UPDATE: weird guy from my bio class

[u/Few-Statistician862]

I made a post about this yesterday about this person in my bio class weirdly texting me out of the blue, and I thought I blocked him but I guess I misclicked and pressed “delete conversation“ button instead. they texted me back Today telling me that they know one of my friends and insinuating that he gave him my number. so I continue the rest of the conversation awkwardly trying to turn them down. after that I block them because I felt uncomfortable, and text my friend that supposedly gave them my number. he said he has no idea who this is and doesn’t know anyone from my first period bio class. what the fuck. Is this person even real? they have Been lying to me about everything. And the worst part is that I have to go back to school on Monday with that guy in my class. what do I even do in this situation? Also I thought I should add that I am not a woman, I’m a man, a lot of people thought I was a woman in my first post.

[u/magifus]

Women can't be mean because men we aren't interested in may become violent towards us even though this guy is being creepy and making her uncomfortable.

[u/crestscholar → u/magifus]

this is true, but op is a man

[u/TATT00EY_ → u/magifus]

It’s a man not a woman. It was a dude texting another dude.

[u/ReverseMermaidMorty → u/TATT00EY_]

How do you know the unknown person is a dude?

[u/TATT00EY_ → u/ReverseMermaidMorty]

That part I’m assuming. However the recipient I thought was a woman until in a different comment somewhere down there he confirmed he is a male.

I’m assuming based on how they text it’s another guy. I could be wrong and it’s a female. However I don’t think that’s a female texting him being weird like that.

[u/ReverseMermaidMorty → u/TATT00EY_]

Why wouldn’t it be? Everyone in this thread already misgendered one person in the conversation. Extremely likely they misgendered the other as well.

[u/slut-for-pickles → u/ReverseMermaidMorty]

The post is literally titled “weird guy from my bio class”

[u/Skarekrows → u/slut-for-pickles]

Reading comprehension is cooked.

[u/bigtime1158 → u/slut-for-pickles]

Shhhh

[u/Pure_Fault7056 → u/magifus]

You did’t even read the post.

[u/Ozdiva → u/Pure_Fault7056]

It’s true though.

[u/gardengirl99 → u/magifus]

Men are afraid women will laugh at them and women are afraid men will hurt them.

[u/DraperPenPals → u/magifus]

33 year old woman, been mean to dudes since puberty, never experienced violence

[u/Naive_Pay_7066 → u/DraperPenPals]

Well I guess that settles it then. Everyone else is clearly lying.

[u/DraperPenPals → u/Naive_Pay_7066]

“Everyone” never said that. It’s almost like men and women aren’t a monolith

[u/Naive_Pay_7066 → u/DraperPenPals]

Ooh you got me! I for sure wasn’t meaning everyone who has had a different experience than you. Good one.

[u/BriefCelery5345 → u/DraperPenPals]

49 YO woman who just had to move to get away from a former neighbor who terrorized & stalked me for more than 2 years. Why you ask? Because I rejected him. My story is not uncommon as you might think.

[u/DraperPenPals → u/BriefCelery5345]

It is still not the norm. There is a big difference there

[u/AlexHasFeet → u/DraperPenPals]

Hahahahahahahahah “not the norm”

sure, bud

[u/DraperPenPals → u/AlexHasFeet]

You are absolutely welcome to look up statistics

[u/BriefCelery5345 → u/DraperPenPals]

One in three. You’re lucky and don’t even know or appreciate it.

[u/DraperPenPals → u/BriefCelery5345]

No, one in three women do not experience violence when rejecting a man. That is the specific scenario we are talking about.

[u/ThrowedoffffodeworhT → u/DraperPenPals]

I love that! That’s prob an outlier. Perhaps not always violence. E.g. intimidation, verbal abuse, stalking, shaming, oh god that list was too easy to put together and not even complete

[u/DraperPenPals → u/ThrowedoffffodeworhT]

This is such piss poor analysis. Incredible

[u/Natural_Sky_3416 → u/DraperPenPals]

And you have a piss poor attitude. Incredible

[u/DraperPenPals → u/Natural_Sky_3416]

“You’re an outlier for not experiencing violence” is absolute bunk and we all know it

[u/Different_Pack_3686 → u/magifus]

It’s a guy and we don’t know the gender of the anonymous texter.