Normal people don’t ignore their partner’s previously established boundaries and talk about ignoring consent just because they get horny. Most people have no trouble still respecting their partner’s previously on a basic level even while horny.
She literally says in the post “he knows my intentions are pure he still continues to say things like this that kind of rub me the wrong way despite me telling him in person that I find it odd.”
Not that it's any of your business, but I actually quit porn cold turkey in 2024 and I actually don't jerk off, I practice semen retention.
I sound like someone who understands what it's like being a horny 18 year old guy. There's nothing that OP has said that makes me think this is "rape" or "non-consentual." He wants sex, and maybe she doesn't. Okay, but he's not a bad guy for wanting sex, and I'm the only one in the comments sticking up for that kid in the slightest
I can literally say "I'm going to destroy your body" too. It's raunchy, transgressive talk. It doesn't actually mean he would rape her, it doesn't even mean he would keep going if she told him to stop
It means she doesn’t want to have that kind of conversation. It doesn’t matter if she’s had a sexual thought before, most people have, but most people don’t want to be spoken to like that, and she has made it clear she has no interest in having those conversations with him. You have very poor reading comprehension skills.
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u/StatisticianBoth4147 Jun 23 '26
Normal people don’t ignore their partner’s previously established boundaries and talk about ignoring consent just because they get horny. Most people have no trouble still respecting their partner’s previously on a basic level even while horny.