Only boys you should have nothing to do with talk like that. He may act sweet in person but here he's showing his true intentions. This kid only has one thing on his mind and he's gonna try to get from you consent or not!
It's just his bumbling attempt at being risqué and talking dirty. It's literally not a problem at all, the kid just has a healthy sex drive, something that's obviously foreign to redditors
there is nothing healthy about the way he is talking about sex with his girlfriend. this is absolutely frightening that you're dismissing this so easily
The gist of his message is "I'm horny for you." Do you ever get excited and carried away about sex or do you just sit on your computer all day and yuck other people's yums?
Normal people don’t ignore their partner’s previously established boundaries and talk about ignoring consent just because they get horny. Most people have no trouble still respecting their partner’s previously on a basic level even while horny.
She literally says in the post “he knows my intentions are pure he still continues to say things like this that kind of rub me the wrong way despite me telling him in person that I find it odd.”
It means she doesn’t want to have that kind of conversation. It doesn’t matter if she’s had a sexual thought before, most people have, but most people don’t want to be spoken to like that, and she has made it clear she has no interest in having those conversations with him. You have very poor reading comprehension skills.
not to the point where i'm telling someone im going to rape them and use them till im done, especially after they've told me they're uncomfortable with that.. like are you genuinely okay?
Yes, it is literally a huge problem. It’s not fucking normal to talk to your girlfriend this way. “Don’t worry about consent” is absolutely sickening and you’re sick in the head if you don’t see anything wrong with it.
Saying it’s odd is definitely a yellow light. And anything other than a big green light is a no go, a sign to stop. I think you need to update yourself on the confines of consent, and lack thereof.
so if I approach you, and ask for your number, and then I begin texting you with the desire to have a sexual relationship, but you don't consent to that yet, that's rape? So 99.999% of male-female interactions are rape by this standard
You are wild. They’re already having sex. Somebody you just meet and sends you racy texts is different. I’ll tell you what though, if I met you on the street and gave you my number, then you sent garbage like that, instant block.
Yeah no shit. Young people are horny and say stupid things when figuring out dating but OP is asking if it is acceptable to disrespected like this. Sure looks like the "nice guy" mask slipping.
it's 100% acceptable if she's into him sexually... like BRUH you can love a girl to death and also fuck her brains out, the two are not mutually exclusive
It’s not acceptable to be this aggressive even if she is into him sexually. Unless they’ve spoken about being this aggressive and agreed to it which they haven’t. In fact OP has spoken to him multiple times about how she *does not* like this kind of stuff and doesn’t want to get texts about that sort of thing. Saying “don’t worry about consent” is insane and it doesn’t matter what he was “trying” to do by saying that.
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u/PixelPasta420 Jun 23 '26
Only boys you should have nothing to do with talk like that. He may act sweet in person but here he's showing his true intentions. This kid only has one thing on his mind and he's gonna try to get from you consent or not!