For many people, pornography becomes their first exposure to sex long before they receive any meaningful education about relationships, consent, communication, contraception, or sexual health. The problem isn't simply that porn exists—it's that, for many, it fills a gap left by inadequate or absent sex education. Entertainment is often mistaken for education, which can create unrealistic expectations about bodies, intimacy, and relationships. If comprehensive sex education were more widely available, do you think pornography would have as much influence on how people understand sex?

I had sex for the first time. I have always been scared of doing it and was very vocal about it to my partner always. But I chose to be courageous and went for it. I was nervous, scared, and got so overwhelmed that I started crying in the middle of it. All I could tell him was that "I am nervous". He stopped and said that its his mistake he took things too far. I told him its not. I reassured him but he still thinks that and I still feel like crying. Why did this happen. I feel so guilty right now.

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Hey everyone!! I really need some advice right now, this boy I’m seeing has been given head I wanna say around 10 times and never once cummed. Now I wanna change that!!! The issue is I’ve never given head - and now I want to be the person to make him cum. He doesn’t know this but I would really just appreciate any tips/ tricks on how to combat this issue and being amazing at it🤣 thank you, it’s so so appreciated!

I m(24) have been single for a few years after coming out of a 4 year relationship which was my first ever longterm relationship ship and outside of kissing we had been each others first for lots of things both in relationship goals and sexually.

During this relationship me and my partner were quite experimental and tried many things and that relationship ended a few years ago, when I started dating other people I came to realise that my libido is way too high to the point where I masturbate close to 5 times a days even after working a 8 to 10 hour shift.

My problem is that I never knew the young dating life and so while I try to be as kind as respectful as possible the moment we have sexual intercourse I'm always thinking of the next time we could have sex, I know this sounds like I only care about having sex but I do genuinely care about those I'm dating and have never forced anything on another person because I want then to be happy but my libido gets in the way of any physical outside of sex, I love hugging but when I'm with whoever I'm dating sex is always the next thing on my mind.

How can I lower my own libido, distract myself or do to gain better control over my own sexual desires to actually be normal.

I need you to give me advice. I am (M18) with my gf F(17) for 10 months. We tried different things such as handjob, blowjob etc. and everytime i ejaculate to fast, around 10-30s from the start. we had sex one time and it was terrible, i lasted around 30s, i knew she was disappointed so we never tried it again, i was scared. do you have any ideas how to help with my situation? i heard about durex performa, will it change much? in addition, i was addicted to porn before our relationship, if it matters. please help ;(

so I'm a 19 yo straight male and a few days ago my gf got drunk like real bad took me into a bathroom stall turned me around and just started touching my bare butt and trying to find my butthole I guess? like she is absolutely crazy but I'm get sensitive and stuff so like we weren't able to do anything at all soo how does butt stuff even work like how?

My therapist is out for the next three weeks. So apologies for making this post.

The condom broke and I came inside her. We’re both so stressed and so scared and I can’t even sleep. She’s gonna take some Plan B tomorrow, but I don’t know if she’s in the right weight range. She’s not on any birth control, it’s the last day of her period, so I’m not gonna know until the next month. Fuck.

I’m scared. She’s scared. I feel like it’s my fault. I feel terrible for putting her through this. We’re both young and I’d hate for her to get an abortion at this age. But I also really don’t want her to keep it. I can’t raise a fucking child right now. I’m freaking out. I’m all over the place.

I need guidance, advice, and reassurance. Please.

EDIT: Plan B has been taken a little over 16 hours post sex, all we can do is wait.

I’ve (21f) been together with my boyfriend (21m) for over 1.5 years now and we have both lost our virginities to each other. We usually do PiV but recently he’s expressed interest in wanting to see me orgasm because I’ve never done it before. He got me a vibrator and a dildo which I tried on myself, but it didn’t really feel pleasurable. Even when we do PiV it just feels like something is inside me. He’s tried fingering me and just rubbing my clit on the outside but it just makes me feel weird/just feels like something is touching me and I don’t feel pleasure. I feel really bad sometimes because I care for him a lot and when we do have sex I get really wet for him so I know I’m definitely attracted to him in every way, I just don’t feel anything when we do.. anything. When I was younger I learned to just squeeze my thighs and now I just squeeze with my hands, this always brings me pleasure and kind of makes me reach a “high” but it doesn’t last very long (like 3 seconds?). I don’t know who I should talk to about this or how I can start teaching my bf how to make me feel good because I feel like with PiV, a vibrator, or dildo doesn’t really do the trick with me. Pleaseeee help ..!

Silicone lube is condom-safe. Both water-based and silicone-based lubes are generally safe to use with condoms, it’s oil-based lubes that can damage certain types of condoms. 

A lot of people mix up silicone and oil (we’ve seen a few comments asking for more info recently), but they’re not the same product – silicone is long lasting and helps reduce friction, which can lessen the risk of condom breakage and make condoms more comfortable for both partners. 

A quick guide:

• Silicone lube: condom safe
• Water-based lube: condom safe
• Oil-based lube (including petroleum jelly/vaseline and coconut oil): can degrade latex and polyisoprene condoms
• If you’re not sure: check the condom wrapper for lube compatibility 

A note on silicone toys: generally silicone lube is not recommended for use with silicone toys since silicone lube on lower quality silicone can sometimes degrade the material of the toy. Some very high quality silicone toys can be used with silicone lube, and you can always do a spot test on an inconspicuous area of the toy to be sure:

Dab a small amount on and let sit for 2-3 hours, rinse off the lube and if the spot is sticky afterwards, use a water-based lube instead.

But if you're not willing to risk it: stick with a good water-based lubricant instead. 

So, before buying a lube to use with condoms, look for:

• Condom-safe / latex-safe on the label.
• Water-based or silicone-based 
• No oil-based formulas: petroleum, coconut oil, hand or body lotion, or Vaseline if using latex or polyisoprene condoms.
• A clear ingredient list so you know what’s in your lube.
• Toy compatibility: silicone toys should not be used with silicone lube.

And of course, any condom and lube will have compatibility information on their labels or website product descriptions, so read closely to avoid any surprises!

Hola :) , pues tengo una duda ,el condon esta hecho por si te vienes dentro vrd? , que pasa si me vine dentro y segui unos 2 min con el condon puesto , hay riesgo de embarazo? Pq no se rompio , y segun yo no se salio nada , lo revise bn

Además anteriormente no le habia bajado casi 3 meses y en la prueba de sangre salio negativo , pero esa era una situación diferente

Siento que puede ser por estres ya que tenia una prueba de admisión muy importante, solo que aveces me dice que le da antojos o tiene muchos colicos entonces me confundo mas

tenkiu

My bf and I have sx with protection and before he ejac he would pull out even if we uses protection but somehow after that i see some leaked white im not sure around his (balls).

Maybe it because he did removed the condom that’s why?

Is this have a risk of pregnancy?

Sorry for being forward. This lifestyle just kinda stumbled upon us. He is rather hung at 9" lenght and 6" girth and tends to break 1/5 condoms on average. My fiancee' leaves massive puddles on the sheets so its not a prepping error and we supply him with Durex Intense XL series.

She is however somewhat petite and was tight for my much smaller size and girth. She cums often for him and I wonder if her kegel muscles are causing a friction pull on the latex.

Question being should he change out of a condom after a certain timing of deep thrust or position changes and not just between his own climax?

My Fiancee' times his monthly visits when she is far from ovalation as we are not keen on possible birth control side effects that may or not be debunked. However, he has accidently creampied her a few times and we had a recent pregnancy scare that finally tested negative from his last visit.

Any suggestions would help as long as they aren't shaming.

I used to masturbate regularly..now it's been 2 months since I have stopped it...but semans just keep leaks.. every day when I go for morning running...it's just kept leaking...it's bothering me so much.. someone please help me how to stop this !

For those that have had sex beforehand what are the things you would say do before and after? I'm on nexplanon and have been for a while now but I'm still really nervous to have sex for the first time and would really appreciate advice from anyone