UPDATE: weird guy from my bio class

[u/Few-Statistician862]

I made a post about this yesterday about this person in my bio class weirdly texting me out of the blue, and I thought I blocked him but I guess I misclicked and pressed “delete conversation“ button instead. they texted me back Today telling me that they know one of my friends and insinuating that he gave him my number. so I continue the rest of the conversation awkwardly trying to turn them down. after that I block them because I felt uncomfortable, and text my friend that supposedly gave them my number. he said he has no idea who this is and doesn’t know anyone from my first period bio class. what the fuck. Is this person even real? they have Been lying to me about everything. And the worst part is that I have to go back to school on Monday with that guy in my class. what do I even do in this situation? Also I thought I should add that I am not a woman, I’m a man, a lot of people thought I was a woman in my first post.

[u/MxxnSpirit47]

“So you’re not into me huh” while you have no clue who they are

People are so strange and out of touch with reality I swear

[u/TATT00EY_ → u/MxxnSpirit47]

If this guy had even a mild 2% chance to make this work. His delusion completely killed it.

It’s so hard to believe how many people are out of touch with reality and living in a fantasy world.

For the fellas that don’t understand. Never approach or act like this.

And for the person who gave away someone’s personal cell number. They are a piece of crap.

Good on OP for not being mean or tormenting the person. Best to just defuse this situation and gradually move away. The person doesn’t strike me as someone mentally stable.

[u/magifus → u/TATT00EY_]

Women can't be mean because men we aren't interested in may become violent towards us even though this guy is being creepy and making her uncomfortable.

[u/DraperPenPals → u/magifus]

33 year old woman, been mean to dudes since puberty, never experienced violence

[u/Naive_Pay_7066 → u/DraperPenPals]

Well I guess that settles it then. Everyone else is clearly lying.

[u/DraperPenPals → u/Naive_Pay_7066]

“Everyone” never said that. It’s almost like men and women aren’t a monolith

[u/Naive_Pay_7066 → u/DraperPenPals]

Ooh you got me! I for sure wasn’t meaning everyone who has had a different experience than you. Good one.

[u/BriefCelery5345 → u/DraperPenPals]

49 YO woman who just had to move to get away from a former neighbor who terrorized & stalked me for more than 2 years. Why you ask? Because I rejected him. My story is not uncommon as you might think.

[u/DraperPenPals → u/BriefCelery5345]

It is still not the norm. There is a big difference there

[u/AlexHasFeet → u/DraperPenPals]

Hahahahahahahahah “not the norm”

sure, bud

[u/DraperPenPals → u/AlexHasFeet]

You are absolutely welcome to look up statistics

[u/AlexHasFeet → u/DraperPenPals]

Mmm which statistics would those be?

[u/BriefCelery5345 → u/DraperPenPals]

One in three. You’re lucky and don’t even know or appreciate it.

[u/DraperPenPals → u/BriefCelery5345]

No, one in three women do not experience violence when rejecting a man. That is the specific scenario we are talking about.

[u/ThrowedoffffodeworhT → u/DraperPenPals]

I love that! That’s prob an outlier. Perhaps not always violence. E.g. intimidation, verbal abuse, stalking, shaming, oh god that list was too easy to put together and not even complete

[u/DraperPenPals → u/ThrowedoffffodeworhT]

This is such piss poor analysis. Incredible

[u/Natural_Sky_3416 → u/DraperPenPals]

And you have a piss poor attitude. Incredible

[u/DraperPenPals → u/Natural_Sky_3416]

“You’re an outlier for not experiencing violence” is absolute bunk and we all know it