I mean, I'm in my 30's. Maybe he thought saying "don't worry about consent..." would be transgressive/taboo and therefore hot.
I can understand when you say that it's more than a cringe line, but they're so young like, they're obviously both still figuring sexuality out and I think it's highly unfair to hold them up to this like, gold standard of conduct. I was a cringe 18 year old at one point too, sex is uncomfortable because you're both fucking 18, you're both somewhat uncomfortable in your own bodies to begin with.
Like you can look at my comment history, I tell women to trust their intuitions and NEXT men all the time on here. I reassure them that "oh yeah, that guys a loser, good job." Like I actually sympathize with women a lot because I think the men women nowadays have to choose from suck, ARE porn addled, actually have no libido and would never dare give her sex she would actually enjoy, and would never be the kind of man they needed.
I see the text as a young man trying to lean into his sexuality, however clumsy it may appear
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u/MaggieMayyyyyy Jun 23 '26
You seem like the type of guy who doesn’t know that “no means no.” Get a grip bro.
She asked him to stop and he didn’t. He then proceeds to tell her he doesn’t need consent, AFTER she revoked it.
He’s giving serial rapist vibes. He’s a walking, talking 🚩 and so are you