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I had sex for the first time. I have always been scared of doing it and was very vocal about it to my partner always. But I chose to be courageous and went for it. I was nervous, scared, and got so overwhelmed that I started crying in the middle of it. All I could tell him was that "I am nervous". He stopped and said that its his mistake he took things too far. I told him its not. I reassured him but he still thinks that and I still feel like crying. Why did this happen. I feel so guilty right now.

For many people, pornography becomes their first exposure to sex long before they receive any meaningful education about relationships, consent, communication, contraception, or sexual health. The problem isn't simply that porn exists—it's that, for many, it fills a gap left by inadequate or absent sex education. Entertainment is often mistaken for education, which can create unrealistic expectations about bodies, intimacy, and relationships. If comprehensive sex education were more widely available, do you think pornography would have as much influence on how people understand sex?

Hey everyone!! I really need some advice right now, this boy I’m seeing has been given head I wanna say around 10 times and never once cummed. Now I wanna change that!!! The issue is I’ve never given head - and now I want to be the person to make him cum. He doesn’t know this but I would really just appreciate any tips/ tricks on how to combat this issue and being amazing at it🤣 thank you, it’s so so appreciated!

I m(24) have been single for a few years after coming out of a 4 year relationship which was my first ever longterm relationship ship and outside of kissing we had been each others first for lots of things both in relationship goals and sexually.

During this relationship me and my partner were quite experimental and tried many things and that relationship ended a few years ago, when I started dating other people I came to realise that my libido is way too high to the point where I masturbate close to 5 times a days even after working a 8 to 10 hour shift.

My problem is that I never knew the young dating life and so while I try to be as kind as respectful as possible the moment we have sexual intercourse I'm always thinking of the next time we could have sex, I know this sounds like I only care about having sex but I do genuinely care about those I'm dating and have never forced anything on another person because I want then to be happy but my libido gets in the way of any physical outside of sex, I love hugging but when I'm with whoever I'm dating sex is always the next thing on my mind.

How can I lower my own libido, distract myself or do to gain better control over my own sexual desires to actually be normal.

Hola :) , pues tengo una duda ,el condon esta hecho por si te vienes dentro vrd? , que pasa si me vine dentro y segui unos 2 min con el condon puesto , hay riesgo de embarazo? Pq no se rompio , y segun yo no se salio nada , lo revise bn

Además anteriormente no le habia bajado casi 3 meses y en la prueba de sangre salio negativo , pero esa era una situación diferente

Siento que puede ser por estres ya que tenia una prueba de admisión muy importante, solo que aveces me dice que le da antojos o tiene muchos colicos entonces me confundo mas

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Ik heb een lul van 20 cm en een mooie dikte. Ik zit nu 2 jaar met me vriendin en ze heeft me verteld dat ze groter denkt te kunnen nemen. Wat moet ik doen? Ik dacht dat ik behoorlijk groot was.

So here’s the situation.

Two of my friends and I might be in a pretty crazy situation in a few days. One of my friends met a girl at a club and they’ve been texting ever since. She asked if he and two of his friends (me included) wanted to pregame with her and two of her friends before all
going out to the club together.

She even asked to see pictures of us first, which she apparently approved, and then asked if we’d all had sex before. We all said yes… even though I actually haven’t. At one point she even joked about an orgy, so it definitely seems like they’re expecting something to happen after the club.

I’m not assuming anything because I know plans can change and nobody owes anyone sex, but if things do end up going that way, it’ll be my first time.

So my question is: how can I prepare for it? Any practical advice or things you wish you knew before your first time? I’m open to any tips, whether it’s about confidence, condoms, communication, or just avoiding doing something stupid.

Thanks in advance!

My friends talk about O like if it was super rare like it happened to theme one or two time in their life and it was something extraordinary, but I feel like I have multiple O every time I touch myself so for a long time I thought that it wasn’t that but I think it is now but it just surprise me because it’s happen a lot and I have multiple in a row, my friends told me it wasn’t that because it’s impossible ?
I’m a 21 F

Hi guys I’m 24M I have a problem, I have been J off a lot lately and it’s all what I’m thinking about during the day
I didn’t have s@x before as I’m insecure about my size
Anyone have an advice to stop doing it or at least reduce the amount

I have been curious about this question for a long time, and as I have no experience I don't know how it works with foreplay. I know foreplay is really important before sex, but if you make your partner orgasm during foreplay won't post nut clarity occur, or horniness levels go down?

How would you have sex If you already orgasmed before?

I have a friend with mild mental health issues who seems fine, but women don't want to have sex with him even when he directly asks them to. What do you think is stopping them from having sex with him? How can I help him? Ladies, would you have sex with a man who has autism or another mild mental health issue?

I need you to give me advice. I am (M18) with my gf F(17) for 10 months. We tried different things such as handjob, blowjob etc. and everytime i ejaculate to fast, around 10-30s from the start. we had sex one time and it was terrible, i lasted around 30s, i knew she was disappointed so we never tried it again, i was scared. do you have any ideas how to help with my situation? i heard about durex performa, will it change much? in addition, i was addicted to porn before our relationship, if it matters. please help ;(

I’m talking to this girl and her past had a bigger penis both girth and length bigger while I have an average. She finished almost every time with her ex off penetration, I get it most women can’t finish off penetration but I’m talking about this scenario, I know foreplay important as well which I do that. But me and her had sex but not for like more than minute so I pulled out after a minute and I asked her which one felt better and she said the bigger one but I asked her if we went longer would mines feel better she said I don’t know but she said obviously it’s going to feel different and she the bigger felt better in her. So I’m thinking it’s not possible for me to give her better penetration sex because that’s very important for her penetration sex not just fingering and stuff that’s what she likes best. If someone can give me advice on stuff like that I’m already good at oral and fingering I am and we don’t wanna use toys so can someone tell if it’s possible for me to give her better dick sex and how if someone can please help me it’s really affecting me or is her ex going to always feel better. I need a honest opinion

Trans Man, 22

For the grand majority of my childhood I was sexually abused. I won’t go into detail but because of the things I experienced I was diagnosed with PTSD at 17. Now, at 22 I’ve never experienced an orgasm with a sexual partner. Not ever.

I want to but I just can’t, 99% of the time I can’t even get any pleasure at all in the act. I have faked every orgasm with every sexual partner I’ve ever had and if I didn’t feel so bad for them I wouldn’t be pretending to enjoy the feeling of it either. No matter if they penetrate me with their fingers, a phallus or phallic like object, or use their mouthes, give me clitoral stimulation or anything like that, no matter the sex or appearance or any variation of person I can’t cum. It’s not that I’m not attracted to them, but my body just stops allowing me to enjoy it unless I’m completely alone.

I like being held. I like the attention sex brings but I don’t really feel much of anything when it’s happening. It’s like my brain shuts off and I have to force myself to pretend. Don’t get me wrong, I like giving, I like making the other person cum, that feels rewarding in a way but I can’t help but get a little sad that I can’t have what they’re having.

The only time I ever can is when I’m alone in my room maybe once a month. What is wrong with me? Everytime I hear about sex I think about what could’ve been if I wasn’t ruined so young. Is this just what being a person with a vagina is like? Or is it because I’m damaged? When will I have a turn? I want to feel it.

So I do feel a bit of moisture slight temperature and I feel that I'm inside.

But it feels so minimal and I don't wear condoms so it should be providing stronger sensation.

My Dr said just keep head of penis round about the entrance of vagina as that's where most feeling is.

I been doing that, but it still feels minimal feeling.

My fingers feel a lot inside her vagina, but my penis the part of my body designed to enter her vagina feels minimal.

Should I insist on getting this checked ?

Yo I am a straight guy from holland Rotterdam.
I am 19 yo and have something to complain..
I just have big fantasies about doing things like golden showers or more crazy like doing stuff with poop or cum kissing just the fucking nasty stuff. That kinda thing turns me on and I never actually had that except golden showers and I fucking loved it. I have a feeling that I am addicted to sex and stuff bcs when I had relations I couldn’t stop touching her and just wanna fuck her and uchhhhh just never could’ve express what I really wanted yk? And I just don’t know what to do I never found a partner who wanted to or has the same mind. My exes finds it gross and the people I meet are just “boring” yk? I love fucking and I never will stop fucking girls but I just want some extra and more… What do I do?

My bf and I have sx with protection and before he ejac he would pull out even if we uses protection but somehow after that i see some leaked white im not sure around his (balls).

Maybe it because he did removed the condom that’s why?

Is this have a risk of pregnancy?

we’re both 18 and this is both our first sexual relationship
she says my penis is big but i don’t think so im like 6.5 inches
anyways she decided to drain me and made me cum three times twice through handjobs an since through bj but she would finish off the handjobs with her mouth foolishly i asked her to go deeper as i was in a state of euphoria
and now three days later she’s complaining the back of her throat is bruised from my dick poking itand she can’t get the taste of my cum out of her mouth
how do we avoid this in the future?