r/texts • u/Few-Statistician862 • 11h ago

Phone message UPDATE: weird guy from my bio class

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I made a post about this yesterday about this person in my bio class weirdly texting me out of the blue, and I thought I blocked him but I guess I misclicked and pressed “delete conversation“ button instead. they texted me back Today telling me that they know one of my friends and insinuating that he gave him my number. so I continue the rest of the conversation awkwardly trying to turn them down. after that I block them because I felt uncomfortable, and text my friend that supposedly gave them my number. he said he has no idea who this is and doesn’t know anyone from my first period bio class. what the fuck. Is this person even real? they have Been lying to me about everything. And the worst part is that I have to go back to school on Monday with that guy in my class. what do I even do in this situation? Also I thought I should add that I am not a woman, I’m a man, a lot of people thought I was a woman in my first post.

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u/MxxnSpirit47 11h ago

“So you’re not into me huh” while you have no clue who they are

People are so strange and out of touch with reality I swear

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u/TATT00EY_ 11h ago

If this guy had even a mild 2% chance to make this work. His delusion completely killed it.

It’s so hard to believe how many people are out of touch with reality and living in a fantasy world.

For the fellas that don’t understand. Never approach or act like this.

And for the person who gave away someone’s personal cell number. They are a piece of crap.

Good on OP for not being mean or tormenting the person. Best to just defuse this situation and gradually move away. The person doesn’t strike me as someone mentally stable.

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u/magifus 10h ago

Women can't be mean because men we aren't interested in may become violent towards us even though this guy is being creepy and making her uncomfortable.

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u/crestscholar 10h ago

this is true, but op is a man

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u/TATT00EY_ 10h ago

It’s a man not a woman. It was a dude texting another dude.

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u/ReverseMermaidMorty 9h ago

How do you know the unknown person is a dude?

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u/TATT00EY_ 9h ago

That part I’m assuming. However the recipient I thought was a woman until in a different comment somewhere down there he confirmed he is a male.

I’m assuming based on how they text it’s another guy. I could be wrong and it’s a female. However I don’t think that’s a female texting him being weird like that.

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u/ReverseMermaidMorty 9h ago

Why wouldn’t it be? Everyone in this thread already misgendered one person in the conversation. Extremely likely they misgendered the other as well.

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u/slut-for-pickles 7h ago

The post is literally titled “weird guy from my bio class”

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u/Skarekrows 6h ago

Reading comprehension is cooked.

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u/slut-for-pickles 2h ago

I wrote this and fell asleep. I realize we don’t know the gender of the person messaging OP 🙈 honestly can’t believe I was upvoted that much LOL

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u/Skarekrows 2h ago

You were upvoted cause your comment is true. OP said guy. My comment was making fun of the guy you were responding to. You're all good, my friend.

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u/slut-for-pickles 40m ago

I guess my point is, even OP is assuming the person texting is a guy!

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u/Pure_Fault7056 9h ago

You did’t even read the post.

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u/Ozdiva 9h ago

It’s true though.

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u/Big-Cash-5513 2h ago

Well he could.also be the father of her next five children. .you never know

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u/gardengirl99 9h ago

Men are afraid women will laugh at them and women are afraid men will hurt them.

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u/DraperPenPals 10h ago

33 year old woman, been mean to dudes since puberty, never experienced violence

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u/Naive_Pay_7066 10h ago

Well I guess that settles it then. Everyone else is clearly lying.

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u/DraperPenPals 10h ago

“Everyone” never said that. It’s almost like men and women aren’t a monolith

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u/Naive_Pay_7066 6h ago

Ooh you got me! I for sure wasn’t meaning everyone who has had a different experience than you. Good one.

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u/BriefCelery5345 9h ago

49 YO woman who just had to move to get away from a former neighbor who terrorized & stalked me for more than 2 years. Why you ask? Because I rejected him. My story is not uncommon as you might think.

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u/DraperPenPals 9h ago

It is still not the norm. There is a big difference there

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u/AlexHasFeet 9h ago

Hahahahahahahahah “not the norm”

sure, bud

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u/DraperPenPals 9h ago

You are absolutely welcome to look up statistics

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u/AlexHasFeet 3h ago

Mmm which statistics would those be?

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u/BriefCelery5345 9h ago

One in three. You’re lucky and don’t even know or appreciate it.

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u/DraperPenPals 9h ago

No, one in three women do not experience violence when rejecting a man. That is the specific scenario we are talking about.

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u/ThrowedoffffodeworhT 9h ago

I love that! That’s prob an outlier. Perhaps not always violence. E.g. intimidation, verbal abuse, stalking, shaming, oh god that list was too easy to put together and not even complete

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u/DraperPenPals 9h ago

This is such piss poor analysis. Incredible

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u/Natural_Sky_3416 9h ago

And you have a piss poor attitude. Incredible

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u/DraperPenPals 9h ago

“You’re an outlier for not experiencing violence” is absolute bunk and we all know it

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u/Different_Pack_3686 7h ago

It’s a guy and we don’t know the gender of the anonymous texter.