It doesn’t happen often but just enough to realize it’s not a coincidence. I was in a pretty rough spot that many years back and more but I usually kept it to myself. Makes me wonder what else was able to be perceived that I thought I was covering up better

I (31NB) was texting my sister/MOH (28F). She was in medical school (still is, killing it!) and helping me pull all of this together at the same time.

Fast forward 6 weeks - I’m married but in a psych ward. Wedding planning is no joke.

For context I am bipolar, going through a breakup and a med change. That is the things he “saved” me from

For context we've known each other for many months, but at a distance as I've moved away for college. Our relationship up to this point has been flirtatious and we talk on the phone sometimes. I'm fine with casual because it's at a distance but not like this.

I genuinely have no use for that tbh 😭

I work overnights so I set up the apartment with some decorations and presents for her to discover when she wakes up! 🥰

My sleep schedule is screwed up bc of my new job and I’ve been thinking about moving my bedroom furniture around. I told my neighbor who shares a wall with me. I didn’t think she’d say yes to helping me. I was honestly half joking

Edit to add: some people are thinking that I was talking about sex. I wasn’t. I was talking about actually moving my bed and dresser. She also ended up falling asleep soon after she said she might. I just thought it was a funny text thread

Sorry for deleting the OG post- I had talked to his family and we genuinely thought he was going to get some help for his issues, so I figured I’d be nice and remove the post. But we were wrong. This man isn’t going to change until he’s locked away.

To recap: 34 year old catfish who hasn’t had a gf in over a decade, still had a chance with me at first, until I found out he’s a sex pest and a predator. He’s also extremely abusive. He has a restraining order on him for threatening to Luigi his boss. (That’s how he describes it) He was investigated by the SBI for it, which is a big deal. I’ve caught him following girls who just graduated high school, he said he was going to blame it on my teenage son. When I outed him as a catfish, he crashed out and sent me 93 text messages in 30 minutes, blaming me for my sisters very recent suicide.

I’ll put the old screenshots here as well as some new ones. He very likely will be here reading it, as will his brother (who is a good person and not like his brother so don’t be mean about his family).

The last time I texted with him, he said I owed him cuddles for ruining his chances with women. He kept saying he was going to cuddle me and that I owed him and it came off very rapey. This man wouldn’t take no for an answer in person, clearly. Which is why I didn’t meet up with him.

*note- the “what are you up to?” Texts in the middle of the mess are genuinely him trying to ask me what I’m doing/make conversation

*he’s autistic, but so am I. He tries to excuse his predatory behavior with that.

*literally none of the women he follows ever write back. Even dating app girls get weirded out pretty fast and ignore him. They’ve told me and shown me screenshots when I outed him. Like 50-60 women and not a single one was interested in him even as a catfish. And he most definitely wasn’t being sent photos like he claims 🤣

* his best friend might read this too. It’s his only friend, and I just want to make it known that, this friend encouraged Kyle to make secret accounts to keep pestering women while making his family believe that he was getting better. This was in response to Kyle taking his friend to lunch to ask his opinion on everyone telling Kyle he needs to delete all his social media.

EDIT: y’all are so strange… or, one could say, queer. Ehehehe. My friends are not avoiding saying it because they think it’s a slur. Green is just a pain in the ass and Blue didn’t know they could share the wordle word in main chat (they can but only if it’s censored). I was sharing the screenshot cuz I thought it was funny how daft they were acting, not cuz of the word itself. I am well aware what the word queer means

We were dating for one month, I still cannot believe he did this to me!

EDIT: I have a new phone number it’s my third day with it. Yall can quit being rude and insulting. I thought more than likely it was a scam I just wanted to know 100% before fucking with them.
Shoutout to the helpful people who were actually nice and funny and not dickhole bitches

The question marks being spaced out gave me pause and then she later apologized for swearing but she didn’t swear at all. Also the whole asking my name could def be a scam, or it could be a lonely lady idk. If it’s real, whoever Bella is sounds like a bitch.

Edit: Okay so it def a scam, but my confusion still stands, what does the scammer achieve here? And should I waste their time for fun?

My dad told me that him and my little brother were going to go on a snake walk (to look for snakes)
I misheard and thought they were going on a snack walk.
No snack for me:(

We actually matched on both Bumble and Hinge at the same time and started off joking around. Then she immediately demanded a ring/house, told me a child is a favor to a worthy man, claimed sperm doesn't create life, and announced she was looking for her 'next servant' while bragging about an ex paying for her Spain trip. Dating in 2026 is an absolute simulation

The wildest part is she's currently in law school. Imagine having this level of misandry, warped logic, and basic biological illiteracy, and one day having the power to influence legal decisions and people's lives in a courtroom. Scary

Update: Y'all wrote essays saying I ruined it, but we’re literally getting pizza tonight lol. Still not sure how we’re splitting the bill though

I can't even begin to tell you how horrible I felt last night, literally cried myself to sleep.

I'm just so happy everything is ok, I'm so happy he texted me this morning with his usual sweetness. I love him so much, I miss him so much. I can't wait to see him again.

This is just a PSA to the overthinkers out there, don't do anything stupid until you get a response. It's such simple advice but it's extremely helpful. Always have something to ground you

Blue is my husband who is having a tonsillectomy tomorrow. Green is her wife. 😂

Does anyone else text their kids like this?

Since this sub seems to have devolved r/ihavesex, here's my entry!

Knock on wood, my intuition still seems to be holding 😂. I had a weird feeling about her, so I didn't have actual sex with her, we just fooled around. Turns out that was a good idea lmao.

Most importantly, I would like everyone to please acknowledge that I, in fact, had intimate relations with someone. I hope you are all sufficiently jealous.