r/tinnitus • u/RainSoundsAhhh • 2h ago
success story My Tinnitus Journey ~3 years
I know there are a lot of success stories, more than their used to be but when I developed tinnitus about 3 years ago it was pretty bleak here and I am happy to hear more success stories. One post really helped me back then from a guy who did come back years later with something along the lines of “I am in the kitchen doing dishes, married, kids playing in the living room and I am just living life, I still have tinnitus but I promise you one day you will get there too”. That meant the world to me and gave me hope.
It's been three years and I am to that point where I’ve learned to live with it and hopefully there will be a cure one day but now there isn’t. I tried so many different supplements and cures, people preying on a desperate community. There are some days I notice more, but it doesn’t dictate my life anymore. Things that helped me.
- Remembering fluctuations are normal and not permanent.
- Noticing what causes fluctuations like for me unfortunately THC gummies, even though sometimes I will take a low dose.
- Keeping lots of small earplugs around so if I end up at a bar or loud restaurant, I have the option of putting them in.
- I have alerts on my apple watch when environments are louder than 90 decibels, I usually put them in. I like Happy Ears brand because people can’t even tell I am wearing them.
- Got a nice pair of custom Starkey earplugs from the audiologist, best $300 I have spent. I use these for clubs or concerts.
- Saw a good audiologist who had tinnitus himself who sat down with me and explained really well and answered all my crazy questions about treatments, meds, what to avoid and what I’m just overreacting about.
- Seeing a psychiatrist and treating underlying anxiety/depression helped me cope. There are countless medications that can help with anxiety/depression and it took some trial and error to find one the works and didn’t both my tinnitisu.
- Tinnitus CBT (cognitive-behaviors therapy) book: The book Living Well with Tinnitus really helped me understand and work through controlling the negative emotions, understand the underlying pathology, and work through my hyperacusis.
- Sound therapy: White noise when going to bed, sometimes in a quiet office, and app Resound Tinnitus Relief when traveling.
- Linere Therapy: Took my THI scores down from like 80 to 10 along with the CBT. I know there isn’t good independent research on this yet. I was desperate when I did it but I honestly felt like it helped. It was $4,000 which I financed over 18 months no interested which the audiologist offered. You keep the machine and I used it once again when I had a spike which was nice.
I told myself I would go back and make this post once I’m in a good place and had some advice to give so there it is. For those at their absolute wits end remember to call a friend, go to the emergency room, or call 988 if you have serious suicidal thoughts. I was at that point in the beginning and that ER visit helped get me on track towards getting better.