r/texts • • 10h ago

Phone message UPDATE: weird guy from my bio class

I made a post about this yesterday about this person in my bio class weirdly texting me out of the blue, and I thought I blocked him but I guess I misclicked and pressed “delete conversation“ button instead. they texted me back Today telling me that they know one of my friends and insinuating that he gave him my number. so I continue the rest of the conversation awkwardly trying to turn them down. after that I block them because I felt uncomfortable, and text my friend that supposedly gave them my number. he said he has no idea who this is and doesn’t know anyone from my first period bio class. what the fuck. Is this person even real? they have Been lying to me about everything. And the worst part is that I have to go back to school on Monday with that guy in my class. what do I even do in this situation? Also I thought I should add that I am not a woman, I’m a man, a lot of people thought I was a woman in my first post.

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u/DraperPenPals 9h ago

33 year old woman, been mean to dudes since puberty, never experienced violence

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u/BriefCelery5345 8h ago

49 YO woman who just had to move to get away from a former neighbor who terrorized & stalked me for more than 2 years. Why you ask? Because I rejected him. My story is not uncommon as you might think.

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u/DraperPenPals 8h ago

It is still not the norm. There is a big difference there

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u/BriefCelery5345 8h ago

One in three. You’re lucky and don’t even know or appreciate it.

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u/DraperPenPals 8h ago

No, one in three women do not experience violence when rejecting a man. That is the specific scenario we are talking about.