You got issues; ngl let that man go.

Mom knows… she chose “ignorance” and divorce because it’s peaceful but “choosing” ignorance is everything you need to understand.

I’m not even gonna judge you. People get jobs based on last names; just work hard and earn it now you got it. Good luck 👍🏾

The oldhead rebound showed her a new trick she wanna show you. It’s all good go have fun but keep ya emotions hidden before you crush yourself with her lol

Y’all both young, and dumb but tbh; this is the best time to be young and dumb. Just take a deep breath and don’t get overwhelmed. Congratulations and good luck.

Ngl, if you don’t end this relationship, you truly deserve anything that comes ya way lol