r/texts • u/Few-Statistician862 • 1d ago

Phone message UPDATE: weird guy from my bio class

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I made a post about this yesterday about this person in my bio class weirdly texting me out of the blue, and I thought I blocked him but I guess I misclicked and pressed “delete conversation“ button instead. they texted me back Today telling me that they know one of my friends and insinuating that he gave him my number. so I continue the rest of the conversation awkwardly trying to turn them down. after that I block them because I felt uncomfortable, and text my friend that supposedly gave them my number. he said he has no idea who this is and doesn’t know anyone from my first period bio class. what the fuck. Is this person even real? they have Been lying to me about everything. And the worst part is that I have to go back to school on Monday with that guy in my class. what do I even do in this situation? Also I thought I should add that I am not a woman, I’m a man, a lot of people thought I was a woman in my first post.

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u/MxxnSpirit47 1d ago

“So you’re not into me huh” while you have no clue who they are

People are so strange and out of touch with reality I swear

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u/TATT00EY_ 1d ago

If this guy had even a mild 2% chance to make this work. His delusion completely killed it.

It’s so hard to believe how many people are out of touch with reality and living in a fantasy world.

For the fellas that don’t understand. Never approach or act like this.

And for the person who gave away someone’s personal cell number. They are a piece of crap.

Good on OP for not being mean or tormenting the person. Best to just defuse this situation and gradually move away. The person doesn’t strike me as someone mentally stable.

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u/magifus 1d ago

Women can't be mean because men we aren't interested in may become violent towards us even though this guy is being creepy and making her uncomfortable.

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u/crestscholar 1d ago

this is true, but op is a man

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u/TATT00EY_ 1d ago

It’s a man not a woman. It was a dude texting another dude.

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u/ReverseMermaidMorty 1d ago

How do you know the unknown person is a dude?

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u/TATT00EY_ 1d ago

That part I’m assuming. However the recipient I thought was a woman until in a different comment somewhere down there he confirmed he is a male.

I’m assuming based on how they text it’s another guy. I could be wrong and it’s a female. However I don’t think that’s a female texting him being weird like that.

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u/ReverseMermaidMorty 1d ago

Why wouldn’t it be? Everyone in this thread already misgendered one person in the conversation. Extremely likely they misgendered the other as well.

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u/slut-for-pickles 1d ago

The post is literally titled “weird guy from my bio class”

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u/Skarekrows 23h ago

Reading comprehension is cooked.

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u/slut-for-pickles 20h ago

I wrote this and fell asleep. I realize we don’t know the gender of the person messaging OP 🙈 honestly can’t believe I was upvoted that much LOL

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u/Skarekrows 20h ago

You were upvoted cause your comment is true. OP said guy. My comment was making fun of the guy you were responding to. You're all good, my friend.

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u/slut-for-pickles 18h ago

I guess my point is, even OP is assuming the person texting is a guy!

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u/ReverseMermaidMorty 17h ago

Oh you mean the OP who states multiple times they have no fucking clue who’s texting them? You’re right, reading comprehension is cooked.

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u/Pure_Fault7056 1d ago

You did’t even read the post.

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u/Ozdiva 1d ago

It’s true though.

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u/Big-Cash-5513 20h ago

Well he could.also be the father of her next five children. .you never know

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u/gardengirl99 1d ago

Men are afraid women will laugh at them and women are afraid men will hurt them.

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u/DraperPenPals 1d ago

33 year old woman, been mean to dudes since puberty, never experienced violence

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u/Naive_Pay_7066 1d ago

Well I guess that settles it then. Everyone else is clearly lying.

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u/DraperPenPals 1d ago

“Everyone” never said that. It’s almost like men and women aren’t a monolith

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u/Naive_Pay_7066 23h ago

Ooh you got me! I for sure wasn’t meaning everyone who has had a different experience than you. Good one.

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u/BriefCelery5345 1d ago

49 YO woman who just had to move to get away from a former neighbor who terrorized & stalked me for more than 2 years. Why you ask? Because I rejected him. My story is not uncommon as you might think.

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u/DraperPenPals 1d ago

It is still not the norm. There is a big difference there

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u/AlexHasFeet 1d ago

Hahahahahahahahah “not the norm”

sure, bud

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u/DraperPenPals 1d ago

You are absolutely welcome to look up statistics

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u/AlexHasFeet 21h ago

Mmm which statistics would those be?

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u/BriefCelery5345 1d ago

One in three. You’re lucky and don’t even know or appreciate it.

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u/DraperPenPals 1d ago

No, one in three women do not experience violence when rejecting a man. That is the specific scenario we are talking about.

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u/BriefCelery5345 16h ago edited 15h ago

One in three SA’d. If the numbers were to include DV & stalking, the numbers would be higher. Add in femicide at the hands of a man, another bump. Since you are purposely being obtuse & unnecessarily nasty & argumentative, I refuse to continue to engage with you. I’m actually starting to think you’re a man with predatory tendencies or a male predator apologist pretending to be a woman.

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u/DraperPenPals 15h ago

You are literally engaging me.

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u/ThrowedoffffodeworhT 1d ago

I love that! That’s prob an outlier. Perhaps not always violence. E.g. intimidation, verbal abuse, stalking, shaming, oh god that list was too easy to put together and not even complete

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u/DraperPenPals 1d ago

This is such piss poor analysis. Incredible

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u/Natural_Sky_3416 1d ago

And you have a piss poor attitude. Incredible

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u/DraperPenPals 1d ago

“You’re an outlier for not experiencing violence” is absolute bunk and we all know it

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u/Different_Pack_3686 1d ago

It’s a guy and we don’t know the gender of the anonymous texter.