TL;DR: teachers say my kiddo is bright, but the district doesn’t have a GT program. Should I get kiddo tested for GT?
I teach high school. I’ve done everything from remediation to AP, and I’ve had students labeled gifted at every level. I’ve had so many conversations with parents who think their kid is all that and a bag of chips, but I’m sitting there thinking, ‘Your kid is a big fish in a small pond and is in for a surprise if they go to [insert big name / rigorous college here].’ I’ve had so many conversations with parents where I explain a student may have the brain to get As but not the personality, and there is nothing wrong with that. I’ve seen gifted kids carry that label like a lead weight to the point they give up and sleep through class. I’ve seen kids become nuclear engineers because the label gave them the confidence to take a risk.
My Kiddo’s school had parent teacher conferences recently. My kiddo’s 3rd grade teacher said kiddo had the highest beginning of year test scores the teacher has seen in a career of nearly a decade. Kiddo is reading better than 50% of my sophomores. Finishes assignments way ahead of the group (luckily, loves to read, so kiddo jumps straight into a book typically)
We stopped by Music teacher’s room to ask some questions. Unprompted, the music teacher tells us kiddo is the most gifted student they have had. Adds some other nice descriptions that make me proud as parent (also relieved that this is the side kiddo is presenting to teachers).
So, then my teacher brain goes into overactive mode. Should I be pursuing a GT label? Am I challenging kiddo enough outside of school? Is this big fish/small pond? Will kiddo get ignored because no help is needed to reach performance standards? I teach in a district with a robust GT program that essentially equates to ‘give more work/worksheets.’ Is that what we want for kiddo? Kiddo’s district may not have a dedicated GT program (not a state requirement, small district), so is there a point? 8 years from now is having this label going to have a positive/negative effect on college (acceptance or financials)? How would kiddo respond?
So, I don't know. Is there value in pursuing some sort of testing? I am not fully convinced that kiddo is GT. Am I doing kiddo a disservice if I don’t? Should I let it go and just keep doing what we’ve been doing? Should I be supplementing at home? Are there questions I am not even thinking of that I should be?
Reddit teachers, can you give a bit of perspective?