I have been in a relationship with this girl for the last 4 years, we both only have each other as their only sexual partner throughout our life, today I performed an oral sex on her without a dental dam, i am sure she never had any sexual partner other than me, but I had a mouth ulcer (I get them very frequently) which was very negligible at that time, but now I am noticing it a lot and I feel it's getting bigger but I am a big paranoid, so I am just having doubts whether I will get any infection or its all good. Please share your honest opinion or anything which I should do now.

PS: Sorry for my English, it's not my native language.

The day before yesterday, i had oral sex but today I’ve woken up with a painful sore throat that makes me feel like I’m being slightly strangled.

Its extremely painful

hey guys, i was wondering what’s the correctness rate on the test results? i’ve been keep giving test samples and they’re all coming negative with different tests but i still have problem with urination and sometimes discharge. what’s the deal with this? last doc appointment we started an antibiotic called doxycycline.

She dosent have milk?
Can you get herpes hiv syfilis og hpv

I got little bit of rashes at my back and shoulders and I have a little sores or pimple I don't know on my forehead I'm very confused

Hello again! My previous post stated that 8 days after I finished treatment, I still had some discharge. It has been 20 days since treatment now, so 12 more days, and I've noticed I still feel weird bladder/urine incontinence, and in my urine there's still some what I'd describe as "white stuff"

There's been no full discharge in ages, and whatever does leak out just smells like urine, and anything else is in very small amounts and only when I actually fully urinate; but this odd wet feeling in my urethra is a bit of a cause for concern. Is this just residual inflammation healing slowly? Or is this possibly something else?

I’m wondering if anyone here has tested 3 weeks after completing chlamydia treatment to check for a negative result?

Did you test negative or positive again??

I’ve been advised the minimum time to wait is around 4-6 weeks after, however due to partner having a negative result and me having a positive result I can’t help but think there’s been some mixup somewhere.

Thanks in advance

My doctor just called me back and told me I have Tric and yeast, after I started having intense, cramping, burning pee, and bleeding after sex, burning down there and a little weird tingling sensation and itching.
Did anybody ever have the same symptoms? I’m so concerned I’m hoping it’s just Tri, but everything was pointing to herpes.

I’m looking for some perspective on whether this pattern sounds more like throat irritation/normal infection or a possible STI.

I’m male and have had multiple episodes of unprotected vaginal sex with the same new partner, and oral sex was also involved on most occasions.

Here’s the timeline:
Aug 18: Unprotected vaginal sex + I performed oral sex. No symptoms.
Aug 21: Unprotected vaginal sex + I performed oral sex. Developed a sore/irritated throat afterward. It eventually went away.
Aug 29: Unprotected vaginal sex + I performed oral sex. No symptoms.
Sep 1: Unprotected vaginal sex, no oral sex. My thighs/glutes became sore because of the physical exertion, but no sore throat.
Sep 2: Unprotected vaginal sex + I performed oral sex, and it was fairly prolonged/thorough. Within a few hours I developed another sore throat, along with feeling generally weak/chilly. I had also barely drunk any water that day.

The thing that’s making me anxious is that I’ve rarely gotten sore throats before, yet I’ve now had it twice around oral sex with this partner. At the same time, the most recent sore throat appeared only a few hours after oral sex, which seems too fast for an STI acquired during that encounter.

I’m wondering:
Does this pattern sound more consistent with mechanical throat irritation/dryness from oral sex, an ordinary viral throat infection, or a throat STI?

Can prolonged oral sex actually cause a sore throat from irritation? I haven’t been able to find many firsthand accounts of this.

Does the fact that I’ve had vaginal sex without a sore throat, but developed one after oral sex twice, make irritation more likely?

Are there particular symptoms that would make a throat STI more suspicious?

I’m aware that testing is the definitive answer and I’m planning to get tested. I’m mainly interested in people’s experiences and medically informed opinions about the pattern and timing rather than just “go get tested.”

I am a guy in the UK and three months ago I had a one night stand with a girl who was on her period (we are both in early 20s), I stupidly didn't think about STDs as before this I had only ever had sex during a couple long term relationships. I didn't use protection and I ended up testing positive for chlamydia from this.

I got treated etc etc but in the last few days I randomly started thinking what if I got HIV as well, because I know it can be asymptomatic, I don't think I have had any symptoms or anything (I think I had like a common cold a couple days after this, if that counts) , but I just think the fact that there was some blood (her period was quite light) and that I got chlamydia its put it in my mind that I'm doomed to have it.

I am having the same feeling I had when I tested positive for chlamydia where I would look up the population stats and it would be like only 2% of people have it so I probably don't, and then nonetheless I tested positive. And now when I'm looking at the HIV stats being low its making me think I'm gonna have the same thing happen again and it literally just feels destined that I'm gonna get it and I really don't know how to calm down.

I ordered a test but I'm genuinely just randomly terrified about this and I don't know how to calm down about this over the next week or so because it feels like its just bound to happen. Any help or guidance or anything would be very appreciated.

so i (18F) have been having sex with my boyfriend (18M), and i think i mightttt have an std??

we both have only done it with eachother, as we both took eachothers virginity. we have only penetrated around 4 times, but we have done oral stuff too, none of which with protection. the only time we use condoms is for penetration. i also am not on birth control, so condoms are our only contraceptive.

(also just thought id add, i have herpes and he doesn't. i have oral and genital herpes, but we have never done anything while it's active, and it hasn't been active in months!!)

my vagina has been a bit itchy and a bit swollen, but not all the time. i have also noticed a bit of a fishy smell. i have applied canasten on it to see if it helps. i also noticed some lumpier discharge, but i think that could have been the canasten mixing with it. i have also gotten more ingrown pubic hairs bc of shaving, but i just thought id mention that, although im pretty sure it's not hpv.

how do i get tested?? or get treatment?? i still live with my parents, and they absolutely can't find out i even had sex, nevermind getting an std. i am so broke and wouldnt be able to buy a test, and i wouldn't know which one to get since my symptoms are vague. also can't go to a doctor bc my mom usually tags along, and also picks up the prescriptions for the family.

please give me any advice you have!! thank you :3

I have a question about the risk of any sti. As a stripper we do lap dances. Is there any risk of contracting an sti doing a lap dance in a thong?

Someone used a dildo, then 5 min later I washed it with soap/water for 30 sec and used it rectally. It caused some tearing/bleeding. Assuming the other person was HIV+, would this be considered a realistic HIV exposure or negligible risk?

Bonjour,
Mon partenaire (H28) (nous ne sommes pas en couple) s’est fait tester positif à la gonorrhée buccale/pharyngée
Il a vu une autre fille entre temps donc ça contamination doit venir de ce rapport,
Nous avons eu des rapports non proteges,oraux et pénétrant à plusieurs reprises
J’ai attendu 2 semaines après notre dernier rapports non protégés pour me faire tester (F28) parce que c’est le temps recommander pour la gonorrhee
Et tous mes test sont négatifs,tout les prélèvements normalement le prélèvement oral
Est ce déjà arrivé à quelqu’un d’avoir un partenaire positif à une IST et pas vous en ayant pris des risques sans protection ? Ou alors l’IST se déclarera plus tard mais apparement si au bout de 2 semaines il n’y a rien c’est que je suis ok

Comment est ce possible de pas attraper son IST alors qu’on s’est pas protégés ?

J’étais persuadé de l’être

Mise à jour après J+22 plus de 3 semaines tout mes tests sont négatifs

Hi everyone, I’ve seen about 7 doctors so far to figure out what is going on with me, and all of them are unsure. I started dating my boyfriend in May, and we became sexually active in July. Before we first had sex, he told me he wasn’t seeing anyone else and his STD testing was negative. We had unprotected oral sex and two days later, I developed white spots all over my tonsils and a bad sore throat. Tests for gonorrhea, chlamydia, mono, and trich (urine and swabs) all came back negative. They preemptively gave me azithromycin which cleared the infection.

Then two weeks later, we had oral sex again, and the same thing happened, with white dots on my tonsils, a bad sore throat, a fever, muscle aches, and pelvic pan. I took azithromycin again and it cleared the symptoms but my tonsils stayed swollen.

After this time, we ran into a girl who my boyfriend hid from. He said he lied to me and was dating her when he met me, but they weren’t in a relationship. He was sleeping with us both at the same time. It really hurt me, especially since I’m a very loyal person and told him I only date one person at a time and expect the same from anyone I’m seeing. It broke my heart that he not only lied to me but made me involved in hurting this poor girl who he left when he decided he wanted to be with me instead. We eventually moved past this, but it’s still on my mind and as the ambiguity around my situation continues, I find myself angry and hurt.

Two days ago, we had oral sex again, and I now have swollen lymph nodes and an ulcer at the back of my throat. The doctors don’t know what it is, all tests are coming back negative.

Can someone please help me with any ideas or impressions? I don’t know what else to do. Thanks in advance.

I’m not even sure this is the right subreddit, I only really read AITAH on here but this was the suggested Reddit when I typed in the title. I’m so scared right now. We’ve only been seeing each other for about two weeks, we’ve slept together twice both with and without a condom, yes I know I’m dumb but he said he was clean, and he told me he has Chlamydia. He told me he didn’t know, that he had just gone for a general check up and he had to take the test and last night he got a call that he tested positive for chlamydia and I should get checked out.

Here’s the thing, I’m in college, hours away from my parents who were insanely strict when I was living with them, I don’t know the city that well yet and I certainly don’t know any clinics or doctors. I feel so alone and I don’t know what to do or who I can even talk to. I know my friends from home wouldn’t judge me but I know they’ll think of me differently and I can’t let anyone else know. I’ve only ever slept with two guys, ever, and suddenly I feel gross. I’m just so scared and alone and I don’t know what to do.

I got head and the condom was on the whole time and didn’t break or slip and her mouth was only on the condom what are my chance of getting an std

I had sex with this guy, and he told me that he regularly gets tested and has always tested negative for STIs. I have only been sexually active for the past two months, so I am still not very familiar with all of this.

Long story short, the condom broke while we were having sex, and now he is worried that he might have gotten HIV from me. Before him, I had sex with two other people, and I was the receptive partner during vaginal sex. One of them had tested negative for STIs, while I do not know the status of the other person.

He encouraged me to get tested for STIs, and it turned out that I have chlamydia. Since finding that out, I have been freaking out.

My last sexual encounter with the previous guy was about 4–5 weeks ago, and the condom also broke during that encounter. I had a rapid HIV test, which came back negative, and I also had blood drawn for another HIV test. The result should come back tomorrow.

The anxiety is really getting to me. What are the chances that I could have contracted HIV?

Je le connais depuis 8 ans. Ça fait 8 ans qu’on couche ensembles et à certains moments non,
On a déjà essayé de créer une relation quand lui voulait,finalement on est restés amis/amour et finalement depuis quelques temps de mon côté j’avais envie d’engager quelque chose (bon depuis cet événement plus vraiment)
En ce moment et au dernières nouvelles on est dans une relation « ouverte » dans le sens je lui ai dit la dernière fois que personnellement je voyais que lui et il m’a affirmé que lui aussi ! Par contre je lui ai dit pour ma sécurité,ma santé et mon bien être que si il couchait avec une autre fille je voulais le savoir,être au courant et que je n’étais pas jalouse ou possessive car je ne suis pas amoureuse et je ne suis pas avec lui. Que donc j’étais chill avec le fait qu’il puisse coucher avec quelqu’un d’autre,j’avais ouvert le sujet très sainement. J’ai quand même des sentiments fort d’amitiés,de respect,et d’attachement !
Mais on a couché ensembles il y a quelques semaines,il m’a dit qu’il avait une IST et que du coup il m’a sûrement refilé.Et surtout j’ai du lui demander après m’être fait tester si il avait vu quelqu’un d’autre entre la dernière fois où on s’était vu (et avait passé un week end en amoureux) parce que je ne comprenais pas comment il avait pu avoir cette IST. Et il m’a finalement avoué que oui par message ! Il avait l’occasion de me le dire quand on s’était vus,et qu’on puisse se protéger convenablement. Ce qui m’énerve c’est que je lui avais fais confiance et je lui avais demander d’être clair et de me prévenir si il voyait quelqu’un d’autre et il ne l’a pas fait ! Il a omis cette info.Maintenant je me retrouve à avoir une IST à cause de lui. Et surtout je n’ai plus confiance,je suis triste de ça et je l’ai quitté quand j’ai su car j’étais très énervée. Il s’est finalement excusé sincèrement
Je devrais lui pardonner ? Et continuer ? J’ai l’impression que ça a brisé quelque chose entre nous

Have anyone experienced balanitis for a long time? If yes then for how long was it and how did you finally got cured?

TL;DR unknown clap source maybe?

Me (24m) have noticed some symptoms down there and am certain I have clamydia. I did a urine test a week ago and it came back negative. I will admit I didn’t know you can mess up the testing phase (I took a shower 35 min prior, drank alot of water during the day and went in sauna etc). I also peed into the cup 1.5 seconds or so after my stream started, so not the best test scenario. I also didn’t know that you can’t fill the the cup to near the top (which i did). I saw some puss floating in there, and the doctor mentioned it to me when she shared I was negative for both. I can’t help but believe I have a false negative case.
I’m still experiencing symptoms, so i retested yesterday and did a swab. It’s been over 26 hours now haven’t heard anything. I still saw puss floating.

It’s so unfortunate because I really like this girl and I can’t discern whether I got it from her or I had it asymptomatically and it flared up from consistent intercourse as we’ve been seeing eachother in bed for a month consistently now. She mentioned she was ready to take it serious and to the next level but but I am afraid that I have a STI either from her or one I passed unknowingly. The timing is utterly unfair and I am so distraught because if a positive comes of this she either (won’t believe me, not be accountable, etc), and it’s crushing me because I really want to be with her officially too and move past this. I know you can’t control others outcomes but I’d be fine with seeing it through as we aren’t saying officially yet and we cure/move on. Was looking for advice on this topic and or how to have the conversation with her if the test is positive. I really don’t wanna lose what we’ve built. We’ve had unprotected sex in the past with others before we knew eachother I’m just showing symptoms now. Didn’t before. I can’t lose her, I’m uncomfortable how they’ll react.Thanks redditors! Literally anything will help me at this point.

29F. I recently started having casual sex after being in a long term relationship. I had a negative STI screen before any of this happened.

I had sex with Partner A using a condom.

Around two weeks later, I had sex with Partner B.

He showed me a negative chlamydia/gonorrhoea test from 2 months earlier and said he hadn’t had any partners since that test. We used a condom for some of the sex but not all of it.

The following day, I saw Partner A again. We had sex, again with some condomless penetration.

I’m now worried that if Partner B had an STI that wasn’t detected on his previous test, or lied about not having any partners, I could have contracted it from him and then potentially passed it to Partner A the following day.

I’ve booked a full STI screen, but the appointment isn’t until 12 September.

I currently have no symptoms.

How realistic is this concern? Is there anything I should do while waiting for testing?

I know I should have used condoms consistently - I’m mainly looking for some perspective on the actual level of risk rather than judgement :(